In the infinite universe of life, the family is like a bright star, which warms everyone's heart. However, there are occasional moments of darkness when a haze hangs over the once harmonious sky.
Recently, a video sparked heated discussions on the Internet, in which a boy in his third year of junior high school sincerely appealed to his father who had run away from home to change his mind in order to ease family relations. He used unpretentious language to express the true meaning of family happiness, which moved netizens.
This video captures a not-so-typical home scene. The boy said openly and honestly that his father had been away from home for more than 20 days, and every time he was angry, he slammed the door and left, leaving the mother and son behind.
He tried to arouse his father's appreciation for the family and the consciousness of cherishing his wife. It's amazing how wise and insightful a child can be.
The child has a lot of truth in saying that the relationship between husband and wife is the foundation of the family, and it is more important than the parent-child relationship.
He likened the family to a positive cycle, the father should first use patience and thoughtfulness to coax the mother's heart, let the wife be full of positive energy, and then the mother and son will feed this love back to the father, this is the true meaning of a happy family.
The child's words are thought-provoking. A strong family does require mutual respect and consideration from both parents. Too often, we get caught up in our emotions and ignore each other's feelings.
The pressure of life is not slow, and it is inevitable that there will be disagreements and contradictions, but we must not hurt each other, let alone pass on negative emotions to our children.
Thinking about the environment in which this boy grew up, it is distressing that he has such a deep understanding of the importance of family in life. Without enough love and security from their parents, living under the shadow of cold violence and negative emotions for a long time, children must be devastated in their hearts to become such highly sensitive and empathetic people.
As many psychologists say, children who grow up in adversity are often exceptionally good at observing and perceiving. The boy's call for his father to change his mind embodies a child's desire for a complete family. In his understanding, the mother is the center of gravity of the family and the harbor on which the children depend.
When the mother is wronged and hurt, the whole family cannot function safely. He is soberly aware that domestic violence such as beating and scolding or snubbing his mother will inevitably bring trauma to the child's psyche and leave a shadow in his future life. That's why I sincerely hope that my father will cherish the people in front of him and restore his home.
Every child is a treasure of the family and deserves immaculate love. Many parents are bound by the weight of life and neglect their responsibilities as parents.
This boy uses his own unique perspective to show the most simple happiness in an ordinary family: loving parents, supporting and respecting each other, and creating a green shade for their children.
No matter how hard life is, we must nourish each other with love and heal our wounds with understanding.
There is no doubt that this video tugs at the heartstrings of too many people. The comment area is full of netizens' appreciation for the boy, and some people feel sorry and sad for his growth environment.
Some people even called on mothers to be self-reliant and get rid of the state of over-dependence, instead of blindly accommodating. Although family education is a matter that requires the best of both worlds, as a mother, your own happiness and independence are more important.
Life is brilliant because of the struggle, and the family will surely find a way out of the stumbles. We were all once children with an instinctive yearning for a complete family.
The boy's cry was not only a call to his father, but also a question to each and every one of us. When a child can understand the meaning of family in life so thoroughly, why shouldn't we, as parents, reflect on it?