Hello everyone, I'm Xiaoxue's mother
The word "happiness" is probably the best adjective for a family environment, because life has ups and downs, life also has firewood, rice, oil and salt, every family will face all kinds of problems, some families embrace life with a positive attitude, while some families resist life with bad emotions.
So how do you observe whether a family is happy or not? In fact, it is very simple, it can be seen directly from the appearance of the child, because the child is the epitome of a family, and the child with the following manifestations shows that the family is very happy.
Whether the family is happy or not can be seen from the appearance of the child
First, look at the child's dress, cleanliness and neatness
Although "money" is an important part of life, having money does not necessarily mean that the family is happy. In life, some children usually wear ordinary clothes and shoes, but they are clean and decent, then they may live in a happy family.
The reason for saying this is that parents attach great importance to the growth of their children, their attitude towards life is very correct, and they are very attentive to the growth of their children.
And some children, usually wear sloppy clothes, children are always dirty, this kind of family everyone will subconsciously feel that their parents are a little unreliable, the attitude to life is also very sloppy, the home will definitely be very messy, not like a family that has been going through a long life.
Or one of the parents of the child is not very careful, either the mother has a sloppy attitude towards life, or the parents are not with the child for a long time, and the elderly come to take care of the child. Whether it is a divorced family or a family where parents cannot be with their children, the child's childhood life will not be too happy.
Second, observe whether a family is happy or not through the child's emotions
An emotionally stable child must live in an emotionally stable family. So children who usually love to laugh and be polite, it means that their parents usually teach well, and the family atmosphere is also very good, at least the parents are more affectionate, and the parents are good at using communication to solve problems at home, and the children are very educated by their parents.
And those children who are emotionally unstable, part of it may be caused by too much spoiling at home, and when they encounter some small problems, the children will make trouble, and their parents do not play a good role in education; Another part of the irritable children may be that their parents often quarrel, the family atmosphere is more tense, and the children have been in this environment for a long time, and their emotions are not so stable.
You must know that a happy family must be a loving and tolerant parent, have enough patience for the growth of the child, and work hard from the child's emotions, upbringing, and three views.
Third, observe whether the family is happy through the child's personality
Every child's personality is different, there is no good or bad character, each character has its own advantages and disadvantages, so what parents need to do is to improve the strength of the child's personality and avoid the problem of disadvantage in the child's personality.
For children raised in happy families, the parents of the children with big personalities will tell them to be patient and slower, while the parents of the more introverted children will tell their children to be more generous.
And some children belong to the inferior side of the personality occupies the first place, such as usually temperament is more irritable, and likes to solve things with their hands, but parents do not avoid the shortcomings of children, and even parents at home are used to solving problems, such a family is naturally not very harmonious.
We say that parents are the most important teachers in a child's life, and the state of parents is very important to the future of a child. There is a famous saying that "happy families are alike, and unhappy families have their own misfortunes". If you want your children to grow up safely, healthily and happily, then you need parents to communicate to create a good family atmosphere and bring children a better way to educate.