When he was young, love was greater than the sky, so Li Mengzhu, the "Flower of Shapingba", did not hesitate to escape from the family, break free of his mother's discipline, and run to the arms of his sweetheart.
And He Mutian, who is also deeply in love, despite his marriage and his wife's pregnancy, hastily engaged and cohabited with Li Mengzhu, he deliberately concealed his marital status, because he could not say it, and he did not want to lose Li Mengzhu.
He Mutian's solution to the problem was to deceive Li Mengzhu again, saying that he would go home and discuss his marriage with his parents, but in fact he was secretly negotiating a divorce with his wife Yunwen. Yunwen is a proud woman with a noble birth and a beautiful appearance, she is not a gas bag that is divorced casually, she refuses to divorce, and there is nothing he can do.
After three months of no news from his sweetheart, Li Mengzhu, a servant of the dark knot of the pearl fetus, found the hometown of He Mutian in Kunming, and He Mutian's wife, who was pregnant with Liujia, received the intruder who came from afar.
Yunwen does not quarrel or scold, and the cloud breeze is light and full of the style of the main room - Mu Tian's problem, or you don't know much about it, I have been married to him for several years, I don't know how many times I have helped him solve the problem. I also heard about you, they said, Mu Tian got another girl in Chongqing... He is this problem, see one, love one, three and a half days fresh, and when the fresh energy passes, he will throw away the people. Then, the family will help him find a way to round the field...
This "helpless word" of the main room is both hurtful and insulting, and the simple Li Mengzhu faces this virtuous wife, retreats in embarrassment, does not want to die, and returns home in a daze, surprised to see that her mother has passed away.
Desperate, Li Mengzhu intends to commit suicide by throwing herself into the river, and Yang Mingyuan, a poor student who has a crush on her for a long time, saves her.
Li Mengzhu is Yang Mingyuan's goddess, can only look at it from a distance, can only look up, but now the goddess has fallen into mortal dust, she is no longer on top, Yang Mingyuan finally has enough, he is ecstatic, he does not care about being a cheap father at all.
Yang Mingyuan married Li Mengzhu, after the birth of his daughter Yang Xiaotong, he had a son Yang Xiaobai, Yang Mingyuan had long given up the art of painting, he became an ordinary small clerk, with a small salary, a poor life, and the housewife Li Mengzhu needed to be careful to barely balance daily expenses.
Poor husband and wife Pepsi mourn, not to mention Li Mengzhu has been hiding an old lover in his heart, gradually Yang Mingyuan is used to losing his temper with Li Mengzhu, Li Mengzhu is used to looking at Yang Mingyuan's face humbly, for Yang Mingyuan, she thinks she is ashamed, it is she who has dragged Yang Mingyuan down, it is Yang Mingyuan who has worked hard to raise her and her old lover's daughter Yang Xiaotong.
The visit of Wang Xiaocheng, who was in Chongqing in the past, stimulated Yang Mingyuan, and when they were in Chongqing, their painting level was not different, their lives were poor, and they were li Mengzhu's crush. Today's Wang Xiaocheng is already a well-known painter, with a successful career, a rich life, and a young and beautiful little wife.
The reason why the poor students who were not divided into each other at that time were as different as today is that they were tired of their families early on, and Yang Mingyuan was frustrated, but also attributed his various disobediences to Li Mengzhu's head.
In Kunming that year, after Yunwen designed to take away the invader Li Mengzhu, with the pride of the victor, she divorced He Mutian.
He Mutianxing, who was finally free, rushed to Chongqing, and yang Mingyuan stopped him and did not let him see Li Mengzhu.
He Mutian, who missed Li Mengzhu, never took a wife again, even if there was a young and beautiful female secretary who frequently showed favor.
He Mutian, who had been watching "Xi Yan" for half his life, did not expect to see Li Mengzhu again, and Li Mengzhu's haggardness made him feel sad and ignited hope - since Yang Mingyuan did not cherish her, let him give her a stable rest of her life.
In fact, at this time, Li Mengzhu was only thirty-six or seven years old, and now, there are many unmarried "senior girls" at this age, and the more big the city, the more there is. However, Li Mengzhu is already the mother of two children, and her daughter Yang Xiaotong is eighteen years old and has just entered the love period, so in her state of mind, Li Mengzhu is completely a middle-aged woman.
For He Mutian's re-pursuit, Li Mengzhu was confused and hesitated, and finally stayed with her incompetent and bad-tempered husband Yang Mingyuan.
The reasons for this are, however, the following three points:
First, although He Mutian's irresponsible affair is not true, He Mutian's deception of Li Mengzhu is irrefutablely true, after eighteen years, although the injury is no longer painful, it does not mean that this injury does not exist - you can forgive you, but you really care.
Second, when people reach middle age, love is not so important. Eighteen years of husband and wife, sharing weal and woe, raising their children together, although the home is broken, sheltering the wind and rain, Li Mengzhu has no love for Yang Mingyuan, but the husband and wife of eighteen years, good habits and responsibilities, have long become family, once they give up, they first hurt themselves.
3. Children. Not all children may oppose their parents' divorce, but almost all children cannot accept their parents to leave the family to pursue the so-called true love, even if Yang Xiaotong knows that He Mutian is her biological father, she does not approve of her mother's old dream revisited, let alone Yang Xiaobai?
More than twenty years ago, the popular "Dream of the Bridge" depicting the love of middle-aged people, Francesca struggled again and again, but also gave up the so-called love, chose home and husband and children.
Middle-aged people also have love, but the love of middle-aged people is only an embellishment of boring life, no longer a necessity, because life is only half left, unwilling to toss anymore, stick to the stability of this world.
If Li Mengzhu had to plunge headlong into the past to relive the past, how would she face Yang Mingyuan's eighteen years of hard work? How did she face her underage son Yang Xiaobai? What's more, Yunwen's daughter, the proud princess of the He family, Frost's stepmother, is so good?
The missed life has been missed after all, and it is good to stay in that year.