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On that beautiful day in 2011, the high-profile young actor Sha Yi and his beloved Hu Ke perfectly continued their relationship and walked towards the sacred marriage hall.
This happy couple is full of enthusiasm and expectation, and specially invited Cao Yunjin, He Yunwei and many other friends to witness the unwavering true love vow between them. However, what is unexpected is that Sha Yi's former partner Guo Degang is also among the invited guests, which has become a unique landscape.
Only three months have passed, when Sha Yi appeared on the hit variety show "Tonight's Play" again, Guo Degang mercilessly pointed to his sore spot: "Is our friendship so fragile? Why didn't you invite me to your wedding?" This sharp question made Sha Yi speechless for a while, he was full of confusion and uneasiness, and could only stumble to explain that it was because he was worried that it might affect Mr. Guo's busy work schedule.
However, Guo Degang did not seem to be satisfied with this answer, and he retorted with a resolute attitude: "May I ask what important business can I attend to during the lunch break? If you choose to hold a grand wedding banquet in the evening, then I may not be able to attend because of physical fatigue." This sharp response made Sha Yi feel even more embarrassed, and the atmosphere instantly became tense.
At a solemn ceremony a few years later, Sha Yi and Hu Ke joined hands with their baby son Anji to return home with a full load and won a number of important awards, and the audience applauded. However, at this moment, Guo Degang suddenly said something ridiculous, and the audience immediately burst into laughter.
Only Sha Yi and Hu Ke had embarrassed smiles, and the host He Jiong hurriedly stepped forward to clear the siege when he saw this, but Guo Degang still went his own way and continued to tease Anji.
Guo Qilin, who was on the side, finally couldn't help but stand up to stop his father: "Dad, it's a bit too much for you to say this. The atmosphere was at an impasse for a while, and it was not until He Jiong resubmitted the trophy to Sha Yi that the situation eased. Guo Degang's unintentional move made the originally happy and peaceful atmosphere instantly become solemn.
Looking back on that period of history, Deyun Club was facing an unprecedented predicament at that time. Xu Deliang, Wang Wenlin and other important members have publicly stated that they decided to leave Deyun Club due to treatment issues.
This undoubtedly brought a heavy blow to Deyun Club, not only led to the loss of a large number of talents, but also the whole team fell into the storm of public opinion that was accused of "squeezing employees' hard-earned money".
As the leader and soul of Deyun Club, Guo Degang has suffered huge controversy and blows from all walks of life. First of all, because of the "land occupation" incident, he stood directly at the center of the storm of public opinion;
The "beating incident" that followed made his relationship with Beijing TV even worse and broke down. In an instant, Guo Degang became the spokesperson of "vulgarity" in the mainstream cross talk circle, and suffered blockade and boycott from all directions.
Under the grim situation of internal and external difficulties, Deyun Club is facing an existential crisis, and many well-known cross talk actors such as Cao Yunjin, Li Jing, He Yunwei and others have chosen to leave, and the future is uncertain.
However, in stark contrast, Sha Yi and Hu Ke are at the peak of their careers. Although they have not yet been able to compete with superstars like Guo Degang, they are already household names and are loved by the audience.
The stark contrast between the two men's very different fates, one being hit hard and the other thriving, has sparked speculation.
Sha Yi did not invite Guo Degang to attend his wedding, a decision that sparked heated discussions and strong dissatisfaction on the Internet. Many netizens have expressed their speculations and comments on this.
Some people speculate that the reason why Sha Yi politely rejected his old friend Guo Degang, but warmly invited He Yunwei, Li Jing and others, who had conflicts with Mr. Guo, may be to deliberately avoid the internal disputes of Deyun Club back then.
At that time, Deyun Club did bear a huge impact from inside and outside. Internally, Xu Deliang, Wang Wenlin and other important figures set off a storm of leaving the team; externally, Guo Degang was exposed to negative news such as "occupying an area" and "beating people", and his reputation was seriously damaged.
Deyun Club, which had fallen into brain drain and team splitting, relied on the best efforts of Guo Degang and several staunch veterans to barely save itself from the brink of bankruptcy.
Just when Deyun Club is at stake, if Sha Yi insists on maintaining a close relationship with Guo Degang, I am afraid that it will have a negative impact on his career development. Therefore, in order to avoid being implicated, he can only make the difficult choice of rejecting his old friend.
From this point of view, although Sha Yi's behavior seems a little cold, it is also reasonable.
However, when Guo Degang jokingly called Anji "the child of himself and Hu Ke" at the Youku Festival, Hu Ke, as the protagonist, did not care too much. She candidly said that she has known Mr. Guo for many years and knows his unique personality and preferences - she likes to make innocuous jokes on appropriate occasions and bring fun to everyone.
For adults, such jokes may be just a pastime in life, but for young children, they can have a negative impact on their mental development.
In fact, Guo Degang's casual ridicule of other people's children in many variety shows is not an isolated case. For example, in the process of co-hosting the show with Zhu Dan, he skillfully responded to Zhu Dan's ridicule about "high income", which made Zhu Dan instantly fall into an embarrassing situation.
For example, when performing on the same stage with Liu Yan, Liu Yan did not dare to easily take over the topic thrown by Guo Degang, lest he fall into the "trap" carefully designed by him.
What's even more outrageous is that Guo Degang even openly called Qian's son "Guo Xiaobao", which attracted bursts of laughter from the audience. In popular talk shows such as "Smiling Proud Jianghu", he directly admitted that he once "conceived two children together" with Ms. Ningning, and all the children of the guests present were "included" and became his own flesh and blood.
Win a full house every time.
Although Guo Degang's casual ridicule of other people's children makes people feel a little weird like "Tang monk meat", this is not the case. It can be seen from the intimate interaction between Sha Yi and Guo Qilin in various variety shows that the personal friendship between the two can be described as deep, far beyond the tense and antagonistic state that the outside world speculated.
For example, in the domestic version of the popular variety show "Running Man" "Running Brothers", Sha Yi and Guo Qilin teamed up to create a much-talked-about "casserole" combination.
During the recording of the show, Sha Yi also shared photos with Guo Qilin on his personal social media many times, with the accompanying text showing the humor and wittiness of "Sha Yi".
From these intimate interactions, we can clearly see that there is no tension between the two as described in the outside world. In fact, this misunderstanding is likely to stem from Sha Yi's decision to "not invite Guo Degang to attend" at Sha Yi's wedding.
Looking back on that time, Deyun Club was facing unprecedented internal and external difficulties, and its founder Guo Degang also suffered a lot of accusations and suppression. However, as an old friend, Sha Yi would never be a stranger to his friend because of such a brief predicament, and the relationship was so estranged.
Then, a more credible explanation is that Deyun Club was at a critical moment at that time, and the outside world speculated that Sha Yi deliberately alienated Guo Degang, perhaps precisely to avoid disputes, so as not to affect the vigorous development of his career. From this point of view, although Sha Yi's choice is a little cold, it is also reasonable.
Time flies, and all the shadows have dissipated into nothingness. The relationship between the two friends is still as close as ever, and Guo Degang's familiarity and closeness to Sha Yi's family is the best proof. Therefore, the rumors on the Internet that the friendship between the two has broken down for many years is obviously groundless and purely false!