From beginning to end, Meng Fei gave Le Jia meticulous care and understanding, and this deep friendship made them spend many good times together on the stage of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", so they were loved by the audience and were known as "golden partners". However, as time flies, things are wrong, and Lejia's temper gradually becomes more and more elusive. He began to criticize Meng Fei in public without any scruples, and even asked the female guests in public: "What do you think is the difference between holding me and holding Meng Fei?" This undoubtedly deeply stung Meng Fei's dignity and made the whole atmosphere tense in an instant.
Faced with this situation, many staff members have expressed their dissatisfaction with Lejia's words and deeds, they believe that Lejia lacks respect for others and always tries to force others to accept his views. However, Meng Fei has always adhered to this friendship and tried to repair the relationship between the two through tolerance. However, the bonds of friendship eventually broke. In 2013, Lejia announced his withdrawal from "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", which marked a break between them. After Lejia left, the show's ratings showed a steady upward trend, and he realized that he relied more on the platform to increase his popularity.
As an award-winning speech trainer, Lega is known for his sharp rhetoric and strong personal style. He firmly believes that only by using sharp language can speeches be powerful and persuasive. However, this professional habit also led to his gaffes in his daily life, often behaving too harshly towards others.
During the recording of the "Super Speaker" program, Le Jia fell into a state of madness due to excessive drinking. He viciously abused and attacked each guest, and even when Venus stepped forward to dissuade him, he even scolded and belittled Venus as a "eunuch". What's even more bizarre is that Le Jia also tried to hug the female guests, and even forcibly wanted to kiss each other. Lu Yu kindly reminded him that he should pay attention to social etiquette, but he ignored it and defended himself eloquently, saying that he was engaged in the speech industry, which was fundamentally different from making a TV show.
When it comes to the conflict scenes during the recording of the show, the most shocking thing is that Le Jia angrily yelled at the always elegant Dou Wentao, "Get out"! This fierce quarrel made Dou Wentao finally unable to bear it anymore and left the scene angrily.
After this incident, Lejia quickly fell into the cusp of online criticism, and was ridiculed by netizens as "going crazy with alcohol". Under the pressure of the reversal, he had to issue a public apology. However, this seemingly humble apology is more like a well-planned "whitewashing" operation in an attempt to mislead the public into believing that he is a person of "high moral character".
Le Jia has suffered from extreme scarcity of material life since he was a child, and he has a deep inferiority complex buried deep in his heart. His first wife was a typical "white rich beauty", with a superior family background, strong financial strength and beautiful appearance, which are all the life that Le Jia dreams of.
Through this marriage, he hopes to fill his inner inferiority complex. However, life after marriage did not go as he wanted, and his wife was always prejudiced against his origins and hostile to him and his family. This discrimination further deepened Lejia's inferiority complex and prompted him to make up his mind to improve his education.
Soon after the divorce, Lejia successfully upgraded her education to undergraduate level through self-study. Subsequently, he met a highly educated and intellectual woman who loved reading, and the two fell in love, and finally entered the palace of marriage. However, Lejia's irritable and controlling personality made his wife unbearable, and the two finally chose to break up.
After a second failed marriage, Lejia is still eager to pursue highly educated women. His third wife was an elite graduate of Harvard University, and her education was flawless. However, the marriage also failed to escape its breakdown.
Le Jia grew up in a poor environment since he was a child, and the deepest shadow in his childhood memory is when his mother took him to beg on the street, and encountered the indifference and contempt of the unit leaders. That scene deeply stung the young Lejia, and since then he has longed for the attention and recognition of others.
As an adult, Lejia, no matter what kind of profession he is engaged in, is eager to be the center of attention. He often attacked others with harsh words, and did not hesitate to hurt the dignity of others, just to win the attention of everyone.
Behind this incomparably ardent desire, there seems to be a kind of ambivalence of inferiority and arrogance. Le Jia has a deep sense of inferiority about his origin, educational background, family environment, etc., but on the other hand, he is deeply trapped in seeking the approval and praise of others, so he often uses fierce rhetoric to assert his existence.
When his career peaked, this ambivalence was exacerbated to the extreme. Le Jia showed his bohemian and arrogant side in many public occasions, provoking everyone present, trying his best to be the focus of attention of the audience.
His shouting at Dou Wentao, his humiliation of Jin Xing, and his offensive behavior towards female guests are all concrete manifestations of this bad mentality.
Le Jia seems to have completely forgotten that he is no longer the humble poor young man, but a well-known star in the entertainment industry. But the shadow in his heart still could not dissipate, so that he gradually lost the way forward, and finally embarked on the dangerous road of self-indulgence.
In his youth, he was known as a "champion" in the sales industry, and he was adept at using sharp words to sell a variety of products, whether it was cosmetics or insurance, it was as easy for him to find out what he wanted.
It wasn't long before the brilliant and eloquent salesman was promoted to the company's own "sales champion".
As a "sales champion", Lejia must frequently give public speeches and share his sales experience. As time went on, he discovered and showed his talent for the art of oratory, standing at the center of the stage without fear and making a gushing statement.
Subsequently, Lejia resolutely left the original sales position and devoted himself to the cause of speech training. His theories were widely acclaimed and quickly made their mark in the field.
Jiangsu Satellite TV's blind date program "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" also extended an olive branch to him at the right time and invited him to join as the emotional mentor of the show.
With his outstanding talent and unique insights, Le Jia shined on the stage of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", and together with Meng Fei and Huang Han, they formed a "golden partner" that was once loved by the audience.
However, Lejia's arrogance finally destroyed all this, forcing him to leave the stage that once made him glorious.
After leaving the stage of "Do Not Disturb", Le Jia was honored to receive the invitation of the "Super Speaker" program to serve as a speech instructor. However, his personality traits have not changed in any way due to the change in the working environment, and he has lost control of his emotions many times during the recording process, which has triggered severe condemnation and criticism from the media and public opinion. The former "drunken spiller" instantly became the focus of social attention, and under pressure, Lejia had to issue a public apology.
Since then, Lejia, who was once known as a "master of speech training" and "a leader in the hosting industry", has begun to enter a downhill career.
Although he tried to regain the public's attention through his daughter, he was unable to turn the tide in the end, so he had to reluctantly return to his original field of speech and embark on a long journey of self-redemption.