Text/Xia Mo
01, frontispiece
Love will make a person want to intersect with you, and can't help but care about you and care about you.
Even if a man's usual temperament is as stable as Mount Tai, when he encounters love, he will not be able to restrain himself and become active to contact you.
He wants to give you a call and it's okay to talk about anything. Send a WeChat, even if it's a simple hello, it's happy.
He loves you and will call you many times a day, even if he is busy, he will send you many messages.
If he doesn't contact you much and doesn't have the motivation to contact you, it means that he has lost interest in you and has no good feelings.
How much a man loves you, how he will contact you.
The degree to which a man connects with you is the degree to which he loves you.
02. I haven't contacted you for a long time, probably because I don't love you enough
My best friend had a big fight with her boyfriend over something, and the two started a cold war, and it was a week. The man never came to reconcile with her, and he had no intention of admitting his mistake.
She had a particularly hard time in those days, and secretly took a look at her boyfriend's circle of friends and found that he was doing well.
Gather with friends, have a big meal, go play games, and nothing is delayed.
Originally, she wanted to call her boyfriend first and ask him to come out and explain things clearly, but seeing his state, her heart was as dead as ashes.
The two broke off contact like this, without saying goodbye, but there was no need to say goodbye.
Moloya said: "There is nothing in the world that lasts long in oblivion, and when a house is abandoned, it decays, when it is discarded, when friendship is abandoned, and when love is discarded, it dissolves." ”
If a man doesn't contact you for a long time, it's probably because he doesn't love you enough.
If I don't love you, I won't contact, I don't care, I don't worry about your mood, I don't take the initiative to contact you and solve problems.
He can resist not seeing you, not sending you messages, and thinking that the world is the same with you and without you.
If I don't love you, I don't care if I cut off contact with you.
03. The more a man loves you, the more he likes to take the initiative to contact you
Gu Wei in "Please Advise for the Rest of Your Life" is a cold male god in the eyes of others.
However, he likes Lin Zhixiao, and other patients' families can't ask for his personal phone number, but Lin Zhixiao's mother is about to arrive easily.
He also quietly memorized the phone numbers of Lin Zhixiao and her mother, and asked Lin Zhixiao what Lin Zhixiao was doing under the pretext of visiting Lin Zhixiao's father's physical recovery.
He can't help but make friends with her, and will take the initiative to send her messages, ask her to meet, and have more and more intersections with her.
The more a man loves you, the more he will reach out to you.
Sanmao said: "You can't hide if you like someone, even if you cover your mouth, you will still run out of your eyes." ”
If he likes you, he can't help but want to know what you're doing, whether you have someone you like, and what your hobbies are.
I want to know if you have a good impression of him, and whether the relationship between the two people can develop further.
If he contacts you more and more often, there are always many reasons and excuses to start a new topic. likes to chase you and chat, that is because he has a deep affection for you.
04. The man who loves you will contact you when you need help the most
If you are in danger and are particularly helpless, as long as you contact him, he will appear in front of you in time.
He will comfort you in time and help you solve the problem, even if he does not have enough ability, he will actively think of ways to help as much as he can.
Even if you don't succeed in the end, he will share the consequences with you and will not let you face the hard years alone.
He is responsible, and he feels that your business is his business.
Whether it's good or bad, both of them are one and have never had the intention of leaving you.
Loving you is not a pale vow, nor is it a false sweet word, but a real action.
He is willing to give to you, and he is always responsive. Even if you encounter difficulties and don't want to tell him, he will try his best to help you silently and put you in the most important position in his heart.
"Perfect Strangers" says, "If you want to talk to someone for 30 minutes a day, you're in love." And if you want to say 60 minutes? It's love to the extreme. ”
The man who loves you will reach out to you when you need help the most.
Knowing that you are in trouble, they will rush over to protect you, keep asking for your news, feel sorry for you, and pay attention to you.
05. Summary
A man who loves you will reach out to you, and he will pay attention to all aspects of your life.
He must be the person who sends you the most messages, and he must be the first to arrive when you are in danger.
He loves you, and no matter how many things you have to deal with, you will always be in the "top" position.
With him, you will always have privileges, a unique position, and no one can shake it.
Love is action, it is protection, it is the feeling of being there all the time.
If so, if there is a man around you who always takes the initiative to contact you, don't be annoyed and cherish his love for you.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.