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In 2020, the popular student Huang Xuan officially announced his relationship, breaking the rumor that he was "adopted" by the eldest sister in the circle.
It's just that fans didn't expect that in this entertainment industry where changing girlfriends is like changing clothes, Huang Xuan's relationship actually lasted for 4 years.
What's even more surprising is that Huang Xuan once bluntly said that he was afraid of marriage.
The reason for the fear of marriage is closely related to the loss of 3 close relatives in 3 years.
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1. Broken families create lonely children
Huang Xuan has lived in a family that is not harmonious since he was a child. His parents often quarreled over trivial matters, and officially ended the marriage when he was 12 years old.
After his parents divorced, he followed his mother to live in Guangzhou, and in the following years, he and his mother moved everywhere, frequently changing schools, and moving between many cities.
With a broken family and a life full of uncertainties, the child often felt uneasy, and he became more and less talkative as an introvert from an early age.
He once revealed that the three trees in front of the dormitory became the object of his confiding during that time, but this strange behavior in the eyes of ordinary people was the only way for Huang Xuan to vent at that time, and he also arranged exclusive tasks for each tree.
One of the trees is responsible for the problems he encounters in his studies, while the other two trees serve as a point of expression for his own emotions, and the other is responsible for listening to the problems he encounters in getting along with his friends and classmates.
The sensitive adolescence relied on the three trees Huang Xuan found the fulcrum of his heart, and the lonely soul temporarily found solace.
If the divorce of his parents only made him yearn for love and fear marriage at the same time, then the successive deaths of his father and grandparents in 3 years cruelly broke all the fulcrums of his life.
2. Write fake letters with sincerity
Unlike many children who grew up in divorced families, Huang Xuan did not hate his parents.
In his recollections, his father would often give him the greatest support and encouragement, and he would be proud of his small achievements.
In 2007, when he participated in the actor talent show of the new version of Dream of Red Mansions, Huang Xuan, who was originally going to be eliminated, suddenly had a chance to be resurrected.
After Huang Xuan's father learned the news, he took his mobile phone to share his joy everywhere: "You see, they want to resurrect Huang Xuan to prove that my son is still strong!"
Many years later, when Huang Xuan recalled this scene on the show, he still couldn't help but raise the corners of his mouth.
Therefore, the death of his father became the biggest blow in his life.
At that time, Huang Xuan had not yet graduated from college, and he and his mother were happily traveling in Dalian during the holidays, but they did not expect to receive a call like a thunderbolt from the sky at the Dalian Railway Station.
After listening to it, the whole person was in a state of confusion, out of breath, "people are stupid". For the first time, this young big boy faced life and death, and he was still the closest person to him.
In disbelief, he got on the bus overnight and rushed back to Beijing, where he trembled and carefully sent a message to his father: "What are you doing?"
He wished that his father could tell him that all this was fake, but fate was so cruel that he suddenly dropped a big bomb in front of him, and he could only be blown up in a blur.
The kind relative replied euphemistically: "Dad is resting." Huang Xuan didn't close his eyes that night, and shed tears all night on the bus back to Beijing. Later, when he mentioned this incident, he always couldn't help but burst into tears.
His grandparents were already old, and he was worried that the two old men would not be able to accept the bad news, so he could only lie that his father had gone on a business trip to the Middle East.
On the grounds that there was a war there, and he could not get in touch with the country for the time being, he explained that his father had not returned home for a long time and there was no news from him.
In order to make this play more realistic, Huang Xuan wrote 15 letters in and on in his father's tone, falsely claiming that it was sent back by his father, in order to comfort the two old men.
However, my father's death was only the beginning. Soon after, both grandparents were diagnosed with terminal cancer. Those years were undoubtedly tortured years for Huang Xuan.
Having just experienced the death of his father and having to face the situation that two relatives will die at any time, this made the young Huang Xuan feel extremely stressed, "every day is like pressing a big stone".
The following year, my grandfather died of cancer. He did not wait for his son to return on the day he closed his eyes, and the children did not dare to tell him the bad news.
In the third year, seeing that his grandmother was about to pass away, he couldn't bear to let the old man who had been missing his son until he died, and he didn't know the reason why his son never came back, so he had to tell her.
When Grandma heard this, she was very calm and gave a thumbs up: You finally told me. Then he closed his eyes peacefully.
In just three years, Huang Xuan lost three of his closest relatives one after another, and his girlfriend also proposed to break up at that time.
Marx said: "Man is the sum total of social relations." And Huang Xuan's fulcrum as a person in social relations was almost completely interrupted.
In great pain, he could only survive by drinking alcohol every day and numbing himself with alcohol. He thought: What else? Will life be worse?
But the disaster is not alone, Huang Xuan during this period not only suffered a blow to his life, but his career was also hit hard.
3. The light boat has crossed the Ten Thousand Mountains
Huang Xuan's grades have not been good since he was a child, and the one who always takes the bottom of the class is a child with intellectual defects, if there is no child who helps him to be at the bottom, then I am afraid that Huang Xuan will always take the bottom one.
He had no hobbies, the only one he had was Michael Jackson. Watching his concert videos over and over again, I can't get tired of watching them. When his parents asked him what he liked, he replied that he liked to dance, and his mother agreed.
Huang Xuan's mother is also a dancer, and with his mother's free teacher and the environment he has been exposed to since he was a child, it is not difficult for Huang Xuan to learn to dance. He was admitted to the Guangzhou Dance School, where he studied classical dance for three years.
It's just that Huang Xuan was suddenly injured when he was about to graduate, and during that time, his career plan began to change, and he started to learn acting.
With the encouragement of relatives and friends and his own love, Huang Xuan began to prepare for the art examination of the acting school.
Because he was not born in a professional class, Huang Xuan was not admitted to the acting school for three consecutive years. Frequently frustrated, he had to find another way to be admitted to the Beijing Dance Academy, and the accumulation of years made him admit in one go.
During his time at school, 19-year-old Huang Xuan got a "big cake": "The City is Full of Golden Armor" directed by Zhang Yimou.
The movie directed by a famous director and starring many big names was a very rare opportunity for Huang Xuan, who was still studying at the time, and the competition for the movie was also fierce, and it took more than half a year to select the actor alone.
Half a year later, Huang Xuan received a notice from the production team, and he got a role as he wished.
However, it didn't take long for him to receive the news that the script had been adjusted and the character's age had been adjusted to 14 years old. This is a big blow to Huang Xuan, who has just entered this industry, and the role he just got is gone.
"It was very, very uncomfortable and I couldn't hear the name of the movie for a long time. ”
At the premiere of the movie, Huang Xuan was caught by the staff for a dance, playing the role of a funny eunuch, which made him feel mixed feelings in his heart, as if he had knocked over a five-flavor bottle.
However, this blow has been done more than once.
"Spring Breeze Drunk Night" Huang Xuan filmed 40 minutes of scenes, full of confidence, he happily asked the crew for a few days off to prepare for the film festival after hearing that the film was shortlisted for the Cannes Film Festival.
didn't expect his role in the movie to be cut to only one back in the end.
Subsequently, "Rizhao Chongqing" and "Ocean Paradise" all encountered the process of getting roles and being notified of replacement.
"Ocean Paradise" he prepared for a summer vacation, high-intensity swimming training every day, and experienced life in the school for autistic patients, but in the end it was replaced.
The death of his relatives, the breakup with his girlfriend and the blows of breaking up came one after another, and he was exhausted. After attending the Venice Film Festival, he told his agent that he wanted to relax in Paris, so he stayed in Paris alone.
Life is sometimes so wonderful, when he was frustrated traveling in a foreign country, he received an invitation to the movie "Unmanned Driving".
Later, his career gradually improved. filmed the movie "Tuina" directed by Lou Ye, and it was this movie that made him really remembered by most audiences.
In the following years, people can always see this face on the big and small screens, and he finally ushered in the golden period of his career after many years of dormancy.
Whether it is the movie "The Legend of the Demon Cat" and "Fanghua", or the TV series "Red Sorghum" and "The Legend of Miyue", they have achieved good results, and they have won the title of "National First Love".
Now Huang Xuan and his girlfriend outside the circle are still in a low-key relationship, and most of his social accounts are promoting his works.
Occasionally sharing his life and hobbies with fans, he also shared the food of his hometown with fans on March 18.
epilogue
There will always be many hardships in life, but if you don't give up on yourself, you can usher in the dawn. There are always white lies to be told in life, so why not do it if you can make yourself and your relatives and friends happy?
The death of the three closest relatives, the frequent blows in his career did not defeat Huang Xuan, and he still chose to move forward after getting ready to go.
I hope that each of us can be like him, do not give up or retreat after experiencing setbacks, and find our own happiness.
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