Author: Wen Qiusheng
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01. Introduction
Love is like a mysterious treasure, which attracts countless people to rush to it.
Pursuing a woman requires skill and skill.
If you rashly intrude into a woman's world and express your love to her in a self-righteous way, it is likely to make the woman resist.
If a man wants to flirt with a woman's sincerity, he must give the woman enough time to let love slowly penetrate into her life.
The means of "flirting" a woman's sincerity can be summed up in one word, that is: slow.
02. The speed of expressing love should be slower
When it comes to the attitude towards a thing, men pay more attention to the result. Women, on the other hand, like to enjoy the process, and the same is true for love.
Men should be slower in expressing their love. Give women enough buffer time to think carefully about the direction of each other's feelings.
After confessing to a woman, don't rush to ask her for an answer, and don't put too much pressure on her.
Falling in love is a very beautiful thing. If it causes trouble in the woman's heart, it will limit the development of each other's feelings, and even wither quickly.
Slow down, let each other enjoy the early stage of love development, the hazy ambiguity, the sweetness hidden in the heart.
Let the woman slowly get used to having someone by her side, share her joys and sorrows, know her needs, and support all her decisions.
Men who know how to care about a woman's feelings and respect her ideas have won enough favor. A woman's heart will gradually get closer to a man in the process of getting along slowly.
03. In terms of physical contact, be slower
In "Welcome", Zhang Guangzheng relied on his perseverance and finally moved his goddess Zheng Youen. Two people, began to try to date.
When dating, Zhang Guangzheng wanted to hold her hand many times and wanted to get closer to her.
However, he was afraid that Zheng Youen would be angry and that he would surprise her.
Zheng Youen noticed his nervousness and apprehension, and was even more convinced that Zhang Guangzheng was serious about his feelings. Therefore, I took the initiative to take his hand and expressed recognition and acceptance of him in action.
When a man is attracted to a woman, he can't help but want to get close to her and have more physical contact with her.
And women are very reserved about feelings, even if they have a strange affection for men in their hearts, they still hope to have enough time to see each other's hearts.
Therefore, men should know how to restrain their behavior, create more security for women, and let her trust you from the heart.
Men want to touch women's hearts, don't break through each other's safe distance too quickly. Because, it may scare her.
Be slower in physical contact, give a woman more room for the development of her inner feelings, and when she feels your unwavering love, she will be willing to follow you.
04. The speed of love development should also be slowed down
Bacon said: "Excessive pursuit of love will inevitably reduce the value of man himself." ”
Passionate love, although it can make each other experience the taste of being surrounded by sweetness, is also easy to be consumed, and in the end it is only boring.
Men should learn to slow down the development of love, grasp the progress of love, and strive to keep love alive.
For example, don't get tired of being together all the time, give each other some space, let the thoughts ferment, and the understanding of love will be more profound.
Don't neglect other aspects of life when pursuing love. Improve your comprehensive abilities and strengths, and women will be more fascinated by you.
Let love develop slowly, create a more suitable growth environment for each other's feelings, and make the process of falling in love the most unforgettable memory.
A woman's sincerity needs time to be revealed, and it takes a man to put his heart and soul into it.
Let love develop a little slower, and women will see the composure of a man and see his seriousness. In this way, she will also rely on her with peace of mind and deliver sincerity.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
Love that is too fast is like a fast food.
Love develops too quickly, and after consuming the initial passion, soon only boredom and tedium remain.
Learn to operate slowly, develop slowly, express warmth in the details of life, and use the company of time to knock on her heart.
There are still a long days to be with you in the future, slow down the pace, let every day of your life shine, and don't regret having her by your side.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.