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My name is Li Hua, I am 62 years old and I was a secondary school teacher before I retired. After retirement, I was supposed to enjoy the tranquility of my old age, but I didn't expect that my life would become so unpeaceful because of taking care of my grandson. I have an only daughter named Li Jing, and she and her son-in-law Zhao Qiang are both working in other places, busy and successful. My wife died of illness at an early age, so I was left alone in the family to take care of my grandson, Xiaobao.
Xiao Bao is a five-year-old boy who is a lively and cute little boy, and his birth has brought a lot of joy to our family. But as Xiaobao grew up, his naughtiness and needs became more and more, and taking care of him was really a challenge for someone my age.
I remember that day, Xiaobao accidentally fell while playing in the park and bruised his knee. I thought it was just a small injury, just treat it simply, but after returning home, Xiaobao's wound became more and more red and swollen, and I was anxious. But due to physical exhaustion, I even felt dizzy for a while, and I felt powerless for a while.
At this time, I thought of my son-in-law Zhao Qiang. Although my relationship with him has never been close, after all, he and my daughter are both out of town, and there is little contact on weekdays, and the communication is mostly on some daily trivial matters. But right now, I really don't have a choice.
I dialed Zhao Qiang's phone, and his voice on the other end of the phone sounded very tired: "Dad, it's so late, what's the matter?"
I didn't beat around the bush: "Qiang, can you buy me some medicine?" I feel like I can't hold it anymore, and Xiaobao's leg needs to be dealt with. ”
"Oh, this... What medicine do you need? I'll see if I can order it online. Zhao Qiang's voice seemed a little hesitant.
"Are you busy right now? Can you just go to the pharmacy and buy some for me? I might have to buy some anti-inflammatory and painkillers. "I tried to make my voice sound as calm as I could, but I was a little anxious.
"I'm really busy right now, Dad, why don't I place an order for you online first? Zhao Qiang tried to explain.
I know he's busy with work, but my situation does make me a little anxious, "Qiang, I'm really uncomfortable right now, if only I could get the medicine sooner." ”
"Alright then, I'll see if I can make a trip to the pharmacy. Zhao Qiang finally relented.
But the next conversation left me quite embarrassed: "That... Dad, what should you do if you call me for the medicine? I'm a little short on money. ”
At that time, I was stunned for a moment, and my heart was mixed. Zhao Qiang is my son-in-law, and he is usually generous, but this way of talking about money directly makes me feel a little abrupt. I replied with some displeasure: "Okay, you pat first, and I'll transfer it to you tomorrow." ”
Hanging up the phone, I sat on the couch with mixed feelings. My grandson's little face wrinkled together from the pain, and my heart throbbed even more when I looked at his helpless appearance. At this moment, I really felt the burden of my age and the difficulty of taking care of Xiaobao. And Zhao Qiang's attitude, although he finally agreed to help, also made me think more about this son-in-law.
The next morning, as soon as the sky was bright, I received the medicine sent by Zhao Qiang from the pharmacy. He didn't come in person, but asked for a courier service to deliver it directly to my door. Although this is convenient, in my heart, I always feel an indescribable loss.
After getting the medicine, I quickly treated Xiaobao's wound, took some more medicine, and felt much better. Xiaobao's condition has gradually stabilized, and he is no longer crying in pain like last night.
Around noon, I called my daughter, Li Jing, and wanted to talk to her about last night.
As soon as the phone was connected, I said bluntly: "Jing, I wasn't feeling well last night, and Xiaobao fell and injured himself, I asked Zhao Qiang to help buy medicine, do you know about it?"
Li Jing sounded surprised: "Ah, Dad, what's wrong with you? How is Xiaobao? Why didn't you tell me earlier?"
I tried to make my voice sound calm: "It's not a big deal, it's all taken care of." It's just that I think Zhao Qiang's reaction last night surprised me a little. ”
Li Jing hesitated for a moment, and then said, "Dad, is it the matter of money that makes you unhappy?" He told me yesterday, because his company has a big project recently, and he may be a little sensitive because he needs capital turnover. ”
I sighed: "It's not about money, I just think, as a family, if we have to care so much about this little thing, it feels... It feels a little cold. ”
"Dad, I understand your feelings. I went back and talked to Qiang, maybe he was just under a lot of pressure at work and not thoughtful enough to express himself. Li Jing tried to reassure me.
After I hung up the phone, I was still feeling a little heavy. In the afternoon, I decided to take Xiaobao out for a walk. On the park benches, we sat down to rest. Xiaobao frolicked around me, and his laughter always made me forget my troubles for a while.
At this time, next to me sat a neighbor, Aunt Zhang, who is a warm-hearted person in our community and often helps take care of the elderly and children in the community.
"Teacher Li, will you take your grandson out to play today?" Aunt Zhang asked with a smile.
I nodded: "Yes, Xiaobao fell yesterday, and he feels better today, so I will take him out for a walk." ”
Aunt Zhang asked with concern: "Oh, where did you fall?" Be careful, children are solid, but adults can't stand the toss." ”
I smiled slightly, but I felt a little emotional: "Yes, I'm not young anymore, and sometimes I feel really unbearable." ”
"Teacher Li, you are working so hard, your daughter and son-in-law should help more. Aren't they all out of town, and they should come back to see you and Xiaobao once in a while. Although Aunt Zhang's words were direct, they also hit the soft spot in my heart.
I sighed lightly: "They also have their difficulties, and our older generation still hopes that they will work smoothly and worry less." ”
The two of us chatted like this, and Xiaobao had a lot of fun next to him. The sun shines on the face, warm. Although there are some things in my heart that I still can't unravel, at least at this moment, with sunshine and Xiaobao's laughter, life is still beautiful.
That night, I received a call from my daughter Li Jing, and she said with a little apology in her voice: "Dad, I'm sorry that this morning's call made you unhappy." ”
I smiled and tried to make my voice sound as relaxed as possible: "It's okay, Jing, I understand the pressure of you young people to work. ”
Li Jing paused, and then said, "Dad, I talked to Qiang. He also felt sorry that he was too busy to handle things in time. He decided to come over this weekend to see you and Xiaobao and wanted to talk to you in person. ”
"Well, I'm glad you guys come. "I try to make my voice as welcoming as possible.
After hanging up, I pondered for a moment. Perhaps, this is a good opportunity to reconcile misunderstandings between us. Moreover, Xiaobao will definitely be very happy to see his father.
When the weekend came, Zhao Qiang and Li Jing arrived as promised. As soon as they entered the door, Zhao Qiang took the initiative to step forward and looked nervous: "Dad, I'm really sorry for the previous matter, I didn't handle it carefully enough." ”
I patted him on the shoulder and signaled that he shouldn't worry too much: "It's okay, it's all over." I'm glad you are here today. ”
Li Jing brought some snacks that I like to eat and Xiaobao's favorite toys, Xiaobao jumped for joy when she saw the toys, and the whole room was filled with children's laughter.
At lunch, we sat around and the atmosphere became lively. At the dinner table, Zhao Qiang talked about his recent work: "Dad, the company recently took over a big project, and the initial investment was relatively large, so I was a little distracted that night and didn't handle it thoughtfully. ”
I nodded in understanding: "Work is important, I understand. It's a good thing that you young people have hard work. ”
Li Jing also interjected next to him: "Yes, Dad, he usually works very hard, and often works overtime until late." But he really should think about his family, too. ”
Zhao Qiang lowered his head to eat, and then looked up at me again: "Dad, in fact, I have been thinking about whether to find a nanny, or I will try to find time to come over to help you take care of Xiaobao on weekends." ”
I was a little surprised when I heard it, I didn't expect him to make such a suggestion: "This... If you can come back often, it will be the best. As for the babysitter, I can handle it for a while, so you don't have to worry too much. ”
After dinner, we took Xiaobao to a nearby park. Zhao Qiang and Xiaobao were playing football on the grass, while Li Jing accompanied me for a walk. I watched the father and son having fun, and my heart warmed up.
"It seems that Qiang has really reflected a lot this time. Li Jing said to me softly.
I nodded, "Well, it's good that he came up with the idea of helping out on the weekends, and I think it's also an opportunity for him to be more involved in Xiaobao's growth." ”
Li Jing held my hand: "Dad, thank you for your understanding." I know it's not easy for you to take Xiaobao alone, and we'll try to share as much as possible. ”
Looking at Zhao Qiang and Xiaobao on the grass in front of me, I felt in my heart that no matter how many challenges life brings, as long as the family can support and understand each other, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome.
That night, Zhao Qiang suggested that we watch a movie together, saying that he wanted everyone to relax. I looked at Xiaobao, who was already bouncing up on the couch, excitedly looking forward to the start of the movie. We ended up choosing a family comedy with a light-hearted atmosphere.
During the movie screening, Zhao Qiang made Xiaobao laugh from time to time, and Li Jing brought us popcorn made by himself. The whole living room is filled with the warmth and laughter of home.
After the movie, Xiaobao was already looking a little tired, he leaned on my shoulder and slowly fell asleep. I gently carried him to bed, and Zhao Qiang and Li Jing also helped tidy up the room.
After tidying up, the three of us sat in the living room, and Zhao Qiang suddenly said, "Dad, I've been thinking that we should make more plans for the future." ”
I looked at him and motioned for him to continue.
Zhao Qiang said slowly: "Actually, Jing and I have already started planning to buy a bigger house, so that if you and Xiaobao want to live, the space will be more comfortable." ”
Li Jing added: "Yes, Dad, we think this can make Xiaobao grow up in a better environment, and at the same time, it is convenient for you to live in old age, do you think this is okay?"
I was a little touched in my heart, I didn't expect them to be so thoughtful: "This is a good idea, I naturally support it." I'm glad you have that in mind. ”
A flash of joy flashed in Zhao Qiang's eyes: "That's great, Dad." Actually, I've been thinking about how to make everyone in my family feel comfortable and happy. ”
We went on to discuss some details about the new home, such as the location, environment, etc. Both Zhao Qiang and Li Jing attach great importance to my opinion and ask for my opinion on every issue discussed.
During the chat, Zhao Qiang suddenly said: "Dad, by the way, I'm really sorry about the cost of medicine, I did think about it a little inconsiderate at that time." ”
I waved my hand: "I won't talk about that, the important thing is that we can sit here and plan for the future together." ”
Zhao Qiang looked relieved, and he smiled: "Thank you, Dad." I will work harder to ensure the happiness of my family. ”
Li Jing also held my hand: "Dad, with your understanding of father, we are really happy." ”
We talked for a long time until the dead of night. Zhao Qiang and Li Jing finally decided to go back the next day and stay here with me at night. This made me feel very gratified, and my heart was filled with peace and joy when I saw the harmony of their family of three.
That night, I lay in bed with my thoughts flying. From today's exchange, I can feel Zhao Qiang's maturity and responsibility, Li Jing's gentleness and thoughtfulness, they are indeed a good couple, and they will also be good parents. And I, as a grandfather, feel even more responsible for continuing to support them and accompany them through every important moment of the family.
Isn't home just that no matter where you go, there is always a lamp left for you? This lamp is here with me now, and may be in my new home in the future, but what remains unchanged is the warm light.
The next morning, the sun shone through the curtains on the living room floor, and everything looked so warm and calm. Zhao Qiang and Li Jing were still packing their bags in the bedroom, while I was already busy in the kitchen, preparing a hearty breakfast to surprise them.
Xiaobao was the first to wake up, he ran to the kitchen door, and watched me busy: "Grandpa, what are we going to eat today?"
I smiled and replied, "Grandpa made you your favorite omelette and hot milk." ”
Xiaobao listened and jumped up happily: "Yes, grandpa is the best!"
At this time, Li Jing and Zhao Qiang also walked into the kitchen one after another. Li Jing saw that I was busy, and hurriedly came over to help: "Dad, you are so busy getting up early, let me come." ”
Zhao Qiang also joined us with a smile: "Yes, Dad, your old man should rest more." ”
I waved my hand and signaled to them not to worry: "Today is the day you go back, I'll make something delicious and send it to you." ”
When breakfast was ready, our family sat around the table. The table was filled with dishes that I had carefully prepared, and the atmosphere was unusually harmonious.
Zhao Qiang ate breakfast and suddenly brought up the topic of last night: "Dad, about the new house, we plan to go and see the lot next month, if you are free, I hope you can go and see it together." ”
I nodded, "Okay, of course I'd like to go." After all, we will live together in the future, and I have to see if the environment is suitable. ”
Li Jing smiled and said, "That's good, we hope you always like your new home." ”
After breakfast, Zhao Qiang proposed that the whole family go for a walk together to digest the food. Together, we walked to a nearby park, which was full of greenery, birds, and people running or walking their dogs.
Walking on the trail, I watched Zhao Qiang holding Xiaobao's hand, and I couldn't help but sigh in my heart: "Qiang, I am really relieved that you care about your family so much." ”
Zhao Qiang listened to my words, turned around and said with a smile: "Dad, it was you and Jing who taught me the importance of responsibility and family, I just did what I should do." ”
Li Jing also interjected: "Yes, Dad, with your example, how dare we not work hard?"
We walked along the lake, stopping occasionally to look at the fish in the lake or the flowers blooming in the flower beds next to us. I feel a lot of emotion in my heart, although life sometimes has friction and unsatisfactory, but as long as the family is united, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome.
Back home, Zhao Qiang and Li Jing began to pack their luggage and prepare to go back. I helped tidy up, and I was a little reluctant.
Before leaving, Zhao Qiang and Li Jing both hugged me tightly, and Zhao Qiang said seriously: "Dad, thank you for taking care of me these days, we will come to see you again soon." ”
Li Jing's eyes were slightly red: "Dad, take care of your body, and tell us anything at any time." ”
Watching them drive away, my heart has both the loneliness of parting and the expectation of a future reunion. Turning around and entering the house, I looked at the neat living room, and my heart was full of warmth. I know that no matter how far Zhao Qiang and Li Jing go, the harbor of home will always be open for them. And I, as the elder of this family, will continue to use my love to support every member of this family forever.
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