"Calmly facing everything is a kind of wisdom"
In recent years, the wind direction of the entertainment industry seems to have quietly changed, and the focus of everyone's attention has slowly shifted from the young "little flower" to the mature and temperamental "sister".
Last year, a "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves" allowed the audience to re-recognize the female stars who got rid of the shackles of age, broke the definition of labels, and bravely set out to pursue their dreams on the stage.
In the entertainment industry where new people have sprung up like mushrooms, the development of most "30+" female stars will be greatly limited, and "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves" allows us to see the tenacity and charm of "30+" mature women.
In the entertainment industry, in addition to these sisters who participate in "riding the wind and waves", there are actually many actresses who are not bothered by age and live out their best appearance.
Here is a small love letter from the movie, today we come to talk about the "immortal goddess" Yu Feihong. At the age of 50, she is still unmarried, how to ride the wind and waves to live her life.
One
Yu Feihong was born in Hangzhou in 1971, her parents are high-achieving students who graduated from college, a proper family of scholars, and literary and artistic career has nothing to do with it, but Yu Feihong is different from her parents' academic pursuits, but has been associated with acting since childhood.
Because of his natural appearance and temperament, he was picked up to learn dance at the age of 6, and starred in his first movie of life at the age of 8 - "Bamboo", a proper child star debut.
In 1987, at the age of 16, Yu Feihong had already played the heroine in "The Murderer and the Coward", and was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy at the age of 18 and officially embarked on the road of acting.
In his junior year, Yu Feihong was 21 years old, coinciding with one of the four bestsellers in the United States, "Happy Luck Club" to be made into a movie, Yu Feihong with excellent qualifications and profound skills, was recommended to audition, successfully selected.
It is worth mentioning that among the 8 actresses in "Happy Luck Club", Yu Feihong is the only Chinese national. After the filming of "Happy Luck Club", from the producer to the director, they all praised this oriental girl, and some people even sincerely wanted to leave her in the United States and become a Hollywood actress.
Such an olive branch is a dream opportunity for many fledgling young actors, but Yu Feihong, who is sober and self-sustaining, knows very well what he wants.
She turned down such an opportunity that could make her famous, and resolutely chose to return to school to continue her studies, which was better than the stars who dropped out of school in pursuit of fame and fortune.
In 1993, Yu Feihong graduated from university and stayed on to teach, but at this time she had her own ideas, she felt that all this was going too smoothly, it was a young age, she should go to exercise herself.
In 1994, Yu Feihong chose to study in the United States, studied at the University of California, and then lived in Los Angeles until he returned to Beijing in 1997.
For this series of choices, Yu Feihong always maintained a happy mind, because she knew very well what she wanted.
As well as the decisive character like a man, she knows very well what she wants, as long as it is something she decides, she no longer needs to discuss with others, nor does she hesitate, but firmly goes on.
Two
"Tell yourself 100 times a day to give up, and you have to say 101 times to persevere."
In the second year of returning to China, Yang Yang, the director of the TV series "Holding Hands", found Yu Feihong through the teachers of the Beijing Film Academy, and the director sent her a script, which was originally scheduled for her to play the heroine Xia Xiaoxue, but in Yu Feihong's view, her age, experience and feelings at that time were more suitable for playing Wang Chun.
In the showbiz circle where everyone wants to be the protagonist, Yu Feihong gave up the first heroine with a heavier role, but from the perspective of the script and the role itself, he chose the role that suited him.
She believes that the biggest responsibility of an actor is to play a good role, and every time he chooses, he must better shape the role, which is very consistent with her consistent style.
After the broadcast of the "Hand in Hand" TV series, Wang Chun, played by Yu Feihong, became the first unsenthused third party on the Chinese screen, and this role also made her a hit, and the audience knew this gentle-looking but tough young actress.
Because after "Holding Hands" became popular, Yu Feihong also continued to make films, and the number of scenes to be filmed every year was as high as four or five. In 1999, a "Little Li Flying Knife" became popular all over the great Jiangnan, and Yu Feihong played the immortal "Amazing Hong Fairy" Yang Yan, which gained a large number of fans for her.
However, the most eye-catching thing is that she participated in "Big Husband" in 2014 and staged a sister-brother relationship with Yang Jiu, who is 16 years old.
The emotional line between Yu Feihong and Yang Jiu is not the main plot, but because the two are full of CP feelings, it has led to a separate drama about the two of them, "Little Husband".
On the road of the actor, Yu Feihong, who was at the peak of his career, began to "fully blossom" in front of and behind the stage.
Moved to tears by a twenty-minute short story "Ginkgo, Ginkgo", Yu Feihong bought the copyright to "Ginkgo, Ginkgo" in 2001 and began to prepare for the film "Love has an afterlife".
From the script to the completion of the shooting, after ten years, this is also the first time that Yu Feihong has served as a heroine and director at the same time.
In 2004, Yu Feihong tried the first time behind the scenes to pick a shoulder to shoulder, after more than a year of careful preparation, Yu Feihong supervised and starred in the love drama "I Love You, Goodbye", and personally sang the theme song of the play "How Long Do You Have to Go".
In this drama, Yu Feihong suddenly tried multiple positions such as producer, producer, starring, and ending song singing. She looks soft and weak on the outside, but also has a tenacity in her heart that is not inferior to men.
With the experience of directing and supervising producer, Yu Feihong continued to work hard, and in 2006, her American film "Millennium Prayer" won the best film at the "San Sebastian Film Festival" in Spain, the "Golden Shell Award".
Earlier we mentioned her first self-directed and self-acting film "Love has an afterlife", this movie was born very difficult, in order to make this movie, Yu Feihong pushed off all the film contracts, spent four years writing and polishing the script, and then began to look around for investment.
In the end, this "Love has an afterlife" invested a total of 40 million yuan, Yu Feihong not only did not take a point of his own film remuneration, but also invested his own savings, and even sold houses and posted money. In the harsh shooting environment, enduring altitude sickness, water and soil incompatibility, cold and fever, after countless hardships, present this aesthetic work to everyone.
In "Love Has an Afterlife", the heroine Ah Jiu, played by Yu Feihong, and the classic look back at the male protagonist Ah Ming's first meeting can be said to be the "white moonlight" in many people's hearts. In this movie, Yu Feihong injects not only his own hard work, but also his own attitude towards life and love.
Until 2009, this "Love has an afterlife" was released, and finally only got 2 million box office, it can be said that there is no return, many people feel sorry for her, but she is still light and breezy, she believes that this is also a harvest of life.
Although it failed at the box office, in the 17th Beijing University Student Film Festival in 2010, the film "Love has an afterlife" won the Best Debut Award, which also gave Yu Feihong a little reward for his hard work.
Three
Despite being in a noisy and impetuous entertainment circle, Yu Feihong has always maintained a low profile and Buddhist system, "people are as light as a chrysanthemum" and "self-consistent as the wind" is probably the best interpretation of Yu Feihong, in the eyes of outsiders, she is also full of alienation and mystery.
She seems to be gentle, but in her bones she has a clear position, and her powerful aura comes from keeping her heart and calmly moving forward in the complicated world.
Yu Feihong, who is 50 years old, still has not entered the palace of marriage.
In Yu Feihong's view, such a state of life is the best, she is not a person who completely resists marriage, but at the same time, she feels that it is not a shameful thing for women to be single, and it is far more important to achieve spiritual prosperity than to find someone to marry.
Yu Feihong's only scandal is her and Dou Wentao.
In that year, Yu Feihong participated in the variety show "Threesomes" hosted by Dou Wentao, and the two have known each other since then and slowly got to know each other. Later, there were also news media photos of Yu Feihong and Dou Wentao participating in the event together, and rumors spread about the two falling in love.
For such rumors, neither Yu Feihong nor Dou Wentao responded to this, and later, when Yu Feihong participated in the interview program of Venus, she said that the two were just good girlfriends for the scandal between dou wentao and Dou Wentao.
Dou Wentao also has a very high evaluation of Yu Feihong, explaining that Yu Feihong is not his gossip girlfriend, but a good teacher and friend. The speculation about the feelings between Yu Feihong and Dou Wentao has also ended here.
Since then, Yu Feihong has never had a relationship again, but she also said in an interview that although she is not married for the time being, she has a fixed partner and positions the other party as "a very ordinary person", which is also in line with Yu Feihong's quiet personality.
Four
Not hurried, not hurried, time has never made Yu Feihong feel flustered, and between her eyebrows, she has always maintained that quiet and beautiful.
Her appearance is not so stunning, but there is a sense of coolness of clear water out of the hibiscus, Yu Feihong's beauty is not in the skin phase, but in the exquisite bone phase, the so-called "beauty in the bone is not in the skin", she also has a typical oriental beauty of the sense of superiority, a glimpse, but can no longer forget.
Perhaps most people feel that Yu Feihong is not very grounded, which probably stems from her excessive "independence", like a unique and independent bird, after traveling through thousands of rivers and mountains, it is still calm and self-assured, and it emits more and more firm light, which is probably the reason why she has been "growing backwards".
Yu Feihong has also set a good example for the majority of women, whether they are married or single, women can find their right place in this world.
She also used her personal experience to tell everyone that strong is not strong, strong is another kind of appearance, no need to be aggressive, there is no need to spur themselves at all times, sometimes, the pursuit of things is too full, but lost the original meaning and interest.
Follow your heart and still ride the wind and waves.
"I don't have a life of ups and downs, not because of how strong my ability is, but because I don't have too many requirements for life, I don't have too much desire, and I don't set myself a level that must be passed." 」