Text/Mo Ran
Some time ago, I saw a passage that said: I don't know how to describe it, if you are not coerced by some kind of agenda (such as getting married and having children).
At 30 years old, which is very close to the ideal 18 years old, there is nothing that can make the growing self feel threatened, and you can do anything or nothing.
In fact, thirty years old is the best age, some people say: "are thirty years old, still pursuing love and freedom, laughing to death" In fact, this is only the third decade of your life, the first ten years you are ignorant, the second ten years you are busy with your studies, the third ten years you have just gained the autonomy of life, you do not pursue love and freedom, what do you pursue?
Don't think that thirty is too late, the more you reach a certain age, you can really read love and marriage and know what you want.
So, don't rush to get married, and don't be overly anxious, sometimes getting married later is protecting you.
For women, marriage is the second reincarnation, and if you choose a little wrong, life will really be different.
For the kind of random choice of a person, with an attitude of compromise, there is generally no good result.
In fact, sometimes think about it from another angle, not entering the marriage too early is to prevent you from choosing the wrong one.
When you are really mature and experience some things, you will know what kind of person to choose and what kind of marriage you want.
When you are mentally immature, it is easy to use marriage as a lifesaver, but in fact, the only person who can really save you is yourself. Once you choose the wrong person, life will enter a different track.
Everyone longs for warmth and love, wants someone to accompany me to stand at dusk, and someone asks me for porridge and warmth.
But the more anxious you are, the easier it is to get into trouble, and maybe God is helping you screen the right people.
At the age of 20, it is actually a matter of starting a career and accumulating life experience.
If you enter marriage too early, you may be worn out by family trivialities, and you don't even have the courage and confidence to struggle.
People still can't be bound by marriage too early, you have to have your own pursuits, more time to see the world, to grow, so that your life will be more stable.
Sometimes, marriage is also predestined. Early marriage, late marriage is fate, late marriage is not necessarily a bad thing, in terms of your current character and life experience, early marriage will only consume you, late marriage is an invisible protection for you.
Some people get married in a daze, and then they can't get by, and they divorce hastily, such a life is a blind toss.
Only when people really understand what they want can they choose the right person.
When you are young, you are often impulsive and blind, and you don't know much about relationships and marriage.
If you get married early, you may not know yourself and each other, which may lead to problems in your marriage.
Getting married later gives you more time to get to know yourself and the world.
You can enrich your experience and knowledge by making different friends and trying different things, so that when you actually meet the right person, you will be more aware of your needs and expectations.
In fact, our goal has never been to get married, but to be happy.
So, you don't need to be too anxious or even anxious, each flower has its own floral fragrance.
Late marriage and temporary singleness are not a bad thing, maybe fate is helping you out in advance.
Summary:
I have heard such a sentence, marriage is everyone's accurate retribution to find their own, and late marriage may make you suffer less from marriage.
So, don't see that everyone else has already submitted the paper, so you fill in the answers randomly and submit the paper in a hurry.
Thinking about marriage at the right time, in the right place, and after meeting the right person, is true happiness.