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In 87, I went to the mountains on a blind date and was refused, and when I returned, I helped my sister-in-law carry the burden, and inadvertently achieved my life

author:Zero Seven Story Meeting

This article is a novel story, some of the plots are fictional, if there are similarities are purely coincidental, the picture comes from the Internet, invaded and deleted.

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It was the golden autumn of 1987, and I, Zhao Fuming, came to a remote mountain village for a blind date with full of longing.

In 87, I went to the mountains on a blind date and was refused, and when I returned, I helped my sister-in-law carry the burden, and inadvertently achieved my life

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As a rural boy from a humble background, I look forward to finding a good relationship here. But when I arrived at the cave compound where I was on a blind date, I was looked at with disdain by a pair of disdainful eyes from the adobe house, as if I was an unqualified doorman.

Although my family is poor, I also have self-esteem. So after being harassed again and again, I drooped my head and returned timidly alone. On the way, clusters of wild chrysanthemums swayed around me, and their fragrance seemed to comfort my wounded heart.

Just as I was taking heavy steps, there was a gasp in front of me. I looked up and saw a slumped old lady, panting and trying to climb up the steep mountain road to get home.

The basket in her hand was filled with wild vegetables that had just been picked from the mountains, and she looked extremely struggling. Faced with this old man's predicament, I didn't think much about it, and hurriedly stepped forward to carry the burden in her hands onto my thin shoulders.

My sister-in-law took my hand and thanked me repeatedly. I said listlessly: "Auntie, I traveled to the mountains today to go on a blind date, but I was rejected by the right person, I am afraid that it will be difficult to find someone in my life."

When my sister-in-law heard my words, she smiled knowingly, stretched out her rough hand and patted me on the shoulder, and said, "Young man, you are so warm-hearted and kind-hearted, you will definitely meet a soulmate who affirms you." Although our mountains are small, there are many good girls to envy. "

Saying that, the eldest sister-in-law left the address of her sister's house, promising to be a matchmaker for me in the future, and introduce my sister's eldest daughter, Zhao Guixiang, to me. I only thought she was comforting me, and although I had some hope in my heart, I didn't have much hope.

A few days later, the old sister-in-law and a young and beautiful woman really appeared in the courtyard of my family's earthen kang. She is the niece Zhao Guixiang promised by the old man.

In 87, I went to the mountains on a blind date and was refused, and when I returned, I helped my sister-in-law carry the burden, and inadvertently achieved my life

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As soon as I saw her delicate face, I clearly felt a tremor in my heart: she was just like the apricot blossoms blooming in spring, beautiful and beautiful; And I was like a dwarf poplar tree, beyond her reach.

However, to my surprise, Zhao Guixiang was not reluctant to be embarrassed by my humble family background, but she was kind and polite, chatting with me endlessly.

Under the familiar introduction of the eldest sister-in-law, we quickly opened up the conversation box, telling each other's family origins and life experiences. It turned out that Zhao Guixiang's parents had long since died, and she had been sent under the fence since she was a child, and she grew up with the help of her sister-in-law.

Although her life is poor, she has also exercised her simple and kind character. Listening to her story, I couldn't help but be in awe, and secretly sighed at the unique beauty of her pure goodness and simplicity.

I don't know when we have become close friends in this kind of unrestrained conversation. I have great admiration for Zhao Guixiang, she is sincere and kind.

Be considerate of others at every turn; And I also told her about my character and confided in her the most sincere inner monologue. Seeing each other is like a yin and yang contract, destined to tie the hearts of the two together.

The years passed quietly, and with the heartfelt blessings of the families on both sides, Zhao Guixiang and I held hands and stepped into the marriage hall of red flowers and green leaves.

At our simple and grand wedding, the eldest sister-in-law shed tears happily and said earnestly: "Look, doing good deeds and accumulating virtue will pay off.

In 87, I went to the mountains on a blind date and was refused, and when I returned, I helped my sister-in-law carry the burden, and inadvertently achieved my life

The picture comes from the Internet

When I saw you helping me carry the burden that day, I knew that you were a good young man with a pure heart, and I immediately wanted to match you and introduce Zhao Guixiang to you. "

Yes, if I hadn't been zealous to take on the burden of my sister-in-law, how would I have met this virtuous wife? In the years after I got married, I was always filled with infinite gratitude.

Hand in hand with his wife Zhao Guixiang, to appreciate the true meaning of life of "rich and poor, dusty and fate". When we first got married, we only had one adobe house in our new house, but it was already a splendid villa.

During the day, I worked hard, either in the fields or as a manual laborer on a construction site. And Zhao Guixiang is a hard-working and capable wife, and she can handle the chores at home with ease.

At night, when a dim kerosene lamp is lit, we sit next to each other at a dilapidated kang table, gossiping about homely things. Often at this time, Zhao Guixiang will tell about the hard years under the fence of her orphans.

Those painful experiences had already left scars on her thin body. But she did not give up on herself because of this, but used the work of thrift to keep the family in a better situation.

I have often been impressed by my wife's indomitable spirit, and I have also drawn courage and strength from it. Sometimes, I also tell the sad story of my rejection.

Those days of being hit by cold eyes still make me feel palpitations. But when I think that it was that kind act back then, in exchange for the good fate of treating each other with true affection, I am relieved.

In 87, I went to the mountains on a blind date and was refused, and when I returned, I helped my sister-in-law carry the burden, and inadvertently achieved my life

The picture comes from the Internet

Life is indeed like this, good and bad, joy and sorrow, always entangled in honor and disgrace. As the years go by, in the midst of hardships and hardships, the relationship between me and Zhao Guixiang is also like a hemp rod, interlocking and getting closer and closer.

We embraced each other, supported each other, looked at each other and smiled and spent a pleasantry. Until now, when our children and grandchildren are around our knees and gray-haired, we still miss the mutual acquaintance and promise back then.

It was Zhao Guixiang who gave me the most precious gift of life. She gave me the courage to move forward when I was confused and helpless; When I am resolute and stubborn, give me tender and sweet tolerance; Give me a kind hand to guide me back to my feet as I stumble......

It is precisely because of her companionship all the way that I have not gone in vain in this life. Looking back on the arduous journey in the past, I am often filled with emotion. The path of life is actually very simple, as long as you have a kind and sincere heart, your efforts will be rewarded.

It was precisely because of the kind act of the burden-bearer back then that I was fortunate to meet Zhao Guixiang, a confidant lover, and stayed with her for the rest of my life.

Our two "little people" in the eyes of the world, although their families are poor, live a richer life than the arrogant and lascivious rich. Whenever the sun sets, we hold hands and walk along the field path.

Hang on to the wheat waves that have taken root with us in this hot land. Zhao Guixiang sometimes recited a few simple mountain songs softly, and the gentle folk songs seemed to tell our ordinary and extraordinary life.

Yes, let's walk in this world, walk hand in hand, and appreciate the beauty of the unpretentious but romantic and moving companionship. Do not seek wealth and glory, only seek heart-to-heart, holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son.

When you are young and have gray hair, looking back on the past, you will find that the original ordinary life can be so moving. This is the emotional story of me and Zhao Guixiang.

Even though the fate is bumpy, as long as you care for each other and are sincere and kind, you will definitely find the most precious gift of life. May all lovers in the world be like us, find solace in their hearts and the meaning of life in ordinary life.

In 87, I went to the mountains on a blind date and was refused, and when I returned, I helped my sister-in-law carry the burden, and inadvertently achieved my life