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I am an elderly man in my sixties who live an ordinary and busy life, and six years ago, I took over the burden of raising my grandchildren. At that time, my son and daughter-in-law were working in other places, and they left the children with me and my wife. My wife is in her 70s and is not in good health, but we are obligated to take on this responsibility. At first, I thought it was just a short period and that they would pick up the kids when they had a stable job. However, six years have passed in a flash, the child has grown into a sensible little boy, and my wife and I have gradually aged a lot.
We have been working hard to save money and run our family for the cost of living and tuition for our grandchildren. Although it may feel hard at times, we feel that everything is worth it to see our grandchildren grow up healthy and happy. However, fate is always full of unpredictable variables.
A few months ago, I suddenly felt unwell and found out after examination that I had a serious illness that required surgery. The news came as a bolt from the blue for our family, the cost of the surgery was huge, and it required a long period of rehabilitation and treatment after the surgery. My wife and I simply can't afford to pay for it, let alone take care of our grandchildren and family.
When my son and daughter-in-law heard the news, they initially expressed concern, but quickly pushed the problem to a distant relative of my brother's family. They said that this relative was financially well-off and could help us with something. So, they only call once in a while to say hello, and the rest of the time they don't pay attention. Although my brother's relative helped a little, he was not a relative after all, and his concern for us was limited.
The recovery period after surgery is painful and requires a long period of rest and treatment. My grandson needs to take care of everything in school and life, and my wife and I really can't cope with it. It was at this time that doubts and dissatisfaction began to arise in our hearts. Why are our children so indifferent to themselves? Why can't they give a little support and help? In the midst of such pain and helplessness, different emotions gradually arise in our hearts.
The atmosphere at home also became tense. My wife and I began to complain about the indifference of our son and daughter-in-law, and they used their busy schedules as an excuse to shirk their responsibilities. My son and daughter-in-law also felt that the time and money they had given for six years was enough, and there was no need to do anything more. Such contradictions and antagonisms gradually intensified, leaving the whole family in a difficult situation.
My wife and I started to think about some extreme practices, such as taking back the house and car we had given them earlier and letting them solve the problem on their own. We feel that we are old and not in good health, and we can no longer worry about their affairs. However, once this is done, our family relationships will break down completely, which is an outcome that we do not want to see. So, we got caught up in thinking and hesitating.
At this time, my brother's family was also involved in this dispute. They began to persuade my wife and me not to worry too much about our children and to think more about our children. But we always feel aggrieved and unfair in our hearts, as if we have been abandoned by our relatives. Dominated by this emotion, our decisions become more resolute and stubborn, unwilling to compromise and reluctant to make up a penny for them.
This is the current situation of my family, six years of bringing grandchildren, my wife and I are physically and mentally exhausted, and it also makes our family relationship very strained. At this critical juncture, we are faced with a difficult choice, what exactly can we do to bring this family back to harmony and happiness?
When my brother and sister-in-law heard about my wife's decision and me, they rushed to my house to persuade us not to do anything radical. The sister-in-law spoke first: "Oh, big brother and sister-in-law, you also know our current situation, Xiaowei's work is not easy, the child is also in elementary school, and the expenses are not small." We couldn't really help much, but we did our best. ”
I replied sullenly, "Yes, you are also in trouble, and I understand." However, after so many years, we have worked hard to bring our eldest grandson, and now we are sick and hospitalized, and I haven't seen you take the initiative to care, it is all my brother's family who is taking care of it, which is really chilling. ”
The younger brother and daughter-in-law immediately retorted: "Big brother and sister-in-law, think about it, we give some living expenses and children's tuition fees every year, and we also send back all the gifts for the New Year." Besides, Xiaowei often calls to ask you about your health, isn't that a concern?"
I listened to her and felt a little embarrassed, because they did support us financially, and Xiaowei did call us regularly to ask for our health. However, this does not hide the dissatisfaction and grievances of my wife and me.
My wife took over the conversation and said, "That's it, I always feel that something is missing, and my heart is not steady." Besides, this time we were sick and hospitalized, and the situation at home was also clear at a glance, who took the initiative to care for us? It was the distant relative who helped us, and no one else asked. ”
The younger brother and sister-in-law sighed: "Big brother and sister-in-law, I also know that you have dissatisfaction and grievances in your hearts, but every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and we have not cared about your situation." Let's discuss this matter and don't make it unpleasant. ”
At this time, my brother also chimed in and said, "Yes, big brother and sister-in-law, we don't care about your situation. My sister-in-law also feels sorry for the child, and our economic conditions are limited, so we can't help much. This time, we can think of another way not to make too much trouble. ”
My wife and I listened to their words, and our hearts softened a little. After all, they did help us financially and regularly cared for our physical condition. Coupled with my brother-in-law's soft grinding and hard bubbles, we are also a little embarrassed in our hearts, feeling that we are a little too extreme.
I thought for a moment and said, "Well, we're not talking about taking back the house and the car, that's too absolute." We can talk about it again and see if there are other solutions. ”
My wife also nodded: "Yes, we are not willing to fall out with you, after all, we are still a family." ”
My brother and sister-in-law were relieved to see that our attitude had softened. They laughed and said, "Okay, let's talk about it again and see if we can find a better solution." ”
At this time, the grandson came from the side and watched us talk, his eyes shining with worry. He whispered, "Grandparents, don't be angry, I don't want to see you quarrel." ”
My wife and I looked at our grandson at the same time, and our hearts felt sour. This child, although small, is very sensible, and his words make us feel that we have gone too far.
I gently stroked my grandson's hair and said with a smile: "Grandson, grandma is not angry, we just have some things to discuss, you don't have to worry." ”
The grandson nodded, the worry in his eyes dissipated a little, and he turned to run to play.
The whole family atmosphere has eased a little, and my wife and I feel a little better. Perhaps, things are not so bad, as long as everyone communicates more and understands each other more, the problem can always be solved.
For the next few days, our family struggled to find a solution to this problem. The younger brother and daughter-in-law suggested that they could find some relatives and friends to help, and the wife also suggested that the grandson could be temporarily sent back to the son's house so that they could take care of themselves for a while. My brother suggested that we could discuss how to share the cost together and not put too much pressure on one of the parties.
After some discussion and discussion, we finally found a more suitable solution. My brother and sister-in-law agreed to pay a little more for their living expenses each month, and my wife and I agreed to send our grandson back to our son's house
Next, our family acted according to the agreed plan. My wife and I sent our grandson back to our son's house, although we were a little reluctant, but we also felt that it was more appropriate to let the child take care of his parents together.
After the surgery and treatment, I gradually recovered and my body gradually regained some vitality. And the atmosphere at home has become much more relaxed, without the previous tension and contradictions. My wife and I often call our son to contact them, care about our grandson's life and study, and hear their words of gratitude to us.
However, time passed quickly, and the grandson adjusted well at his son's house, and we began to feel that we missed him a little. So, my wife and I discussed whether we would like to bring our grandson home and start living the life we knew again. However, we are also hesitating, after all, the grandson is doing well at his son's house, and suddenly picking him back may cause him discomfort.
At this time, the son and daughter-in-law called and said, "Mom and Dad, the child is doing well here, and his studies have improved a lot. We think he's happier here, you don't have to worry. ”
Hearing them say this, my wife and I also felt a lot more relieved. After all, the happiness of the child is the most important thing, and when he is happy at his son's house, we are more at ease.
Life has gradually returned to calm, and we have slowly adjusted our mentality, no longer caring about the past contradictions and grievances. Every day, my wife and I would walk around the community, looking at the busy residents, and also feeling the beauty and peace of life.
One day, while my wife and I were walking in the community, we met an elderly couple who were also residents of the community. The old lady came over with a smile and said, "Did you just come back with your grandson?" I see that your children often play in the yard. ”
My wife and I looked at each other and replied with a smile, "Yes, my grandson has lived with us for a long time, and now he has returned to his son's house for the time being, and we miss him a little." ”
The old lady smiled and said, "Children are the hope of the family, and you are really happy to have a grandson with you." ”
My wife also smiled and nodded: "Yes, family harmony and healthy growth of children are the most important things." ”
We chatted with the old lady for a while and felt the warmth and care between the neighbors. Perhaps, the happiness of the family does not lie in material possession, but in mutual understanding and tolerance.
Back at home, my wife and I sat on the balcony and watched the sun set, filled with emotion. Over the years, we have experienced many hardships and challenges, but we have also gained a lot of emotion and growth. The maintenance of family relationships requires the joint efforts of everyone, and more importantly, understanding and tolerance.
There may be all kinds of challenges and difficulties in the days ahead, but we believe that as long as the family is united and faces it together, everything will be better. This is the story of our family, full of warmth and touching, and it also teaches us a lot about family and the true meaning of love.
After a while, everything in the house gradually returned to calm and harmony. My grandson is doing well at my son's house, and we often have video calls with them, and although we can't see them in person, our hearts are always warm.
One day, my wife and I were preparing for afternoon tea when the doorbell rang suddenly. I opened the door and was surprised to see my son and daughter-in-law standing in the doorway, their faces with a hint of worry and nervousness.
The son said: "Mom and Dad, the child is sick, the doctor said that he needs to be hospitalized for a period of time, and the conditions on our side are limited, so I would like to ask you to help take care of it." ”
Hearing my son's words, my wife and I tightened our hearts and immediately asked, "What's wrong with the child?"
The daughter-in-law interjected: "The doctor said that it is a common complication caused by a cold, which requires rest and treatment, and may require a period of hospitalization. Our conditions are indeed a little limited, and I hope my parents can help take care of them. ”
The wife listened to them and immediately said, "Of course, the health of the child is the most important." Rest assured, we will take care of him. ”
The son and daughter-in-law breathed a sigh of relief and said, "Thank you Mom and Dad, we are going to the hospital soon, I hope everything goes well." ”
They left in a hurry, leaving both of us at the door. My wife and I looked at each other, worried and anxious. Your child's health is the most worrying thing, and hopefully everything will go well.
The next morning, we packed our bags and went to our son's house. The child was being treated in the hospital and there was a hint of joy on his face when he saw us coming.
My wife and I sat on the edge of the child's bed and asked with concern, "Child, how do you feel, is the condition getting better?"
The child nodded and said, "It's getting better, the doctor said it needs to be observed for a few more days." Grandparents, it's good you're here. ”
I smiled and stroked the child's hair and said, "Child, don't worry, grandparents will always be with you." ”
During the few days in the hospital, my wife and I took turns taking care of the child, bringing him warmth and love. The child's condition gradually improved, and the doctor said that he could be discharged from the hospital.
The son and daughter-in-law rushed to pick up the child and went home, and they also felt extremely relieved and grateful to see the smile on the child's face.
My son held my hand tightly and said, "Dad, Mom, thank you for taking care of me, thank you so much." ”
I smiled and said, "The health of the child is the most important thing, and we just did our part." ”
The daughter-in-law also thanked again and again: "Yes, thank you for your continued support and concern." ”
At this time, the child took my hand and said, "Grandparents, don't leave tomorrow, I want to spend more time with you." ”
Hearing the child's words, my wife and I were filled with warmth and emotion. We decided to stay a few more days and spend this special time with our children.
During this time, my wife and children and I played, chatted, and shared each other's lives. The child gradually recovered, and his smile became brighter.
Time flies, the child's condition is completely improved, and it is time for us to go home. My son and daughter-in-law took us to the station, and we were grateful and reluctant all the way.
My son hugged me tightly and said, "Dad, Mom, be careful on the way back, thank you for taking care of me during this time." ”
I also patted my son on the shoulder and said with a smile: "Child, you take good care of yourself, and tell us if you have any difficulties in the future." ”
The daughter-in-law also said gently: "Mom and Dad, you have worked hard, and you will definitely come to see the children more when you have the opportunity in the future." ”
Our family reluctantly said goodbye and returned to our home. Although he left his son's house, his heart was full of warmth and gratitude. Family love is the most precious, as long as everyone is united and faces the challenges of life together, everything will be better. This is the story of our family, full of warmth and touching, and it also teaches us a lot about family and the true meaning of love.
When my wife and I returned home, my heart was full of emotion and relief. The child is recovering well at my son's house, and we have received gratitude and care from our son's family. Sitting on the sofa at home, my wife and I looked at each other, and we both saw the satisfaction and happiness in each other's eyes.
I smiled and said to my wife, "It's not easy to pass this time, but seeing my child recover so well, I feel a lot more comfortable." ”
The wife nodded and said, "Yes, the child's health is the most important, and nothing else is important." ”
We recalled our experiences during this period together, from the initial contradictions and tribulations, to the later understanding and tolerance, and we were full of emotion. Family relationships are not easy to maintain, but as long as everyone is grateful and tolerant, everything will be beautiful.
After a few days, my wife and I began to live a calm and fulfilling life again. Every morning, we would take a walk together, enjoy the sunshine and fresh air, and feel the beauty of life. In the evening, we would sit on the balcony and talk about family life and reminisce about the past.
One night, my wife and I were about to take a break when the phone rang. I picked up the phone and it was my son calling. There was a hint of anxiety in his voice: "Dad, Mom, I'm sorry to disturb you, something happened on my side and I need your help." ”
When I heard my son's voice, my heart tightened, and I immediately asked, "What's wrong?
The son sighed and said, "There is something wrong with the company, and I need to stay in the field for a period of time, and my daughter-in-law can't take care of it, so I want to ask you to help take care of the child for a while." ”
My wife and I looked at each other and understood our son's difficulties. I comforted: "We will take care of the children's affairs, and you can handle your work with confidence." ”
The son said gratefully: "Thank you Mom and Dad, I will deal with this matter as soon as possible and strive to come back as soon as possible." ”
After hanging up, my wife and I discussed how to arrange this time. Although the child has grown up, after all, it still needs our care and care. We decided to stay longer and spend time with our children through this difficult time.
The next day, we packed our bags and went to my son's house. When the child saw us coming, he ran over happily and said with a smile, "Grandparents, you are here!"
I smiled and picked up the child and said, "Child, we have come to see you, how are you doing?"
The child smiled and said, "Grandparents, I recently had a theatrical performance at school, you must come to see me!"
My wife and I looked at each other, smiled and agreed, "Of course I will come to see you, and I will definitely cheer you on!"
In the days that followed, my wife and I had a great time with our children. We cooked, played games, and chatted together, as if we were back in time when we were kids. The children gradually got used to our company and their smiles became brighter.
Time passed quickly, and the child's mother successfully solved her work problems and was finally able to go home. When the child sent us to the station, his eyes were full of reluctance and gratitude.
The child held my hand tightly and said, "Grandparents, be careful on the way back, thank you for being with me during this time." ”
I smiled and patted the child on the shoulder and said, "Child, you have to take good care of yourself, and tell your mother and father if you have any difficulties." ”
The child's mother also said gently: "Mom and Dad, you have worked hard, and you will definitely come to see the child more when you have the opportunity in the future." ”
Our family reluctantly said goodbye and returned to our home. Although he left his son's house, his heart was full of happiness and satisfaction. Family love is the most precious, as long as everyone is united and faces the challenges of life together, everything will be better. This is the story of our family, full of warmth and touching, and it also teaches us a lot about family and the true meaning of love.
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