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In the midst of all the silence, a mysterious, anonymous blogger who calls himself "Sad Beef Noodles" suddenly appeared on Hong Kong social media. He published a shocking long declaration on the popular Weibo platform, which instantly ignited the heat of public opinion and became the focus of attention.
In his firm tone, the mysterious blogger claims to have the exact inside information that reveals a serious and inappropriate extramarital affair between Hong Kong music giant Alan Tam and his girlfriend! Immediately afterward, he did not hesitate to publicly release several photos of Alan Tam's back in a high-end hotel, trying to prove his truth.
This explosive news was like a bombshell, which instantly caused an uproar in the online world, and made the love life of the highly respected "principal" musician Alan Tam fall into unprecedented doubts and speculation.
The veteran musician, known as the "Five Tigers of Wenna", once confessed in public that having two wives at the same time troubled him, and even caused his first wife to choose to escape into the void to find peace of mind.
Go back to that era of endless dreams and rebellious passions - the 60s of the last century. Born in Hong Kong to a family of six siblings, Alan Tam deserves the care of his parents as the only male in the family.
The reality is not so rosy. His father, Tam Jiangbai, firmly believed that only by following the traditional academic path could he find a way out in life, so he had high hopes that his son would become a lawyer or doctor with social status.
Contrary to his father's ideals, Alan Tam is like a rebel and doesn't care about these things. He indulged in the indulgence of nightclub culture and developed a keen interest in the soulful bands on stage.
With his outstanding singing talent, he quickly seized the opportunity and worked as a part-time singer in a nightclub. For him, music is an inseparable passion in his heart.
Faced with such an unprofessional lifestyle of his son, the stern father was helpless, and whenever he saw his miserable report card, he would be furious and reprimand this unsuccessful child.
However, this effort is obviously playing the piano to the cow, not only failed to curb Alan Tam's fierce love for music, but instead enabled him to find a group of companions with the same dream; In the face of family opposition and the hardships of life, they work hand in hand to compose the most beautiful chapter of youth with music!
Back in 1968, just as the conflict between Alan Tam and his family escalated to a boiling point, a rare opportunity quietly came. He was fortunate to join a strong band composed of Chen Baixiang, Yip Zhiqiang, Chan Pak Sun, Pang Jianxin, Chen You and other outstanding people, thus opening a new chapter in his music career.
Despite the bumpy road in the early days, and the uncertain future of the band's development, the gods of fate do not seem to have completely given up on these young people. The turning point came in 1970 at an unprecedented band competition, where Alan Tam was undaunted and showed the fearless courage of gamblers, and finally won the championship with a seemingly unlucky "loser" band name, and has since become famous.
Although his family still hopes that Alan Tam can return to school, he knows his heart's desire and resolutely chooses this thorny music path. Soon after, after careful planning, he and his former comrades-in-arms Chen You, Peng Jianxin, Ye Zhiqiang and newcomer Zhong Zhentao successfully formed the popular "Wenna Band".
The debut album has attracted a lot of attention since its release, and has been warmly received not only by fans in the home market, but also by the entire Southeast Asian region.
They once held an unprecedented concert in Macau, and the atmosphere was so hot that it was suffocating, and it became the most brilliant moment of the "Wenna Five Tigers" in the 70s and 80s of the 20th century.
In the days when his career was at the peak, Alan Tam met a like-minded woman - Yang Jiewei. Two young and fiery hearts meet each other through music, and after a romantic encounter, they begin a sweet romance.
For Alan Tam, who has already achieved certain achievements, all the struggles and waits in the past are to marry this woman and spend the rest of his life together.
Alan Tam and Yang Jiewei's marriage plan encountered strong opposition from the Yang family without suspense. As a member of a traditional family, the Yang family is deeply concerned about the risks of their children entering a musical family.
At a time when the music industry was seen as a place for idlers, the shadow of frivolous people was a source of concern for any parent.
In the face of such great pressure, although Alan Tam's deep friendship with Yang Jiewei continues, the weight of the Yang family still makes him confused. He once wanted to let go of this rare relationship.
However, the famous singer's impassioned words were like a sharp sword, deeply hitting the most tired corner of Alan Tam's heart. He couldn't help but fall into deep thought, and vowed to protect this deep emotion, work hard, climb the peak of his career, and make unremitting efforts to create his own brilliant career.
At the same time, he solemnly promised Yang Jiewei that he would give her endless love and care, so that she could always feel the warmth from the bottom of her heart.
In 1981, they held a low-key wedding in the American city of Las Vegas. Since then, Yang Jiewei has begun to make unsung dedication and become a solid backing for Alan Tam's career development.
However, the good times did not last long. In order to maintain his public image, Alan Tam was reluctant to give Yang Jiewei an official name, and even the two made Dink's decision together.
Under the constraints of this agreement, whenever Yang Jiewei is pregnant, she must painfully choose to give up the fetus in her womb. And so it was, again and again, until her body was completely infertile.
It wasn't until many years later, when Yang's father died, that the marriage was made public. People are beginning to take a fresh look at the couple's private lives.
What's even more shocking is that late one night in 1995, Alan Tam, who was over 45 years old, openly violated his marriage vows and had an immoral relationship with a female fan Chu Yongting who was only in her twenties.
The following year, Alan Chu gave birth to a son for Alan Tam, and as soon as the news was revealed, it immediately attracted widespread attention from the entire Hong Kong society.
Yang Jiewei, who learned this sad news, felt like a thunderbolt from the sky, and naturally had mixed feelings in her heart. In order to gain her understanding and tolerance, Alan Tam had no choice but to hand over the financial power of the family to his wife, hoping to use this as a kind of redemption.
However, for Yang Jiewei, the seemingly important power given to her by her husband is actually insignificant. As a wife who has devoted herself to helping Alan Tam develop her career, all she really longs for is the sincere love that comes from the bottom of her heart.
However, Alan Tam's various actions have broken her heart into thousands of pieces. Seeing that he and his lover Alan Tam are in love and sweet, Alice Chu even did not shy away from replacing her position as his wife in public, taking care of Alan Tam's daily life under the eyes of relatives and friends, Yang Jiewei's inner world has nowhere to put it, and she has fallen into endless confusion and pain.
What's even more heart-wrenching is that although he ostensibly handed over the power of the family to her, Alan Tam secretly and generously donated most of his hundreds of millions of assets to the illegitimate son born to Alice Chu.
In the face of such a heavy blow, Yang Jiewei finally woke up to the fact that in Alan Tam's heart, she had never gotten true love, and her original choice was a complete mistake.
Looking back on the past, it was precisely because I believed his oath again and again that I stepped into this family without hesitation. But now, when she looks around, she realizes that this home has long been changed beyond recognition.
The husband has focused all his love on the mistress and the illegitimate child, while she is left out in the cold and ruthlessly abandoned in the corner.
After experiencing all this, Yang Jiewei, who once went all out to support her husband's career, chose to stay away from the world, escaped into the empty door, and completely abandoned the hustle and bustle of the world, just to find the last spiritual home.
The wife, who had spent the ups and downs together, quietly left Alan Tam's life.
Since the beginning of his marriage, he began to ignore the emotional needs of his wife Yang Jiewei, intentionally or unintentionally. After marriage, he not only concealed his extramarital affair with her lover Zhu Yongting, but also secretly gifted most of the family's property to the illegitimate son born to her lover.
Such acts are undoubtedly the most serious harm and betrayal to his wife.
A seemingly brilliant road of love ended miserably because of his exaggerated and impatient personal behavior, which makes people sigh!
The withering and blooming of the flower of life is always so short, we should cherish the loved ones around us more. Despite Alan Tam's remarkable achievements in his career, the price he has paid on his emotional journey has been far greater than all of us expected.
There is such a wife who once gave for him wholeheartedly, but in the end she had to be hurt and leave this world alone to find deep inner peace.
In the face of such an ending, who can ruthlessly say the words "this is reasonable" after learning about it? Each of us longs for ourselves to always maintain a humble and kind heart, so that life in this world becomes full of warmth and love, instead of indulging in worldly food and wine and making those decisions that will be regretted for a lifetime.