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"Look, look, it's all because of you!" echoed from the station, a mother yelled at her daughter, and everyone around her turned their heads to watch.
The mother, who was desperately hurrying, was in the busy hour of the Hangzhou high-speed rail station when she suddenly became emotional and began to scold her daughter who was holding a sugar gourd in her hand.
The daughter's little hands grasped the corners of her mother's clothes, and she looked at her with teary eyes, not understanding why her mother had suddenly become so angry.
What had caused the mother to be so emotionally broken, and what kind of stress and helplessness did her roar hide?
The women's high-speed rail is angry
On April 28, 2024, a piece of news came that aroused everyone's attention.
It turned out that a mother was holding the hand of her four-year-old daughter and hurrying through the crowd as they rushed to the 1509 train to Shanghai.
But just as they were about to reach the ticket gate, the daughter suddenly stopped, crying and trying to eat the sugar gourd from the roadside stall. The mother was in a hurry to catch the car and did not want to stay for a moment.
But the daughter's crying became more and more intense, and the mother was so anxious that she decided to buy the sugar gourd and leave quickly.
Unfortunately, during this short stop, train 1509 stopped checking tickets. When the mother and daughter arrived at the ticket gate, the train was ready to depart.
In desperation, the mother felt an indescribable frustration and anger. She completely broke down emotionally, sat on the floor of the wicket, and yelled at her daughter:
"It's all your fault! Look, we've all missed the train! You have to have that sugar gourd, look at it now! It's all because of you!"
(Woman missed the high-speed rail and scolded the child)
The daughter's tears began to roll down, and her voice choked, "I'm sorry Mom, I just wanted to eat sugar gourd..."
Mother continued, "We could have been fine, but now all plans have been disrupted! Why don't you listen to Mother? What do we do now?"
Her roar echoed through the station, drawing the attention of the crowd around her. The daughter trembled with fear, tears rolling in her big eyes, and she couldn't understand why her mother was suddenly so angry with her.
Seeing this, the station staff rushed over to try to reassure the mother while trying to protect her daughter from further fright.
They persuaded the mother to calm down, told her to take her daughter to the rest area for a break, and arranged seats for them on the next train.
The mother's emotions gradually subsided, and she looked at the innocent frightened daughter in front of her, and her heart swelled with deep self-blame and remorse. She realizes that her actions may have deeply hurt her daughter, which is the last thing she wants.
(Picture of a woman scolding a child for missing the high-speed rail)
So, after realizing her mistake, she decided to comfort her daughter and try her best to make up for her mistake.
The mother missed the high-speed train because her daughter bought sugar gourds, and she broke down emotionally and scolded her daughter in an instant, which was quickly spread to the Internet, and quickly attracted onlookers from the melon-eating crowd.
However, there are many examples of parents being angry with their children in real life.
Other examples of parents being angry with their children
On October 10, 2021, a father lost control of his emotions because he thought his daughter could not solve simple math problems correctly.
After a burst of rage, he ran to the middle of a busy street in the city center, lay down and shouted to the police: "800 minus 700, my daughter calculated that it is equal to 900." I'm lying here today just because you want you to take me into custody. ”
The move attracted the attention of the crowd of onlookers, who gathered to watch and involuntarily burst into laughter.
The police quickly intervened to persuade the father to leave the road. After some patient communication, he finally accepted the police's advice, staggered to his feet, and went home.
The father was angry because his daughter couldn't do math, and he made a ridiculous thing, and there are many such things in society, and the next year another incident of a woman being angry with a child happened again.
(The daughter can't do math problems, and the father collapses and lies on the road begging for detention)
On the evening of September 14, 2023, in a restaurant in Xingcheng Xingtiandi Shopping Mall, Yuhua District, Changsha, a family dispute attracted the attention of people around him.
A mother is very angry that her daughter is disobedient and makes a mistake, and her emotions are out of control to the extreme. During the altercation, the mother's anger escalated, and she even tried to pick up the dining chair next to her and throw it at her daughter.
The mother's angry roar attracted the attention of the clerks, who quickly intervened, and with their timely dissuasion, the tension gradually eased and the conflict that could have escalated was calmed.
The parent who asked the police to arrest him, as well as the parent of the angry daughter, they were all suddenly angry because the child made a small mistake, which made us see the difficulty of adults, and maybe the collapse of adults is in an instant.
At the same time, the scolding of her daughter's mother at the high-speed rail station also sparked controversy among netizens.
Netizens commented on the incident of the woman missing the high-speed rail and yelling at the child
Netizens had a heated discussion about the behavior of a mother yelling at her daughter at Hangzhou high-speed rail station because she missed the train:
Netizen A: "It's really distressing to see the video of that mother at the station, she shouldn't really want to yell at the child, maybe it's just the pressure of life that made her explode." ”
Netizen B: "In fact, as outsiders, it is difficult for us to fully understand the situation, but judging from the video, the mother's emotions are indeed very unstable, and such an environment is too terrifying for the child." ”
(Netizens commented on the incident of the woman scolding the child for missing the high-speed rail)
Netizen C: "What she is yelling at is not the child but life, who can not collapse in this situation? We should have more empathy, rather than blindly condemning." ”
Netizen D: "As parents, we should show our children how to handle emotions correctly. The mother's behavior has taught the public a negative example, and hopefully she will learn from this experience how to handle stress better. ”
The comments reflected different views on the mother's angry situation, with some expressing sympathy and understanding, while others stressed the importance of controlling emotions in front of the child.
Such things have deepened people's understanding of the pressures of adult life, as well as educating children and controlling their tempers. At the same time, I also hope that everyone can understand that adult life is not easy, after all, everyone has moments of emotional breakdown.
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A mother in Changsha lost control of her emotions and picked up a stool and smashed it at her daughter...... The reason for the anger is surprising Bright.com
800 minus 700 daughter is counted as 900, and the man lies on the road crying and begging the police to detain Global Times