Do you still remember the "Changsha 14-year-old girl who was bullied to the point of cutting her wrists to survive" a few days ago?
Liu, a third-year junior high school girl, was beaten by a number of students, including Yan Mouhan, and was beaten in ways such as slapping and kicking her head. The whole beating process lasted more than an hour, and then Yan Mouhan and others proposed to "change places", in order to avoid being beaten more ferociously, Liu had to pick up the glass shards on the ground and cut his throat, trying to use self-inflicted means to make the bully stop. As a result, the group of bullies beat even more severely after seeing Liu cut his throat.
Later, after the hospital examination, after Liu was beaten, he had multiple open wounds on his wrists and neck, facial contusions, and scalp edema, which was identified as a second-degree minor injury.
I thought that this incident would end here after being handed over to the relevant departments to deal with it, but what I didn't expect was that the father of Yan Mouhan, the "leader" in the bullying group, did not agree, he said that the video uploaded on the Internet of a group of people beating Liu did not match the facts, and the nature of the two parties should be mutual assault, and the injury identification was caused by his self-harm. Now that Liu's family reported the case, Yan's father is also very dissatisfied with his daughter being called to cooperate with the investigation many times. He also said that Yan Mouhan and Liu Mouhan were best friends, and the "mutual assault" was a "matter of the mouth" between girls.
Then, the girl who was beaten, Liu, also spoke out about the matter, saying that since the summer vacation of 2023, Yan Mouhan has often brought a group of people to beat her. Once, Yan Mouhan also hit Liu's head with the heel of his high-heeled shoes, causing Liu's head to be injured, and he also received 3 stitches.
Liu's father also said that there was no mutual assault. Because Yan Mouhan not only beat Liu, but also made a video of the process of beating her and posted it in the circle of friends. There is such a video, Liu is sitting on the ground with his hair scattered, and Yan Mouhan and several other girls take turns to step forward and kick Liu with their feet.
With more bullying, frequent beatings, and video humiliation, if this series of operations are defined by Yan Mouhan's father as mutual beating, I don't know how bullying should be defined?
Now, the results of Liu's bullying by Yan Mouhan and others have also come out, Yan Mouhan and another bully will be sent to a specialized school for one year of correctional education, and there are also those who participated in this bullying incident, but they are under the age of 15 and have no opinions on how to deal with it.
Don't ask what the opinion of "no handling opinion" is, it is that you are not old enough, and you can't even send it to a vocational school for one year of correctional education.
At this moment, I really want to snort coldly.
Especially when seeing Yan Mouhan's father's attitude towards his daughter's bullying, many netizens became even more angry, and left messages saying that they finally knew why Yan Mouhan was so reckless in school, after all, there was a father who confused right and wrong standing behind him. The old father has such three views are not correct, you say, where can the child's three views go?
You know, many parents send their children to school, they are worried about whether their children will be bullied, and they rarely seem to worry about whether their children will bully others. It is pitiful to be a bullied, but isn't it sad to be a bully? Let children "not be bullied by others, but they cannot bully others", this should be a two-way education!
Many people find a pattern after summarizing various bullying incidents, the bullied often appear in the image of a "soft persimmon", because they dare not resist or do not know how to resist after being bullied, so they become the "more willing" target of bullying by the bully. While bullying the weak, the bully does not have to worry about the other party's resistance and can enjoy the pleasure of making the other person surrender, so once the bully and the bullied person form a camp, this relationship will continue forever.
In addition, the reason why bullies are arrogant and domineering is closely related to school and family education. First of all, for schools, grades come first, and too many schools ignore the importance of moral education while pursuing teaching; secondly, schools and teachers lack corresponding measures to deal with disputes between minors, and the attitude of "soft treatment" or "no handling" makes bullies more and more unscrupulous; and then, family factors are also crucial, many parents of bullies are accustomed to handling disputes in a violent way, and children are exposed to it from an early age. For example, although some bullies are arrogant at school, they are often taught by their parents at home because of their grades. Finally, it is also related to the behavior of some parents to "protect their calves", as mentioned before, some parents only care about whether their children are bullied, but they don't care whether they will bully others. The lack of clarity about right and wrong, right and wrong, also contributes to the bad culture of bullies.