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I am Yang Yuwei, an ordinary city girl, living in a world full of joys, sorrows, and sorrows. Perhaps, I am not the kind of girl with a flamboyant personality, but I am full of enthusiasm for life and have a beautiful vision of love. I grew up in an ordinary family, and my parents were ordinary working-class parents, although the family was not wealthy, but they were warm and harmonious. I am the only daughter in my family, and my parents have always had high expectations for me, hoping that I can have a happy marriage and live a stable and happy life.
Just when my relationship with my boyfriend Fu Hao gradually warmed up and we were about to move towards marriage, an unexpected contradiction quietly came. Hiroshi is an open-minded and delicate boy who is considerate and caring for me, making me feel infinitely warm and safe. We met in college, admired each other, and gradually came together. He is the only child in the family, and his parents are very supportive of our relationship, and even started planning for our wedding early.
However, a piece of news that I didn't expect shattered the peaceful life. Hao's mother, my future mother-in-law, suddenly made a request that shocked me: I wanted my family to buy a dowry house in order to be considered a good match for their family. For an ordinary family like ours, a house is not a small amount, let alone a special purpose for marriage. I feel extremely aggrieved and puzzled, my parents have worked hard all their lives, and the money they have saved is hard money, how can they easily use it to buy a house? Moreover, this practice is too realistic, how can emotional matters be measured by money?
I discussed it with Hao for a long time, and he also said that he understood my difficulties, but after all, he was the only child in the family, and he also had certain concerns about his parents' requirements. We are mired in contemplation and contradiction on this issue, and I don't know what to do. Until one day, Hiroshi told me that his mother proposed a compromise that she would pay 20,000 yuan to help us buy the dowry house, but only if I promised her that she could move in after we got married.
Hearing this condition, I couldn't believe my ears. Isn't this buying our freedom with money? I rejected this offer, telling Ho that I wouldn't agree. As a result, our relationship reached an impasse, and I felt a wave of powerlessness and despair hit me. I didn't know what to do, I felt like I was trapped in a quagmire from which I couldn't escape.
Hearing Yang Yuwei's refusal, I felt an indescribable sense of disappointment and anger. My mother's expectations, my responsibilities to the family, kept me from making decisions for a while. I tried to persuade Yuwei, but her attitude was so resolute that I couldn't convince her. I felt my inner struggle and helplessness, as if I was in a dilemma. The pressures of family and the ideals of love intertwine in my heart and make me hesitate.
Yang Yuwei's refusal made me feel very difficult, I understood her position, but I also found it difficult to go against my mother's wishes. My mother has always had a very high opinion of the right family, and I know that she made this request out of kindness to me. I persuaded Yuwei to accept her mother's terms, but she seemed to have made up her mind and resolutely refused. I felt helpless and guilty, and I didn't know how to face my mother's expectations or how to communicate with Yuwei.
Looking at Hao's embarrassed expression, I actually felt very uncomfortable in my heart. After all, I brought up this question, and I thought he would speak for me, but I didn't expect him to support his mother like this. Looking at his embarrassed appearance, I couldn't help but feel a little sad, maybe I was too impulsive to do all this. However, deep down in my heart, I still insist on a spirit of not admitting defeat, and I am not willing to exchange money for my happiness.
On this issue, the relationship between me and Hiroshi became more and more strained. Communication between us became less and less, and every time we met, it was full of embarrassment and depression. I don't know how to face him, let alone how to resolve this contradiction. I felt like I was in a situation where I couldn't help myself, I felt like the whole world was putting pressure on me and I had nowhere to run.
At the same time, the atmosphere in my house became more and more tense. My parents saw that I was in a bad mood and asked me what was going on, but I couldn't tell them about it. I don't want to embarrass them, and I don't want them to worry about my decision. I could only bear all this silently by myself, and my heart was full of helplessness and bitterness. I began to doubt my choices, I began to doubt the true meaning of love and marriage. I felt like I was standing on the edge of a cliff, and I could be pushed down at any moment.
As time went on, the relationship between me and Yuwei became more and more strained. Each meeting was filled with awkwardness and silence, and the distance between us seemed to grow farther and farther apart. I didn't know how to resolve this conflict, and I felt very helpless and anxious.
Seeing that I was in a bad mood, my mother began to ask about me and Yuwei. I tried to avoid the topic, but my mother seemed to sense that something was wrong with me and insisted that I be honest. I had no choice but to tell my mother the whole thing, hoping that she would understand the situation of me and Yuwei. After listening to my narration, my mother was silent for a moment, and then sighed deeply.
"Children, it is indeed an important thing to be the right person, but love cannot be ignored. The mother's voice was full of deep meaning, "You must know that the wealth of the family does not mean everything, and true happiness comes from mutual understanding and support." You must know how to cherish the happiness in front of you, and don't let money become a barrier between you. ”
After listening to my mother's words, I fell into deep thought. I began to revisit the matter, trying to understand Yuwei's rejection from a different perspective. Perhaps, I was too attached to my family's expectations and neglected what really mattered. I decided to have a good talk with Yuwei, hoping to resolve the misunderstanding between us and rebuild our trust and affection.
So, I asked Yuwei to meet in a quiet café. In the face of her, I tried to express my inner thoughts, hoping to get her understanding and support. After listening to my narration, Yuwei was silent for a while, and then took a deep breath.
"Hao, I know your family is important to you, and I understand your mother's expectations. Yu Wei's voice was slightly choked, "But I hope you can also understand me, I don't want to measure our feelings by money, I want the love between us to be pure and not affected by any external factors." ”
Hearing Yuwei's honesty, I felt a warm current welling up in my heart. I understand her position and I understand her concerns. I decided to support her choice, let go of my family's expectations, and face the challenges ahead with her. I reached out and gently shook her hand, silently showing support and understanding. In this cozy café, we regained our trust and affection for each other and decided to face the challenges of the future together.
Since that day, Yuwei and I have become even closer, and we support each other to face the difficulties and challenges in life together. We decided to work together and fight for our love and future. Although the expectations of the family are still there, we have learned to resolve the contradictions with love and understanding, and to make each other's feelings stronger and deeper.
Thanks to our efforts, in the end, our family gradually accepted our choice, they saw the sincere feelings between us, and understood our determination not to be bound by money. Yuwei and I finally ushered in our own happiness, we supported each other, and walked through every stage of life together until we grew old together.
This experience made me understand the true meaning of love, and it also made me cherish the happiness I have in front of me even more. I have learned to face life's difficulties with love and understanding, and to pursue my own happiness with perseverance and courage. My love story with Yuwei may not be perfect, but it is real and precious, it teaches me how to grow, how to be strong, how to be brave to pursue my dreams and happiness.
As time went on, my relationship with Yuwei gradually warmed up, and the communication between us became smoother. Every day I can't wait to meet her and share the bits and pieces of my life with her. Yuwei gradually regained her old smile, and we regained our tacit understanding and trust with each other.
After the test of this relationship, my love for Yuwei is even deeper. I realized that she is the most important person in my life, and I am willing to use everything I have to care for her and protect her forever. I proposed to her, proving my sincerity for her with a lifetime of commitment and love.
Yuwei accepted my marriage proposal, and we decided to welcome our own happiness. We started planning for the wedding, planning the future together, and hoping to go through every stage of life together.
During the preparation of the wedding, we went through all kinds of difficulties and challenges, but we always supported each other and overcame all difficulties together. Eventually, we had the wedding of our dreams, surrounded by family and friends, and we solemnly swore to each other that we would be together for the rest of our lives.
On this special day, we felt endless happiness and fulfillment. We embrace each other and meet the challenges and opportunities of the future together. I firmly believe that with Yuwei's company, my life will be more fulfilling and beautiful, and I am willing to work hand in hand with her to go through every stage of my life forever.
After marriage, we are still full of love and warmth. We support each other, grow together, and face the joys, sorrows, and sorrows of life together. We work hard, work together, and work hard for our future dreams and goals. We enjoy each other's company and all the beauty and happiness that life brings us.
I know that no matter what challenges and difficulties I will encounter in the future, I will firmly guard Yuwei and protect her with my love and perseverance forever. I believe that with each other's support and trust, we will be able to create our own happiness together.
Life after marriage is full of sweetness and warmth. Every morning, I prepare a warm breakfast for Yuwei and enjoy a good time with her. We would walk together, talk, and share each other's joys and sorrows, as if there were only two of us in the world.
Yuwei is also a gentle and considerate wife, she will prepare a hearty dinner for me and care about my life and work. Whenever I encountered difficulties, she would always be by my side to give me encouragement and support, which made me feel infinite strength and courage.
We have had many wonderful times together and have faced the challenges and difficulties of life together. However, we have always supported each other and worked together through every difficult moment. I thank God for giving me such a loving wife, and I am willing to use everything I have to take care of her and protect her forever.
With our joint efforts, our lives are getting better and better. We moved into our own small home and lived a stable and happy life. I know that with each other's company, we can overcome all difficulties and meet the challenges ahead.
The days after marriage have passed quickly, and in the blink of an eye, a few years have passed. Our love is still the same, we still support each other and understand each other. I love Yuwei deeply and am willing to use everything I have to care for her and protect her forever. Together, we walk through every stage of life together until we grow old together.
I know that with Yuwei's company, my life will be full of infinite happiness and beauty. I am willing to cherish her forever and protect her with my love and perseverance forever. Our love story, though ordinary, is full of sincerity and warmth, and it has taught me how to grow, how to be strong, and how to be brave enough to pursue my dreams and happiness.
I deeply believe that as long as we love and trust each other, we can create our own happiness and live a beautiful and happy life together. May our love always be the same, and may our happiness last forever.
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