Article 2:
When we hear a thirteen-year-old child shouting for their parents to buy a house, we may be surprised, even a little ridiculous. However, for Zhang Xinyang's parents, such a request is not unexpected. They have full confidence in their talented son and believe that he will achieve amazing things in the future. However, the reality is often unexpected.
Zhang Xinyang has shown extraordinary learning ability since he was a child, which is amazing. Despite his excellent grades, his childhood was not a happy one. Under the excessive expectations and control of his parents, he lost the joy of his childhood, indulged in books all day, and had almost zero interaction with his peers.
At the age of ten, Zhang Xinyang stepped on the campus of the university and became an unprecedented prodigy. However, college life did not bring him the joy and freedom he deserved, but made him feel more lonely and lost. Faced with classmates who were far away from his own age, he was unable to fit into their circle, and his life became even more difficult.
In order to allow Zhang Xinyang to be successfully admitted to graduate school, his parents did not hesitate to resign to accompany him and take care of all his daily life. However, this excessive protection and expectation made Zhang feel suffocated, and he longed for freedom and freedom from his parents' control. When he asked to buy a house in graduate school, his parents' reaction left him disappointed and hopeless.
In the end, Zhang chose to give up, he quit his job as a teacher and chose a way of life that seemed free but was actually full of confusion. He rejected the expectations of society and the control of his parents, and chose to pursue the truth of his heart. However, this kind of freedom is not freedom in the true sense, but a manifestation of helplessness and resistance.
Zhang's story tells us that excessive expectations and control often backfire, leading to rebellion and boredom in children. Parents should respect their children's individuality and needs, and give them appropriate freedom and space, rather than blindly forcing and interfering. Only in a harmonious and balanced family environment can children grow up healthily and realize the value and meaning of their own lives.
Interrogative sentences:
Zhang's story provokes us to think about parenting methods and family relationships: are parents' excessive expectations and control really conducive to children's growth, do their behaviors affect children's self-development and personality formation, and how should we balance family expectations and children's growth needs when educating children?
Zhang's story makes us think deeply: in contemporary society, are parents' expectations of their children too utilitarian? Will excessive expectations and control harm children's growth and mental health? Perhaps, we should re-examine the essence of education, not only to pursue academic success, but also to pay attention to children's physical and mental health and personality development. Parents should respect their children's choices and wishes, and give them appropriate freedom and support, rather than blindly forcing and interfering. Only in a harmonious and balanced family environment can children truly grow up happily and realize the value and meaning of their own lives. So, as a member of society, how can we create a more relaxed and free environment for children to grow up?
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