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Lin Yutang said that blessings do not come from the outside, but from the inside. If a person enjoys true blessings, or all kinds of blessings in the world, he must have the virtue of happiness in order to maintain prosperity.
A woman with a good life is blessed, and the blessings are all cultivated by herself, and they are also the creation of her life.
You want to make yourself better, don't complain, don't feel sorry for yourself, don't give up, don't think about it, don't be negative and pessimistic, but be kind, work hard, be brave and strong, and make yourself excellent, so that you can meet a better self, and you can also meet noble people to help you, so that your life path is getting wider and wider.
If you don't believe it, you can look back, those women with good lives have more or less several characteristics on their bodies.
1. Be sincere, not pretending.
The more straightforward the woman, the more sincere she is, they don't pretend to be themselves, and they say it directly if they have anything to say, and it's actually very comfortable to get along with such people, you don't have to use your heart, because they won't play tricks on you, so a sincere woman is actually easier to get people's hearts, whether it is in friendship or love, in fact, it is easy to make people like.
On the contrary, those who disobey the yang and the yin always speak in front of them and behind them, which makes people suspicious and untrustworthy, so they have to guard against it, and they don't dare to have a heart-to-heart relationship with such a woman, so such women can't actually get good friends who treat each other sincerely, because they are insincere.
Even in the relationship, because she is too calculating and scheming, she loses the person who loves her.
Only sincere people can be treated well by others.
Just as Mai Chenghuan in "Chenghuan" is a person with a good fate, it is also her sincerity in exchange.
She was sincere, friendly to everyone, and kind to her grandmother, and eventually after her grandmother died, she gave her the hotel, so she became the boss, and her life got better and better.
Don't have too many routines between people, sincerity is the best gift, only sincere people can give people warmth and get good rewards.
2. Self-discipline and hard work, relying on yourself to become better.
Women with good lives are obtained by their own efforts.
I have a friend by my side, and it is by his own efforts that he has become the president of the bank.
She is a very self-disciplined person, when she was studying, she worked very hard, and then she was admitted to a very good university, and after graduation, she entered the bank to work, and she has always maintained self-discipline, improved herself, improved her business ability, and was very capable, and finally became a president, which is really amazing.
She came from the countryside, we are all from the same place, and she has achieved this because of her own hard work and self-discipline.
Later, I met a good husband, the family background is also good, her husband is also a peer, and he is also the president, the two are evenly matched, which can be said to be a very good relationship.
Therefore, people with good lives are all because of themselves, and when you are good enough, you can meet excellent people.
3. Emotional stability and not arrogance.
Mai Chenghuan in "The Story of Cheng Huan" is really emotionally stable, whether she encounters problems at work or conflicts with her family members in the family, her emotions are very stable, and she will not lose her temper casually, unless she is really wronged, she can't help crying.
But she never lost her temper with her family, and even after she became the boss, she didn't lose her temper with her employees, but got along with them and worked with them.
Her positive emotional value has been recognized by the staff, so as to follow her to make the hotel better.
Cheng Huan went from a worker to a boss, completing the counterattack of fate, and it was her emotions that made her better.
As there is a passage in the book "Acting as an Emotionally Stable Adult Every Day": Whether we want it or not, trouble is inevitable, and whether we like it or not, the future will definitely come. But as long as you live, then everything is "to be continued".
People who are emotionally stable are able to deal with things calmly and calmly, so they will make themselves stronger.
Good life is not innate, but acquired by one's own hard work.
If a woman wants to become a good life, she must be herself, improve herself, love herself, and treat others sincerely and kindly, and the ending will naturally not treat you badly.
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