"My dear, the doctor said we can consider choosing a surrogacy or adoption to achieve fertility. Do you have any ideas?" Li Xiaohong looked at her husband worriedly, her eyes full of anticipation.
Zhang Ming held his wife's hand and said gently: "I know that you have always longed to have your own children. Whether it's surrogacy or adoption, I will fully support you because our well-being is what matters most. "
"Really, should we get ready for it?" Li Xiaohong's eyes lit up, and her face was filled with a happy smile.
"Take your time, we have to talk to our parents first. Zhang Ming knew in his heart that this decision was not simple and needed the support of the whole family.
"You're right, we have to get the approval of our parents. Li Xiaohong nodded, her brows furrowed slightly, "But I have a feeling that they may oppose our decision." "
"It doesn't matter, as long as we are determined, we will be able to convince them. Zhang Ming gently hugged his wife and comforted, "We will definitely be able to realize our dreams, and I believe that everything will be fine." "
Just as Zhang Ming and Li Xiaohong were about to discuss their plans for surrogacy or adoption with their parents, they encountered unexpected resistance.
"Surrogacy, adoption, are you crazy?" As soon as Zhang Ming's parents heard the news, they immediately showed unhappy expressions, "This practice is against ethics, and we will definitely not support it." "
"Dad, Mom, will you listen to our explanation?" Zhang Ming hurriedly persuaded, "We really want to have a child of our own, this is our dream for many years." "
"We know how you feel, but it's so immoral. Zhang Ming's mother shook her head, "If you insist on doing this, we won't help you take care of the children anymore." "
"What? Don't help us take care of the kids?" Li Xiaohong exclaimed in surprise, "But we need the support of our parents, without your help, we can't raise our children independently." "
"Then don't have children!" Zhang Ming's parents were adamant, "We will not support this approach." "
Zhang Ming and Li Xiaohong looked at each other, feeling very helpless. They thought their parents would understand and support their decision, but they didn't expect to be met with such strong opposition.
"What if we don't have the help of our parents, we can't take care of our children on our own. Li Xiaohong said anxiously.
"If we talk to them better, maybe they'll change their minds. Zhang Ming held his wife's hand and tried to calm her emotions.
As a result, the couple repeatedly communicated with Zhang's parents in an attempt to convince them to accept the decision of surrogacy or adoption. However, Zhang Ming's parents always insisted on their own views and refused to give in at all.
"We're not going to change our minds, that's our bottom line. Zhang Ming's father said in a resolute tone, "If you have to do this, then we will completely cut off the relationship." "
Zhang Ming and Li Xiaohong are in a dilemma. On the one hand, they are genuinely eager to have children of their own; On the other hand, I don't want to break with my parents and lose their support because of this.
"What are we going to do? If the parents really don't help us take care of the children, we won't be able to support the children at all. Li Xiaohong said with teary eyes.
"Don't worry, we'll find a way to convince them. Zhang Ming comforted his wife, "Maybe we can put this plan on hold for the time being, focus on our own career development, and talk about it later." "
So, the couple decided to put their surrogacy or adoption plans on hold for the time being and focus on their careers. Zhang Ming works harder, hoping to prove that they are capable of raising children through his achievements. Li Xiaohong also began to learn various crafts in an attempt to divert attention.
At this moment, Zhang Ming received an unexpected news. It turned out that his sister was pregnant, and it was a pair of twins. This is undoubtedly a huge blow to Zhang Ming and Li Xiaohong.
"Oh my God, your sister is pregnant?" Li Xiaohong exclaimed in surprise, "Our parents will definitely not support us now." "
"yes, I think they're going to be focusing all their attention on their new grandchildren. Zhang Ming sighed, "I'm afraid we will be completely forgotten." "
Sure enough, Zhang Ming's parents were ecstatic when they learned the news of their grandchildren. They often came to Zhang Ming's house and discussed with great interest how to take care of the children, but they didn't mention Zhang Ming and Li Xiaohong at all.
"Dad, Mom, why don't you care about us?" Zhang Ming couldn't help but speak, "Don't we always want our own children?"
"You are still young, and there will be opportunities in the future. Zhang Ming's mother replied vaguely, "Now we have to be busy taking care of our grandchildren first." "
Zhang Ming and Li Xiaohong's mood became even more depressed. They feel like they have been abandoned by their parents, who have focused all their attention on their new grandchildren and completely ignored their needs.
At this time, Zhang Ming's sister's marriage was in crisis. Her husband often works late hours because of his work, and has little time to spend with his sister and children. My sister felt so lonely and helpless that she even had thoughts of divorce.
At this time, Zhang Ming's parents panicked. They realized that if their sister did get divorced, they would have to take care of their two grandchildren full-time, which would undoubtedly put a huge burden on their lives.
After realizing this problem, Zhang Ming's parents took the initiative to find Zhang Ming and Li Xiaohong.
"Obviously, Xiaohong, can you help take care of the child for a while?" Zhang Ming's father said sincerely, "Your sister has been working hard lately, and we hope that you can share it so that she can have more time to repair her marriage." "
Zhang Ming and Li Xiaohong glanced at each other and hesitated for a long time. They had been worrying about their children before, and now their parents offered to help take care of their children, which made them a little overwhelmed.
"Dad, Mom, of course we are willing to help, but haven't you always opposed us having children?" Li Xiaohong asked cautiously.
"We were wrong. Zhang Ming's mother sighed, "We were too stubborn at the time to consider the problem from your point of view. Now we realize that if our sister gets divorced, we may not be able to take care of our two children on our own. So, I hope you can help us for a while. "
"Well, since you say so, let's help take care of the children. Zhang Ming nodded, "But I hope you can support us in having our own children in the future." "
"We'll talk about that later. Zhang Ming's father said, "Now let's solve my sister's marriage problem." "
So, Zhang Ming and Li Xiaohong began to help take care of their sister's children wholeheartedly. In the process of taking care of their children, they gradually feel the joy of being parents. The child's innocent smile and carefree play make them feel extremely warm.
"Obviously, you see, the child is smiling so happily!" Li Xiaohong hugged the child, her eyes were full of joy.
"yes, why haven't we experienced this feeling before?" Zhang Ming couldn't help but smile.
At the same time, they also felt the hardships of taking care of their children. Children's diet, daily life, and crying needs need their attention and care at all times. Sometimes they feel physically and mentally exhausted, but seeing their children healthy and happy makes it all worth it.
In this process, Zhang Ming and Li Xiaohong also gradually felt the good intentions of their parents. The reason why they opposed Zhang Ming and Li Xiaohong's choice of surrogacy was not because they didn't want them to have children, but because they were worried that they would not be able to bear the burden of children. They hope that Zhang Ming and Li Xiaohong can have a stable life instead of being crushed by the upbringing of their children.
"That's what they meant. Zhang Ming said thoughtfully, "Why didn't we understand their intentions before?"
"Yes, we always thought they were just stubborn, but we didn't expect them to be out of concern and love for us. Li Xiaohong nodded.
At this time, my sister's marriage also passed through difficulties. With the help of Zhang Ming and Li Xiaohong, my sister regained her confidence in life, and her relationship with her husband gradually returned to harmony.
"Obviously, Xiaohong, I really appreciate your help during this time. My sister said gratefully, "If it weren't for you, I really don't know what I would have done." "
"You're welcome, that's what we're supposed to do. Zhang Ming smiled and said, "We have also gained a lot from it, thank you for giving us this opportunity." "
This turmoil not only made Zhang Ming and Li Xiaohong reap the joy of being parents, but also made them better understand their parents' good intentions. They finally understand that their parents' previous opposition was not because they did not want them to have children, but because of their care and love.
"In the future, we must honor our parents and repay their kindness for raising them. Li Xiaohong held her husband's hand, and her eyes flashed with happiness.
With the support of their parents, Zhang Ming and Li Xiaohong began to actively prepare for pregnancy, looking forward to the arrival of their child as soon as possible. The couple is full of anticipation and confidence for the future.
"Honey, have you felt any changes in your body lately?" Zhang Ming gently held his wife's hand, his eyes full of concern.
"Well, I feel like something hasn't been the same lately. Li Xiaohong smiled slightly, "Maybe we finally have hope." "
"Great!" Zhang Ming hugged his wife excitedly, "I know that as long as we persevere, we will be able to realize our dreams." "
"Yes, with the support of our parents, we can definitely be the best parents. Li Xiaohong was also excited.
Just then, Zhang Ming's parents walked in.
"Son, do you have any good news for us?" Zhang Ming's mother's eyes flashed with expectation.
"Mom, I think I'm pregnant!" Li Xiaohong said happily.
"Great, my boy!" Zhang Ming's mother hugged Li Xiaohong excitedly, "You finally got your wish." "
"Yes, with your support, we can get to where we are today. Zhang Ming said gratefully, "We will definitely be the best parents." "
"I'm sure you'll do a good job. Zhang Ming's father nodded, "We will fully support you and help you through this important period." "
With the blessing and help of their parents, Zhang Ming and Li Xiaohong's road to pregnancy was smooth sailing. Li Xiaohong's physical condition gradually stabilized, and the doctor told them that there was a good chance of pregnancy.
"You see, the doctor said we would soon have our own baby!" Li Xiaohong told her husband excitedly.
"yes, that's amazing!" Zhang Ming hugged his wife excitedly, "We are finally about to realize our dreams." "
At this time, Zhang Ming's sister suddenly came to their house.
"Brother, sister-in-law, I have something I want to discuss with you. Anxiety was written all over my sister's face.
"What's wrong, sister, what's wrong?" Zhang Ming asked worriedly.
"My husband and I have been arguing about our children lately. The younger sister sighed, "I'm so tired that sometimes I even want a divorce." "
"Divorce?!" Zhang Ming and Li Xiaohong were stunned, "That's not good, you must try to solve this problem." "
"But I'm so tired that I don't know what to do. My sister said with tears in her eyes, "If it weren't for your help in taking care of the children, I would have collapsed a long time ago." "
"Don't worry, sister, we'll definitely help you. Li Xiaohong comforted, "As long as you are willing to work hard, you will definitely be able to save your marriage." "
"Yes, we'll always have your back. Zhang Ming also held his sister's hand, "You have to believe in yourself and believe in your love." "
With the encouragement and help of Zhang Ming and Li Xiaohong, my sister regained her confidence in life. She had in-depth communication with her husband, and finally resolved the conflict and repaired the marital relationship.
"Thank you so much, brother and sister-in-law. My sister said gratefully, "If it weren't for your help, I really don't know what I would have done." "
"That's what we're supposed to do. Zhang Ming smiled and said, "We have also gained a lot from it, thank you for giving us this opportunity." "
In this process, Zhang Ming and Li Xiaohong not only reaped the joy of being parents, but also made them better understand their parents' good intentions. They finally understand that their parents' previous opposition was not because they did not want them to have children, but because of their care and love.
"We must honor our parents and repay them for their nurturing kindness. Li Xiaohong held her husband's hand, and her eyes flashed with happiness.
"Yes, we must always remember this experience and cherish the love of our families. Zhang Ming nodded, "I believe that as long as we welcome the new life with a more mature and responsible attitude, we will be able to embrace a happy and happy life." "