As we all know, the mainland has entered an aging population, and the population of the elderly is increasing, and with it, the number of single elderly people is also increasing, and their living conditions are a matter of concern.
The happiness of the elderly in their later years is not only related to the stability and unity of the family, but also related to the quality of life of the elderly. Many elderly people take the initiative to go on blind dates, and many children help their parents find suitable candidates for marriage, and everyone is very open-minded on this issue.
Of course, the elderly need to pay attention to their physical condition on a blind date, and there is no quality of life without a good body. Secondly, both parties should have the same interests and hobbies, as well as the same pursuit, physically they take care of each other, mentally they sustenance each other, go shopping together, walk and exercise together, and do what they like together, so that the old age can be considered happy. However, some elderly people have unrealistic fantasies and make some excessive demands on blind dates, and the results can be imagined.
The 52-year-old Huanghua girl went on a blind date, asking the other party to be strong and hurting, and asking for 100,000 dowry and a wedding room, and the aunt went on a blind date more than ten times without success. Some people advised her to lower the criteria for choosing a mate appropriately and find a reliable man to marry as soon as possible, but the aunt didn't take it seriously. She insisted that she was beautiful and very young, and that there were always men who were willing to marry her, and that she was very sought-after when she was young, and even if she was old, she was still "fragrant", and she didn't worry about not being able to get married.
Aunt Wang was born in the countryside, and her family conditions are average, and as the youngest daughter of the family, the family loves her very much. The parents did their best to meet Aunt Wang's various living needs, and Aunt Wang's childhood was quite happy.
Rural people get married relatively early, and many people introduce objects to Aunt Wang, plus Aunt Wang is beautiful, slender, loves to laugh, and has a cheerful personality, men in ten miles and eight villages like her, but Aunt Wang's mate selection standards are very high.
Aunt Wang's ideal partner should be tall, handsome and mighty, humorous, financially strong, have a house and a car, and have a good earning capacity. Only a man with sufficient financial conditions can provide her with superior living security.
Aunt Wang is very confident in her appearance, thinking that she can marry a man with a house, wealth, ability, and talent with her outstanding beauty, and achieve a class leap through marriage and live a superior and comfortable life. Under the guidance of this idea, Aunt Wang only considers those men who have good economic strength and outstanding appearance.
High-quality men are hard to find, and Aunt Wang has been on a blind date many times, but the result is nothing. Even so, Aunt Wang still did not give up hope, thinking that her own conditions were very good and worthy of a high-quality man, and if she did not find a suitable marriage partner, she would rather remain single.
Peers have married and had children, but Aunt Wang has become a bachelor, looking at other people's family harmony, husband and wife love, happy life, Aunt Wang is very envious, at the same time she is very anxious, after all, she is in her old age, she is 52 years old, past the best age of a woman, she can not feel the warmth of the family, can not experience the happiness of marriage, let alone taste the happiness of being a mother and wife, which has become a big regret in her life.
In order to make up for these shortcomings, Aunt Wang once again came up with the idea of a blind date, she wanted to find a man who was healthy, cheerful, could communicate with her at the spiritual level, and had strong economic strength, so as to have a happy life in her old age.
Aunt Wang has a pension of 2,500 yuan, a 60-square-meter house, and some savings, and she is well maintained, loves beauty and dresses up, and looks very young, these are her capital. Aunt Wang has been on a blind date more than ten times, but she has never met a satisfactory man, but she has not given up hope, thinking that she will be able to find a wife who understands her, appreciates her, and spends the rest of her life hand in hand.
Aunt Wang and Uncle Li were introduced on a blind date. Uncle Li is 58 years old, divorced, a farmer, planted more than ten acres of land, raised a lot of chickens, ducks, geese, pigs and poultry, and earned an annual income of 70,000 or 80,000 yuan. Uncle Li is tough, hardworking and hardworking, lonely and alone, no one to do his laundry and cooking, and no one to take care of his daily life, remarriage is very important to Uncle Li.
Uncle Li's own conditions are not very good, so his criteria for choosing a mate are very simple and simple, as long as the other party is hardworking and kind, practical and reliable, and can be diligent and thrifty. If she is beautiful and young, it is undoubtedly a great thing.
After meeting, Uncle Li smiled, he praised Aunt Wang for her beautiful and slender figure, and also praised Aunt Wang for being able to maintain and dress up. Aunt Wang's impression is also good, she thinks that Uncle Li is sturdy, honest, straightforward, and a reliable man, and their first impression is very good.
Aunt Wang has rich experience in blind dates, and she threw out her request bluntly. Aunt Wang hopes that Uncle Li will give her a bride price of 100,000 yuan, and hold a grand wedding ceremony to marry her in style. After all, Aunt Wang has never been married, nor has she felt the joy of being newly married, and she is getting married for the first time in her later years, so she must experience things she has not experienced firsthand.
As for the bride price, Aunt Wang gave this explanation: "It is normal for a woman to ask for a bride price when she gets married, my sisters have to pay 350,000 bride price when they get married, I am beautiful and very young, and I am a yellow flower girl, I want 100,000 bride price as a matter of course!" "There is another thing that Aunt Li cares about very much, she asks Uncle Wang to raise her and spoil her, she doesn't go out to work or do housework, she plans to pamper and let Uncle Li support her.
Uncle Li has the ability to give 100,000 dowries, and he also has the ability to support Aunt Wang, but he feels that Aunt Wang talks about money as soon as they meet, which is a manifestation of a material woman, and he thinks that marriage is a serious matter, both parties should work hard for the family, pay for the family, and the husband and wife can work together to run the family well and live a good life. Aunt Wang asked Uncle Li to pay, she didn't do anything herself, she just wanted to be pampered and be a full-time wife, which was unacceptable.
Out of such considerations, the uncle refused. Although Uncle Li recognized Aunt Wang's beauty and figure, he didn't want to continue the conversation with Aunt Wang, and the blind date failed again.
This incident has attracted widespread attention from netizens. Many people agree with Aunt Wang's point of view, thinking that women are very popular in the blind date market and can choose men according to their preferences. Women can find men who are handsome and handsome, who can take care of people and be considerate; Women can also find talented and capable men; Women can also find men with good financial strength who have a house and a car. No matter what kind of man she marries, a woman will have a good life.
More people accuse Aunt Wang of being unrealistic. She is not young, she has missed the best youth of a woman, she wants to form a family and have a happy old age, this idea is understandable, but Aunt Wang wants a bride price of 100,000 yuan, and also asks Uncle Li to raise her, she doesn't do anything, she just wants to live a good life that is superior and comfortable, this idea is unreliable, which is also an important reason for the failure of the blind date.
Some people also ridiculed: "This is an era of looking at faces, as long as a woman looks young and beautiful, she will inevitably become a hot commodity in the blind date market!" Aunt Wang is a beauty. She doesn't ask too much, there are always men who are willing to marry her! ”
If you were a man, would you be willing to marry Aunt Wang? Do you think Aunt Wang can find a satisfactory wife? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.