After the child enters the school, in the process of getting along with his classmates, he will inevitably have contradictions, when parents know that their children and classmates have friction, how do they deal with it? Recently, the practice of a mother in Hebei Province has aroused heated discussions.
On April 22, at the gate of a school in Hebei, a mother violently blocked her daughter's male classmate, and then beckoned her daughter to do it, asking her to "avenge" herself in person.
The girl immediately stepped forward and scuffled with the boy, and the passers-by tried to come forward to persuade them to fight, but the girl's mother stopped them. Because of the girl's mother beside him, the boy was probably a little frightened and didn't dare to fight back, and then the boy's face was scratched by the girl.
According to insiders, the cause of the conflict was that the boy scolded the girl at school, and after the girl complained to her mother, her mother was also very angry, so the opening scene happened.
Due to the unknown full picture of the event, most netizens bring their own experiences or opinions when judging this matter.
Some people believe that since the cause of the incident was that the boy bullied the girl at school, in this case, the boy is the bully and the girl is the bullied, so this is the last resort for parents to face the problem of bullying between minors. Anyway, the mother didn't do it, it was the child who did it, and the mother was just protecting her child and letting the child seek justice for herself.
Due to the frequent reports of school bullying incidents recently, many netizens will be filled with righteous indignation after seeing who bullied whom among students. If, as everyone speculates, after the boy bullies the girl, the girl fights back under the protection of the mother, then the mother's practice is indeed feasible. First of all, parents are guarding by the side, which gives children the courage to fight back, and secondly, children's world follows the law of the jungle, "don't be soft persimmons", and dare to fight back after being bullied, which is a good way to protect themselves.
But is this an incident caused by bullying? If it is just a small friction between children, when the right and wrong are not clear, the mother takes the child to block other people's children, and this practice is worth talking about.
In the comment area, some netizens brought in stories around them, saying that there is a kind of child who clearly caused trouble first, but in his cognition, he just felt that he was wronged, so after talking nonsense in front of his parents, it led to the development of things in a distorted direction.
Speaking of the incident of taking her daughter to block the boy, if the girl was bullied, then the mother took the child to discuss the law, and I believe that most netizens will vote for the mother. However, if it is just a small friction between children, and the mother is so aggressive to block the boy and let the daughter do it, this approach is very wrong.
In fact, in daily life, parents should try to remain rational when helping to deal with children's conflicts, first understand the situation by communicating with their children, and then try to contact the teacher and the other party's parents first, so as to understand the whole picture of the incident from multiple angles and aspects.
In addition, if the teacher or school does not act after the child is bullied, and the other parent's attitude is arrogant, the parent should teach the child to protect himself bravely and strategically. At all times, your own safety and health should come first.