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Foreword
In recent years, the "sky-high bride price" in some rural areas has intensified, and new forms and variants have emerged. In addition to cash and the "three golds", it is also derived into houses, cars, passbooks, etc. In some areas, the man is even required to transfer a large amount of cash directly into the woman's account as a sign of good faith.
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The phenomenon of "sky-high bride price" is becoming more and more serious in some rural areas, and even young men have borrowed money for marriage.
Recently, when he went to his girlfriend's hometown in Inner Mongolia to propose, the woman's parents proposed to pay a bride price of 200,000 yuan and buy "three golds" (gold rings, gold necklaces, and gold earrings), and also asked to buy a house of more than 100 square meters in Changsha, which required Chen Jianxiong to pay a down payment.
Faced with a high fee of nearly one million yuan, Chen Jianxiong felt pressure and had to borrow money from everywhere. He said frankly: "Before the marriage is over, you have to owe a lot of debts first." ”
Let's take a look at what everyone is saying!
Netizen comments
Netizen: If you can't afford the bride price, you can find someone who doesn't want a bride price, and if you want a bride price, you can find a bride price.
Anyway, I think there are few strange things that ask for a high bride price, and most people still ask for a little symbolism, and then let their daughters take them away.
Netizen: I can't afford to get married, is it really just a matter of bride price [awkward laughter]
I don't have a wife and want a wife, but I don't care if I have a wife and I marry and have a child, and now I can see it more and more clearly [Look]
Netizen: This woman will definitely be cherished, our naked marriage is not much better, but it is even more sad
It's very important to meet the right person, if you meet the wrong person, let alone a thousand yuan of clothes, even a million clothes are still washed as if they were picked up from the trash
Netizen: I don't understand, why do you want to suck the blood of the whole family to get married
There are a few people who have this ability, and nine out of ten people are ordinary people
Netizen: The bride price and dowry are equal, and men and women are equal
In this way, it makes no sense for everyone to live in partnership, and all partners contribute capital, so that everyone is an antique.
Write at the end
As a member of society, each of us should face up to the problems behind the "sky-high bride price" and actively participate in the activities to change customs.
Abandon the psychology of comparison, establish a correct concept of marriage, and let marriage return to the sincere emotional foundation and the essence of mutual support.
Families should pay more attention to the economic situation and happiness index of young people, rather than using high-priced bride prices as bargaining chips, which bring unnecessary financial burdens to young people.
The government, social organizations and individuals can work together to better solve the problems caused by the "sky-high bride price" and reduce the burden of marriage for young people in rural areas.
The governance of high-priced bride price is a long-term task that requires the joint efforts of each and every one of us.
Through the guidance of policies, social participation and the change of concepts, we will eventually be able to return rural marriage customs to their origins, so that true love will not be hindered by the bride price.
It is hoped that more young people will be able to enter a happy marriage hall in a simple and sincere way under the impetus of changing customs.
The comments of netizens in the article reflect the diverse voices and opinions of society, but do not represent the position of this article
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