In the ancient East, the state of ceremonies,
Inherited for thousands of years, the culture is splendid.
Gift-giving is the transmission of emotion,
It is also the precipitation of culture.
Today, I would like to give the taboo of gift-giving,
Tell the story and enjoy it with you.
I hope you can understand it after reading it,
Gifts are still exchanged, no longer confused.
First of all, you need to know what people want to give a gift.
Don't be blind, just pick and choose.
Red things and white things, each has its own attention,
The meaning of color needs to be carefully considered.
Red, representing festivity and auspiciousness,
Weddings and birthdays are the most appropriate.
White, though pure as snow,
But in case of white things, Fang is solemn.
If you send red to the bereaved home,
That is a taboo,
It makes people unhappy and the relationship is distant.
送礼之道,首要acquaintance。
Furthermore, the value of gift-giving needs to be considered.
Too extravagant, not desirable.
Precious things, though they show sincerity,
However, it is easy to make people feel pressure, and it becomes a burden.
The courtesy is light and affectionate, and this is true.
A bouquet of flowers, a box of tea,
Simple, affectionate.
Such a gift is intimate.
In addition, gift-giving needs to pay attention to timing,
Not too soon, not too late.
Festive celebrations, which need to be prepared in advance,
So as not to be in a hurry, lose etiquette.
And when you visit, if you have a gift,
It needs to be offered at the right time after the greeting.
Too abrupt, easy to make people embarrassed,
Lost the number of courtesies, and also lost the emotion.
In addition, gift-giving also needs to consider regional customs.
Local cultural differences need to be carefully understood.
If the south likes sweet, the north is salty,
When giving gifts, it varies from place to place.
If you don't know, blindly give gifts,
It may violate taboos and cause misunderstandings.
Understand the customs, so that you can give gifts properly,
Make the recipient happy.
Also, don't go home empty-handed when giving gifts,
Even if it's a small heart,
It can also show your sincerity and concern.
To go home empty-handed is disrespectful to people,
It is also a neglect of etiquette.
Finally, you need to pay attention to the words when giving gifts.
In the words, reveal the sincerity.
A blessing, a greeting,
can make gifts more precious.
But if the words are frivolous and not sincere enough,
Then no matter how valuable a gift is, it will lose its meaning.
Therefore, when giving gifts, you need to speak appropriately,
Let the recipient feel that you are genuine.
Courtesy and exchange are the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation.
It is also an integral part of our daily lives.
Understand the taboos and precautions for gift-giving,
can make us more handy in the process of gift-giving,
It can also make the recipient feel our sincerity and care.
I hope that through this poem, you can have a deeper understanding of gift-giving,
In later life, you can pay more attention to etiquette,
Make our lives better and more harmonious.