In thousands of households in the mainland, it is not uncommon for parents to help their children complete their homework. But recently, a heart-wrenching incident in Wenzhou has forced people to re-examine this phenomenon.
In a homework tutoring, a father faced with his son Liangliang's (pseudonym) homework, his patience was gradually worn out, and his emotions were like wild horses on the loose. This behavior not only caused the child to suffer severe pain from a ruptured spleen and had to undergo emergency surgery, but also set off a big discussion in the society about the way of family education.
On an ordinary evening, Dad was sitting at his desk, patiently tutoring his son, Liangliang, who was in the third grade of elementary school. There are neat homework books and stationery on the desk, and Dad's face has a serious and serious expression. While looking at the problem, he used a pen to draw the steps to solve the problem on the paper, trying to make Liang Liang understand.
At first, Dad's voice was gentle, and he tried to explain the meaning of the question and the solution to the problem to Liang Liang in the most simple and easy-to-understand language. However, as the explanation deepened, Liangliang became more and more inattentive.
He fiddled with the stationery in his hand for a while, and wanted to go to the toilet when he was thirsty. Whenever Dad tried to draw his attention back to the topic, he would find all sorts of reasons to change the subject.
Daddy's patience is being worn out little by little. He began to raise his voice, trying to make Liang Liang realize the seriousness of the problem in a serious tone.
But Liang Liang didn't seem to care, he was still immersed in his own world. This made Dad extremely frustrated and angry. He felt that he had put in a lot of effort, but Liangliang didn't appreciate it at all.
Just then, Dad saw the pomegranate on the table. Furious in his heart, he picked up the pomegranate and slammed it into Liangliang's left abdomen.
The pomegranate made an arc in the air, and then slammed into Liangliang's body. Liang Liang was frightened by the sudden pain and screamed "It hurts", but then he quietly began to do his homework, and after Liang Liang's father saw his son's performance, half of the anger in his heart disappeared.
But unexpectedly, the next day, Liangliang's father was awakened by a rush of shouts. He hurriedly sat up from the bed, only to see Liangliang's pale face, clutching his stomach, fine beads of sweat oozing from his forehead, and a faint moan constantly came out of his mouth: "Dad, my stomach hurts so much......" This scene made his heart sink to the bottom instantly, and he recalled the impulsive behavior of the night before, and the pomegranate that was smashed out by anger, and a strong uneasiness surged in his heart.
Quickly got dressed, picked up Liangliang and rushed out of the house, stopped a taxi, and went straight to the Department of Children's Surgery of the Second Affiliated Hospital of Wenzhou Medical University. On the way to the hospital, he hugged Liang Liang tightly, trying to give him some comfort with his body temperature. He kept comforting Liangliang: "Don't be afraid, we will be at the hospital soon, and the doctor will definitely cure you." ”
After arriving at the hospital, Liangliang's father quickly registered and took Liangliang to the consultation room. The doctor examined Liang Liang in detail and asked about the previous night's condition. When he described the pomegranate's accident, the doctor's brow tightened and his expression became serious.
Subsequently, the doctor arranged further tests for Liangliang. The results of the examination showed that the bright spleen had ruptured and was bleeding heavily.
The doctor told Liangliang's father that Liangliang's ruptured spleen was most likely the result of being hit by a pomegranate. Due to severe bleeding from a ruptured spleen, only excision surgery can be performed.
After hearing the news, Dad felt extremely remorseful and remorseful. He realizes that he has made a wrong decision on impulse, causing irreparable damage to Liangliang.
The incident has aroused widespread resonance among parents, many of whom have reported that they have faced similar difficulties when tutoring their children's studies, and sometimes they feel disappointed and at a loss. The tragedy is a wake-up call to them, reminding them that parental emotional control is critical to their children's development.
Parents are starting to talk about their experiences, how to be patient when tutoring their children's homework, how to build effective communication bridges with their children, and how to stay calm under pressure. Some parents even sign up for parent education courses to learn more advanced educational methods and emotion management skills.
Many people believe that parents are under a lot of pressure and challenges in the process of tutoring their children's homework, and they need more support and guidance. Therefore, they called on all levels of society to strengthen publicity and guidance on family education, so as to improve parents' educational literacy and ability, and help them more effectively cope with various challenges and problems in family education.
In addition, society should strengthen the protection and care for young people to prevent the recurrence of similar tragedies. For example, schools can strengthen mental health education to help students develop positive attitudes and mindsets towards learning. Communities can hold family education lectures and activities to provide parents with opportunities for communication and learning; The government may introduce relevant policies and regulations to protect the lawful rights and interests and well-being of minors.
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