I was blind in the first place, so I plunged headlong into this garbage heap.
Those mandarin ducks playing in the water and a bright future that others say, I look like a lump of poop now.
Honestly, marriage is a purgatory on earth.
Do you think you're out of the tiger's mouth when you get married? Just kidding, you've just entered the bottomless scum pit.
There are in-laws pointing fingers, and there are children tossing and turning, and it is all up to you.
All the bad things in the world will be involved in you, and you have to serve a large family.
You are the master of the house, take charge of the affairs of a hundred mouths, and call everywhere.
If you don't take care of the little things, the bullets will rain everywhere.
If you can get all this stuff done, you're the real backbone.
I have a friend who is quite pitiful, and getting married is like having two more masters.
I have to please my mother-in-law during the day, serve my husband at night, and tire myself into a dog.
I don't know how I survived, anyway, now people are already in the twilight, like an old lady who has had a stroke.
So I suggest that you must be mentally prepared before marriage.
Don't drill into it if you're idle, lest you won't be able to eat the grass.
Be a gentleman at home and be brave and decisive outside, this is the way to survive.
Husbands and wives should be considerate and help each other, and the unit must be ruthless and sharp, and attack for power and status.
I often smiled at my mother-in-law, and when I turned my head to "punch and kick" with other people in the unit.
Everyone ridiculed me as "a lady in the boudoir, a dragon and a phoenix in the field".
Husband, let him go, and I'll be in charge of the house.
Anyway, if you put up with him, he will have to put up with you.
If you are ruthless, he will be even more ruthless, this is the true meaning of killing a thousand enemies and losing eight hundred.
If you want to live, you can cope with it left and right like this.
However, I strongly recommend that you make sure that you have a Buddhist connection after marriage.
Life is too short, so why take it too seriously? There are some things that you have to love and hate clearly, and you have to worry about them, then you are really crazy.
For example, I put down my body and turned a blind eye to my husband's cheating, as long as he didn't go too far.
It's a big deal if he has been in love since he was a child, and I don't force my possessiveness.
They were out on the road, and I would go back to sleep at home, do housework, and take care of the children.
Anyway, as long as he gives money to the family, these can be tolerated by me.
That's how we live as a husband and wife, and our lives are okay.
Sometimes when I look at my husband who is tired, I am afraid that I will be jealous and angry.
Thanks to my Buddhist system, I nagged two sentences, and it was over.
I think you all have to learn to deal with it when you get married, don't always make a big fuss and take it seriously.
Like me, you have to recognize one fact first: it doesn't matter if love exists or not.
Marriage itself is not a happy thing, don't stuff so many deceitful nonsense into your head.
We sisters have to be sober and learn to hold ourselves seriously.
Since childhood, we have been taught that "marriage is the continuation of love", no wonder too many people completely confess themselves when they get married.
Should you be a legal prostitute in marriage? Save it, whoever marries you will belong to whom? You must have your own principles and bottom line, and don't always blindly follow and compromise.
Love is a thing that is fresh and energetic when we are young, and we will be much more sober when we are old.
I feel more and more that it is good to meet a reliable and honest person, and other messy requirements can be waived.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a hard injury, and it is related to your future happiness index.
When facing your mother-in-law, you have to be sneaky, and you can't go back if you have a sentence.
But at home, you also have to base yourself on yourself, be upright, and don't let your husband bully.
In short, you have to be like Genfloz to the outside, but as far as my children and family are concerned, you have to say the same thing and take a clear stand.
Do you want to give in to them? Then I advise you not to dream, and protecting your own rights and interests is the last word.
A friend is miserable, married to a wretched husband, and is submissive in front of his mother-in-law.
When I got home, I had to serve that nest of things, and I was a maid, pitiful.
So you learn from me, Buddhism outside, hardcore at home, this is the survival plan.
I pay attention to keeping my hobbies and hobbies, and give myself a few days off every month to do what I like to do.
On weekends, I will also have two glasses of wine with my girlfriends and talk about the merits.
My friends say I'm in prison but I'm at ease, and that's my philosophy of life.
So, marriage doesn't mean you have to compromise and give everything to your family.
Being an independent woman is the king, and after marriage, you must also maintain the free mind when you are single.
Don't always think that if you get married, you have to be a domestic puppy and bow your head all day long to survive.
You have to have your own bottom line, your own judgment of right and wrong, and your own pursuit and style.
Married life is a matter for two people, but there must also be a third person in you—yourself.
Otherwise, you might as well be a singleton from the start.
But then again, there's more to married life than that.
You have to be very careful not to be blinded by others.
Many sisters suffer from "eroticism" when they get married.
completely fell into an illusory romance, and counted on the "heart-to-heart, affection, love, love" with the other half all day long.