01. Introduction

Love is like a fluttering butterfly, when you want to catch it, it disappears without a trace in front of your eyes.

Many men always think that as long as they chase the woman, they are done, and they can no longer invest their time and thoughts.

In love, women also have something to ask for and need.

If a man is willing to put a little more thought into a woman, spend a little more time into her heart, and understand her needs, she will give back to you countless splendor.

If you meet the following "needs" of a woman, she will follow you for the rest of her life.

02, she needs a peace of mind, and a man is her solid reliance

Yang Bin, a relative, took two years to catch up with the woman he loved.

After they were together, he redoubled his care for her and gave her all his love.

When he goes out, he will take the initiative to report his itinerary. If there is any special situation, we will communicate with her in time and ask for her understanding and consideration.

At the same time, he will also take her life dynamics and emotional ups and downs to heart. Give her comfort when she is lost, and be there for her when she is sad.

He used his practical actions to fulfill his promise to his girlfriend, gave her peace of mind, and was her most solid support. The happiness on her face and her perseverance are the best response to him.

Love always makes women suffer from gains and losses. She needs a sufficient peace of mind, and she needs a man to be her solid support.

If a man knows how to meet her needs for peace of mind, can respond to everything, and has everything in place, when she needs help and companionship, she will always be there, and the woman will follow with all her sincerity.

A piece of paper said: "Good love, it is you who make my heart move, and I make you feel at ease." ”

It is easy for a woman to be insecure in love, like to be cranky, and afraid that her true heart will be wrong.

If a man can meet a woman's need for peace of mind, explain everything, and be together, then the feelings for each other will be in a sweeter state.

03. She needs to be supported so that she can live as herself

In "Shining Her", Jing Zhiqiu chose to bid farewell to the showbiz at the peak of her career, get married and have children, and be a full-time wife.

She is a good wife in the eyes of her husband and a good mother in the heart of her son. But she knew that it was not her true self.

Later, with the encouragement of her friends, she mustered up the courage to return to the stage. practiced singing and dancing hard, and won the audience's love and pursuit with his own strength.

Her husband was against it at first, but feeling that she was confused and unconfident in her marriage, he chose to support her and shine on the stage she liked.

On stage, Jing Zhiqiu thanked her husband for his support to her and said that her husband will always be the person she loves the most.

No matter how much a woman loves him, she still doesn't want to live by the light of a man.

She needs the support of men, and hopes that men can see her hard work and value, so that she can live her true self.

When a man makes many demands on a woman, he must also meet the needs of the woman in a timely manner.

By supporting her to pursue her dreams and encouraging her to be her own personality, women will also gain more motivation to manage their feelings with each other.

04. You need to be loved and guarded in your life

Women will constantly doubt themselves in love, afraid that men will not love and change their minds. She can't help but look for evidence of love over and over again.

She needs a lot of love to prove that she didn't choose the wrong person and give herself more confidence to face the storms ahead.

Men must know how to express love in a timely manner, give women care and companionship in every bit of life, and let her know that she is a unique existence.

Men can occasionally surprise a woman and decorate a special day with flowers and gifts.

Or, pick her up and drop her off and cook her a hearty and delicious meal. Massage her cervical spine and relieve the fatigue of her work.

As long as the man takes action to express love, the woman will definitely be able to feel it, and each other's hearts will be closer and more intimate.

Men take care of women with their hearts and favor women, and women will be immersed in this warmth and sweetness and firmly follow in the footsteps of men.

05, Wen Qiusheng's message

Men, be yourself and learn to express love correctly.

Don't just treat a woman as an appendage, learn to treat her with enough respect and kindness.

Express love with your heart, listen to a woman's inner voice with your heart, and give women care in the details of life.

The most direct way to achieve happiness is to manage each other's feelings with the right attitude and do what you should do.

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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.