15th December 2020th Day 350
Another ten days, say goodbye to 2020.
Often after saying goodbye,
"What we regret is not what we have done.
It's about what we haven't done. ”
Although we are helpless about the upcoming end,
But the process of rewriting the ending, every moment, we possess.
May you,
Always say goodbye with the least regrets, always get together with the most beauty.
To the person who said goodbye in friendship
"Looking back,
Only the green light that was left was horizontal.
Only a few people will accompany you for the rest of your life. ”
In fact, it is not time to dilute feelings,
But it is easy to be diluted by time, and often it is not true feelings.
Some people lamented in the circle of friends: there are more and more people in the friend list, but fewer and fewer people are in contact from time to time. When I look back, I find that many people have unconsciously and silently withdrawn from our circle of friends.
People's life is like a car, driving from the beginning to the end, along the road some people come up, some people go down, some walk together, some wave goodbye.
People come and go, is the norm of life. Those who said goodbye in the middle of the way, we were powerless to keep, and when we reached the fork in the road, we just had to say goodbye gently.
Because of real feelings, there is often no need to deliberately contact, but you all have your own world and circle of friends, in order to live their own busy, but also worry about each other.
When you are happy, I am happy for you; when you are frustrated, turn around and I am behind you. Such a confidant, may we all have it.
From Night Listening
To the people who miss out in love
On the love track,
From the very beginning, we have been moving forward side by side,
Not many people arrive at the finish line at the same time.
A shortcut to putting down a person,
In fact, he ran all the way to surpass him.
From today on, don't hold your phone and wait for the sms, don't immerse yourself in the emotions of gain and loss, don't expect the faint hope, and spend time in a rich and powerful way, leaving no soil for fragility.
If you love his/her appearance, try to fitness, maintain, dress up, and make yourself more handsome or beautiful;
If you love his/her talent, then he/she loves to read and you read more, he/she can write and you practice a good hand, he/she is proficient in music you can sing and dance, master what he/she has, or even what he/she has, or even does not have;
If you love his/her temperament, cultivate yourself;
If you love his/her character, be kind to others;
If you love him/her money, strive for financial prosperity;
If you feel like you can get along and talk to him/her, try to make more friends...
The best motivation for love is that because you like someone, you get a chance to metamorphose.
From the Web
To the person who finally turns around in the family
I like this sentence:
"Only the love of parents for their children,
Never for the purpose of possessing or taking,
Never fade away by letting go and separating,
It is also never diminished by distance and years. ”
The love of parents has always been there,
It becomes thick in the constant meeting and separation.
Returning home at the end of the year is like a tired bird returning home, able to safely let go of tired, loose and tense nerves. Because only in front of our parents can we be undefended and feel safe and warm.
But many people don't know that the real life of your parents begins the moment you come home. For them, the New Year is never a specific day, and the day their children return home is their holiday.
When people reach middle age, they can understand more and more such a passage: "Many times it is not that we go to see the back of our parents, but to bear the gaze they chase, to bear their unwilling, uneasy, and full of eyes." Finally, I gradually understood that there is no one in this world who can love me like my parents like life. ”
In the reality of gathering less and leaving more, parents condensed all their love in a huge preparation, whether it was together or separated.
A friend asked me before, "What is security?" I think the sense of security is probably that when we say ,"Buy a ticket," my parents began to respond with their big moves: "Wait for you to go home." ”
Parents are there, life still has a place to come; parents go, life is only the way home.
From The Night Reading of the Hearth by Uncle Furnace
Give the feast that goes on for years
The time spent with people is far shorter than imagined.
If there is no "separation",
The preciousness of staying together at present cannot be revealed.
Not everything is said in time,
Not all dreams come true in time,
Not all regrets have a chance to make up.
Don't let go if you can hold it tightly,
If you can cash in, don't wait for the next time.
Parting in the various tastes of life should always be put into the category of sad autumn and bitterness.
However, if after parting, you can get a mood that you can't get when you get together, then why face this fate with a smile?
If, after parting, all the memories are clearer, all the details that were ignored during the reunion are also remembered, and they are repeated in the mind. Every sentence you say has a deeper meaning when you look back, and every change in the scenery also has a more gentle luster when looking back, so what is bad about parting?
What's so bad about parting? If from now on, your smile will reappear in every clear night of the month, your sorrow will also erode into my heart with the deepening twilight. All the past years are like an etched copper plate, recording every scratch, some deep and some shallow, some full and some blank, and then, at each review, it can give you a copy of the exact same picture.
So, if this is the case, what is so bad about parting?
From "A Spring Afternoon" by 丨 Xi Murong
Give the growing self to stay in the past
Winter takes over autumn leaves. Spring takes over winter snow.
This second, take over the next second.
There are always new waves that take over the coast.
The same is true of human life,
The old you are taken over by the new you,
You have a chance to change your life.
I have seen such a sentence: "I long to be collected all my life, properly placed, carefully preserved, so as not to frighten me, to save me from suffering, to avoid me wandering around, to spare me from having no branches to rely on." "But I prefer another way of saying that instead of presupposing a perfect confidant, I would sculpt a better self."
Whether you can meet the right person or not, please stay on your own, work hard, and live seriously. Whether anyone loves you or not, please put yourself in place and give yourself the courage to choose the life you want.
Interesting soul, valuable work, ability to navigate, career and family are happy life, these are all what you yearn for. You lament that there are always people doing the work you like, there are always people living the life you want, and there are always people who live the way you want to be. But in fact, behind every kind of light, it is inseparable from perseverance and effort.
Interesting souls are hidden in the books that a person has read and the roads they have traveled, the work they like is hidden in the skills that are beyond ordinary people, behind the ability to be at ease is a high degree of self-discipline, and the balance between career and family depends on a strong heart and excellent time management skills. Time is fair, and wherever you spend your time, you will become what kind of person you become. Life is fair, what ability you have, what kind of life you can exchange.
It's time to say goodbye to all the bad habits once and for all. Procrastination, laziness, lack of confidence, three minutes of heat, say goodbye to them.
A moment, a day, a month, a year, are all gifts of life. Only by living up to the time can we thrive and live as we want.
From Ten O'Clock Reading author 丨 Zhang Zixi
Illustration丨Design illustrator Lara Paulussen
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