Family turmoil is always unavoidable, especially when the habits of two generations collide. On that day, the harmonious atmosphere in the house was broken, just because of a small habit of steaming eggs. When the mother was cooking, she put the washed eggs in her hand, and this scene happened to be seen by her brother and daughter-in-law, and she immediately expressed her dissatisfaction.
The brother-in-law's brows were tightly locked, and there was a bit of reproach in her tone: "Mom, I think we need to talk." Eggs are boiled with rice, which is really not quite suitable. I know you may find it convenient, but the hygiene aspect really needs to be considered. When my mother heard this, her face showed a hint of puzzlement: "I have washed it with salt, how can it be unhygienic? ”
The atmosphere began to be tense, and the voice of the younger brother and daughter-in-law also raised a few points: "This is not exquisite, it is basic hygiene common sense." And you can also choose to boil the eggs separately, which won't add much trouble. After hearing this, the mother showed a trace of displeasure on her face: "How do I cook, do I still want you to teach me?"
After the younger brother got off work, he heard the argument. He tried to calm the storm, but it didn't seem easy. He said to his mother, "Mom, I know you're working hard, but sometimes you need to listen to other people's opinions. After all, we are a family and need to understand and tolerate each other. When the mother heard this, a trace of tears flashed in her eyes, and she felt that her son seemed to be more inclined to his daughter-in-law, forgetting her hard work.
I quickly intervened to try to lighten the mood. I said to my mother, "Mom, I know it's not easy for you. But sometimes, we can try something new. For example, I can buy you a small appliance that specializes in steaming eggs, so that you can easily steam delicious eggs. After hearing this, the mother nodded, but she was still a little unwilling in her heart.
Although this turmoil has passed, what is left for us is deep thinking. Conflicts in the family often stem from mutual incomprehension and insufficient communication. We need to learn to listen, understand and tolerate in order to make families more harmonious. At the same time, it is also necessary to respect each other's living habits and choices, and work together to create a warm and harmonious family environment.