has been on the hot search for a long time, I think everyone has seen it.
Let's briefly talk about the context of the matter:
The teenager is a game sparring partner, called "Fat Cat", 21 years old;
I have known the scumbag Tan for more than 2 years, only met twice, watched a movie, and basically had a "long-distance relationship" the rest of the time, and transferred a total of 510,000 yuan to the scumbag girl on the Internet.
The scumbag said that he didn't like long-distance relationships, so he moved to the city life of the scumbag;
The scumbag said that she didn't want to live together, so he rented a very cheap house to live in;
I spent 12 yuan on takeout and found that it was more expensive, so I returned it and bought it again;
For a few dollars of wool, I will ask friends to help me all day, and I will eat this meal;
The transfers to girls are basically four-digit or five-digit, and they were later asked for by the scumbag;
The scumbag saw that "the wedding date promised to him was approaching", and broke up decisively, and the fat cat couldn't accept it for a while.
Before dying, he transferred the last more than 60,000 to the scumbag, and then committed suicide by diving.
That's the thing, many people only pay attention to how the fat cat is not worth paying, and how the scumbag is hateful.
But I didn't try to analyze why the fat cat became a "fat cat with a love brain".
Let's not talk about this scumbag girl first, because she is only "the lowest and lowest level fishing girl", and she can't even compare to the ancient Qinglou woman.
She has no bottom line, no discipline, and will only bully a "giant baby boy with incomplete socialization".
She doesn't deserve anything to write about, because she's just a humanoid creature with no "sound personality."
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You Tanzhi: The giant baby and the collapse of faith
Before talking about "fat cat", I want to talk to you about You Tanzhi in "Dragon Babu".
You Tanzhi is in a relationship with Ah Zi, and his situation is similar to obesity.
There is a story called "A Drop of Honey".
A man accidentally falls into a well and wakes up vaguely to find himself hanging from the trunk of a tree in the well.
Just when he was secretly rejoicing, he found that there were several poisonous snakes staring at him not far overhead, and when he wanted to climb up the trunk, he found a group of rats gnawing on the trunk, and the trunk was shaking, and it couldn't support it for long.
He looked up and closed his eyes to die, when a drop of honey dripped into his mouth.
The man can no longer care about the fear of life and death, and devote himself to the short-term happiness brought by this drop of honey.
For men, honey is "faith", the only faith in the moment of life and death;
For You Tanzhi, Ah Zi is faith, a drop of honey after being powerless to life, confused about the future, and hopeless about reward.
Think about You Tanzhi:
has a head and face in a small place, and his parents are people with relatively high local social status;
You Tanzhi has never suffered since he was a child, he is a typical rich second generation, as long as his parents live for a long time, he can have a steady stream of resources.
His life, from birth, is the starting point of ordinary people, he has no shortage of love, no shortage of money.
But after Juxianzhuang, everything changed.
Rats leave a sinking ship.
He lost his parents, and the relationship between the rivers and lakes when his parents were there didn't work for him;
His martial arts are humble, and he wants to seek revenge on Qiao Feng, but he can't do anything.
He couldn't even support himself because he didn't have much "ability and experience to live independently", and when he was desperate and wanted to die, Ah Zi appeared.
Although Ah Zi was abusing him, from mental to physical, You Tanzhi enjoyed it.
Ah Zi is his sugar, his faith, and his salvation.
Psychologically, You Tanzhi is a "giant baby";
The formation of this giant baby is related to the doting of parents.
From childhood to adulthood, he has never suffered hardships, been wronged, and has no independent ability and socialization experience;
People who are close to him will hate him, flatter him, and pretend to be good to him, but in fact, it is all for the sake of his parents' face.
The great sense of contrast led him to a strong sense of want, insecurity and fear;
The appearance of Ah Zi just fills these things, even if it is a deformed sadistic love.
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Fat cat: physiological adult, psychological baby
Judging from some of the reports I have flipped through and the revelations of netizens:
The experience of obesity from childhood to adulthood is not unmistakable.
He was born into a terrible, unfortunate family of origin, and he was like an "abandoned cat".
Have you ever heard of the "abandoned cat effect"?
When a cat is repeatedly discarded and then picked up, the owner's strategy of "repetitive mental abuse-control" is achieved.
Fat Cat is that character.
From childhood to adulthood, he lacked love and identity in his bones.
What he really longs for is never love, but to be cared for and cared for, even if it is pretending to care about him and pretending to care about him.
He is another form of "Truman's world".
Outsiders know: she is fake to you, buddy, you are sensible, buddy, you are kind to yourself.
Only he was immersed in it: it doesn't matter, I'm going to marry her, I don't care, I'm going to make money to support her.
You see he's 21 years old, biologically an adult;
Looking at the comments of netizens, he has more than 8,000 games and a winning rate of 91%, even if he starts a live broadcast at this game level, he can make a lot of money;
But his psychological level is that he is a child.
It is not enough to describe him if he is not deeply involved in the world, it should be said that he is blank in terms of feelings and maintaining relationships.
What is the greatest tragedy in this matter?
is an adult with a "child's mentality" who meets a charlatan who is 7 years older than him, and has been in the rivers and lakes for a long time, and is full of calculations.
Even if it's not a fat cat, if it's another man in the same situation, you'll fall into it;
Even if it is not this low-level scumbag, if it is another scumbag, or even an "online dating confidant sister pretending to be a big man with a big foot", the fat cat may have the same fate.
Do you understand?
Some things are predestined in their bones.
I'll give you an analogy.
The big bad wolf said to the little white rabbit:
"Uncle bought you candy to eat, can you take off your clothes and show me?"
There is a high probability that the white rabbit will be fooled.
What is the root cause?
A person who wields "exploitation, control, mental abuse, etc." at a child's psychology is immoral and unacceptable.
But anyone who has flesh and blood, basic morality, and basic empathy can't do this.
The fate of the fat cat was doomed from the moment he had the ability to earn 500,000;
Unless he doesn't touch his feelings, unless he meets a "leader" in his life, unless he opens up, unless he gets the love and care that makes up for the lack of 20 years in his heart.
Otherwise, his fate will still not be good.
This world has never been sympathetic to the weak, only compassion.
After a period of time, the scumbag girl completed the "primitive accumulation of traffic", changed her vest, attracted a group of people who "smelled like" to her, started a live broadcast, brought up the goods, and changed her life and began to rebirth.
And the fat cat is just a drop of water in the long river of years, and there will be countless fat cats.
I was thinking:
If there is someone by the fat cat's side who can provide him with a way out, his life destiny will be rewritten.
What are his abilities and strengths?
It's the game cheat, it's talent;
It is an average of more than ten hours of high-intensity sparring every day, which is basically praised, these are his qualities, character and efforts.
When a person has these qualities and gives him some guidance casually, he will not be bad.
So you get the idea?
In this world, there are many things that are so absurd and metaphysical.
Topic:
What do you think about the fat cat?
Author He Suohuan:
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