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Preface
If there is a person in the Hong Kong entertainment industry who can be called "the scumbag grandfather", then it must be Alan Tam. , a superstar who has been in the music industry for decades, the most exciting plot in his life did not happen on the stage, but the "divorce past" staged in the theater of love.
Alan Tam's dream of fame began with the beautiful love
The story begins in 1967, when 17-year-old Alan Tam was forming his first band "Losers", and accidentally met a gentle and generous young beautician Yang Jiewei. Yang Jiewei fell in love with this young man who loved music at first sight, and took the initiative to offer suggestions and fully support his music dream.
A few years later, under the all-round operation package of Yang Jiewei, the well-known "Losers" band was renamed "Wenner Band", and Alan Tam finally gained a firm foothold in the Hong Kong music scene. The two who are in love take advantage of Alan Tam's career to take off, and they belatedly got married in Las Vegas in 1981, opening their "gentle township".
No one could have imagined that just when Alan Tam's career was at its peak, an extramarital affair quietly struck, giving them a slap in the face of their "honeymoon period".
Alan Tam, who was 45 years old at the time, met a young female fan in her early twenties, Zhu Yongting, at an event. Maybe it was the youthful frivolity, or maybe it was the allure of appearance, Alan Tam soon started an affair with this female fan. Soon, Zhu Yongting unexpectedly became pregnant and gave birth to a child, which is undoubtedly a bolt from the blue for Alan Tam and Yang Jiewei, who have been "secretly married" for many years.
Although Alan Tam assured his angry wife that "women and children outside will never affect your status", what he did next was the opposite of what he promised.
In order to whitewash the peace in front of outsiders, Alan Tam has always denied the rumors of having illegitimate children. Although he had already settled the "mother and son" at home, he insisted on not letting Yang Jiewei take the initiative to take care of them. What hurts Yang Jiewei the most is that for the development of her career, she was asked by Alan Tam to have an abortion many times, which made it difficult for her to get pregnant.
His wife was hurt the most and finally chose to become a monk
In the face of Alan Tam's various injuries and betrayals, Yang Jiewei still worked hard to maintain this marriage. It wasn't until one day, when she accidentally bumped into a scene at home that she was changing diapers for the mother and son in the "outer room", that she completely realized that her position in this family was in jeopardy.
What made her heartbroken was that during the low period of her career, Alan Tam actually transferred most of the family's property to the name of her illegitimate son. Faced with such a naked betrayal by her husband, Yang Jiewei finally couldn't bear it anymore and decided to break off her relationship with Alan Tam.
Yang Jiewei, who had experienced the vicissitudes of life, resolutely chose to become a monk and took refuge in Buddhism to seek spiritual rebirth. And Alan Tam realized in hindsight how despicable everything he had done. He once blamed himself in public: "I was too wrong and caused irreparable damage to Yang Jiewei." I appeal to everyone not to follow the ...... of a 'scumbag' like me."
Once upon a time, Alan Tam was a well-known king-level singer. But with the exposure of this relationship scandal, his image in the outside world has been completely distorted, even if there are still many fans who have more than enough feelings for him.
Whether it is the pinnacle of his music career or the tragedy of married life, Alan Tam can be said to have used his life to interpret the truth of "too much". For those fans who still love him, they may have long been accustomed to separating the bright side of human nature from the ugly side.
But for Yang Jiewei, who once gave selflessly but was betrayed, I am afraid that the pain has left a permanent trace in the depths of her soul. We can only hope that Alan Tam can sincerely reflect and repent in the last days of his life, and regain the height of morality and humanity with an innocent and kind "juvenile heart".
I also wish Yang Jiewei to find the true meaning of life in Buddhism and obtain a new sublimation of life.
The impact of Alan Tam and Yang Jiewei's divorce on them
Alan Tam and Yang Jiewei's divorce did have a certain negative impact on their careers:
After Alan Tam's extramarital affair scandal was exposed, his image in the outside world has been completely distorted, even though there are still many fans who have more than enough feelings for him. As the "scumbag grandfather", his character and morality have been questioned, which will undoubtedly affect his reputation and popularity in the music scene.
At the 50th anniversary commemorative concert of the Winner band, the atmosphere became solemn and shocking because of the divorce of Alan Tam and Yang Jiewei. This sentiment will undoubtedly affect the audience experience at the scene.
Alan Tam was emotionally disturbed because he recalled the harm he had done to Yang Jiewei, choked up and cried, and could hardly continue singing. It can be seen that this marriage change has had a certain impact on his psychological state and artistic creation.
epilogue
Alan Tam has been regarded as the holy hand of heavenly entertainment throughout his life, and his achievements in the music career are undoubtedly legendary. However, this man, who was so outstanding in his career, appeared so immoral in his married life.
His heinous extramarital affair and handling not only completely hurt the feelings of his loyal wife Yang Jiewei, but also caused her irreparable physical and mental trauma. In the face of such a major betrayal, Yang Jiewei finally chose to become a monk, hoping to find spiritual solace and redemption.
We have to sigh that Alan Tam's behavior in this marriage is too despicable and unbearable. As an artist, he should be a role model and role model for society, but he shows the worst of humanity. While enjoying the achievements and glory of his career, he should always be vigilant and consider whether his behavior is in line with the moral code.
Although time has passed, those injuries are difficult to undo them. We may be able to forgive Alan Tam for his artistic achievements, but it is difficult to forgive him for the sins he committed in marriage. He should take this past as a lesson to examine his life and be cautious about feelings and responsibilities.
At the same time, we also sincerely wish that Yang Jiewei can find peace and solace in Buddhism, and re-establish her life values. It is truly embarrassing that she once gave herself selflessly, but she was betrayed in such a way. We should learn to cherish the loved ones around us, cherish those sincere emotions, and not let love become a betrayal and hurt.
The meaning of life is far more than achievement, but also whether we can be honest with each other on the road of life and cherish each other. Alan Tam's life experience has undoubtedly taught us a painful lesson in human nature, which is worth pondering for each of us.
Let us take this as a lesson and strive to do good deeds on the road of life and create a better society together.