When meeting a man she likes, a woman often listens to the sweet words of the other party, and it is difficult to distinguish between true love and false affection. This is an emotion that women are easily confused by and need to keep a clear head and not be deceived by false words.
His promises are always reliable, and his words of "love you alone" are trustworthy. Everything he says is sincere, which makes people feel that he is sincere and sincere.
Dear ladies, you must realize that all people can lie, but some lie with white intentions and others with the intention of deception. This is an unavoidable fact of our lives.
Even if you like someone again, keep your emotions in check. Although he is good to you now, it doesn't mean that he will always be like this. Don't rely too much on him, learn to be independent and self-reliant. That way, even if he leaves you, you can face the future alone.
In real life, many men will take care of women at first, but with the passage of time and the weakening of the relationship, this attitude will gradually disappear. This is a very common phenomenon that needs to be seriously faced and dealt with.
On the weekend, Ximei talked about marriage with a netizen she had known for a long time. Ximei has been divorced for three years and is raising her children alone, although she is not rich, she does not have many complaints about it.
When I asked her if she had ever considered remarrying, she replied that someone had confessed to her and that her family had introduced her, but she politely refused after the inspection.
In general, she meant that she didn't want to compromise and didn't want to make the same mistakes.
She had divorced her ex-husband because of domestic violence. She was very shocked at the time because her ex-husband usually seemed very honest and gentle. She never thought that she would get divorced because of domestic violence, but the reality made her have to face such a situation.
It wasn't until after she got married that she gradually discovered that her ex-husband was not as weak as he appeared to be. He is a bit radical in his personality, this is because he was violent by his stepfather since he was a child, and family reasons have made him form such a personality.
She told me that they often had disputes after marriage, and the root cause was "his family". Her ex-husband's family inadvertently affected their marriage, and she finally chose to divorce.
Undoubtedly, when studying marriage and gender relations, the family of origin is an unavoidable issue.
As a netizen said, whether a man can "be good to you for a lifetime" as he said depends not only on his words and deeds, but also on his family background.
In many cases, "family" can reveal the true side of a person, so that their disguise no longer obscures their original face.
Whether the parents are affectionate or not
Men are often influenced by their parents as they grow up. Whether parents are affectionate or not has a profound impact on men's view of love.
Unconsciously, men also often imitate what adults look like and treat their emotions and partners.
A man with loving parents, especially a man whose father knows how to care for his mother, is often more responsible, and knows how to take care of and care for women. The presence of such men gives us hope because they can be good husbands, fathers, and role models.
When faced with relationship problems, he always respects each other like a parent, cares about each other, and does not hurt each other. This shows his seriousness and sense of responsibility towards the marital relationship.
On the other hand, if the relationship between the parents is not good, especially if the father is disrespectful to the mother and always orders her to do things, the child will also be affected and become arrogant.
In the relationship with women, the cherishing and caring for women is relatively rare, but it is full of male laziness and endless justification and command. This situation should not be accepted, and it is more necessary for men to improve their own quality, pay attention to women's needs and feelings, and learn to truly treat others.
With such a man, a woman only feels tired and helpless.
A man who has a pair of parents who have a good relationship is likely to give you good treatment for life, and conversely, if his parents have a bad relationship, then he will treat you completely differently.
Whether it's a mom boy or not
Even if a man has a delicate appearance and a warm personality, if he is a mother's boy, you had better stay away from him as soon as possible. This is to ensure that you are not negatively affected by his over-dependence on your mother when you get along with him. Pay attention to choosing a truly independent man as your partner.
There is a big difference between a man who loves to rely on his mother and a man who is filial to his parents. A man who is filial to his parents will solve problems from the perspective of fairness and justice while protecting the interests of the family. This kind of man will not be afraid of difficulties, nor will he act as fragile as a protective vase. On the contrary, when action has to be taken, they do not hesitate to decide their course.
Everyone knows that a person must have their own thinking and decision-making skills. If you blindly obey your mother, then you are no different from a child who cannot live independently. This is not the result of our plan.
Ma Bao Man refers to the kind of man who talks about "my mother says" all day long, and has to listen to his mother's opinion no matter how big or small, and lacks independent thinking. This kind of man has no opinions.
With such a man, you will only become more and more unpleasant. Thankfully, you didn't have contact with his mother, which allowed you to keep your life and some little goodies. It is advisable to take a good look at the relationship and see if it is worth the effort.
Once in contact with her mother, he always puts her first, and you are just her retinue. It may make you feel uncomfortable, but maybe you need to understand and tolerate his relationship with his mother better.
In conclusion, when you have an argument with his mother, he will tend to protect her. Don't expect him to be nice to you forever.
The attitude of your in-laws towards you
Although the relationship is a matter between two people, the reality is inevitably related to the parents. Still, we have the opportunity to enjoy the world that belongs to both of us.
No matter how far away they are, they can't avoid being affected, whether big or small. This is because each of us lives in a society that influences each other.
If you want to know if a man can be good to you for life, you need to pay attention to the attitude of his parents, especially his mother.
Many people believe that the happy relationship of a husband and wife is closely related to the relationship between in-laws, although this sentence is somewhat absolute, but there is still some truth in it.
Your in-laws are like a booster for your relationship.
If your in-laws treat you well, your family life will be more harmonious and happy. Even if there is a slight friction, it won't matter much.
On the other hand, if your in-laws are unkind to you and always talk about you in your man's ear, this will have a lot of negative effects on your relationship. Over time, men's perceptions may also change. It is hoped that the in-laws and daughters-in-law will respect each other, treat each other sincerely, and create a harmonious family life together.
After all, it was our parents who raised us and were bothered by their urgings, even if we didn't believe it at first. In this way, our feelings will also be affected and become unstable.
Conclusion:
Marriage and love are different and need to be carefully considered considering the complexity of marriage. In fact, a man's commitment does not completely determine whether he will be good to you for the rest of his life, so we need more attention to evaluate his worth.
Since he was a child, his family has always had an influence on him. In many cases, his family situation can also reflect the reality of the problem.
Whether he loves each other with his parents, whether he is considered a mom boy, or how his in-laws treat him, they all reflect his view of love and his attitude towards you. These situations are very important for everyone's relationship.
Love is not just a bond between two people, it is easily affected by the trivial things of life. Whether a man can do his role well throughout his life depends on whether his "family" is sound.
With this information, you can get a preliminary idea of how reliable he is and whether he is trustworthy.