Text/Xia Mo
01, frontispiece
Someone once said: "A woman's best dowry is a considerate and gentle heart, and a man's best dowry is a lifetime of accommodation and love." ”
I think so.
When you fall in love with someone, you want to be with him from now on in a life like water, and never give up.
However, time can always easily wash away love, and those vows that promised to love each other for a lifetime have also passed away with the wind.
How many women, in marriage, can't love, often complain that the man has changed his original intention, and he has looked away.
In fact, when a woman looks back at herself, you have changed. You're not the same person you used to be.
Good love is managed, not demanded. Do the following things, and men will always treat you as a "treasure" and spoil you with their hearts.
02. A woman with a sense of mystery is the most attractive
Women, at all times, do not forget to keep the mystery.
I know a girl who has been married for ten years, and her husband is still very gentle and careful with her.
The girl said that she would dress herself up every day, and she would also have her own lifestyle, her own social circle, and her own sense of space.
I have never reformed myself for him. I don't want to give up myself for him.
Men, on the contrary, think she is very mysterious and interesting, and have always spoiled her like a baby.
Women, live with your heart and manage yourself, and your husband will always take good care of you.
Mystery is a woman's weapon to gain a man's sincerity.
No matter how good you are, don't show it all in front of a man, no matter how much you love him, don't give him all the good in your heart.
Be a little bit of a show, a little bit of giving, so that the man perceives your mystery.
The book says, "Always keep 20% of the mystery." The unreserved woman is like a spoiled movie that extinguishes the idea of letting a man see the ending. ”
Women, learn to maintain a sense of mystery, learn to make themselves not so easy to be seen through by men, not so easy to be grasped by men.
The more mysterious you are, the more willing a man is to spend his thoughts and energy on you.
03. The value of your body will make you a treasure
When two people are together, the best way to love each other is not that you and me, but that you and I can achieve each other and redeem each other.
Just like in the TV series "Walking with the Phoenix", after Xingzhi fell in love with Shen Li, they redeemed each other.
Xingzhi loves Shen Li's independence, her enthusiasm, her loyalty and courage, and her initiative for love.
In Xingzhi's mind, Shen Li is irreplaceable, she is the best person in the world.
Women, if you want men to love you deeply and treat you as a treasure, you have to make yourself valuable.
Yishu said in "The First Half of My Life": "Why do people want to get married, it's not because life is not easy, and they need to find someone to help each other in the same boat." ”
Men are given too many responsibilities and too many labels in life.
They dare not be vulnerable, dare not despair, dare not cry, can only remain strong and move forward.
However, they can also be tired, and they need someone to care for them, and they need someone to support them.
If a woman is valuable and can give him a point of support when he needs it, and help him through the wind and rain, he will be grateful to her from the bottom of his heart.
The greater the value of a woman, the more men will treat her as a treasure, and they will take care of her with their hearts.
04. Summary
Some people say: "The best way to love someone is to manage yourself well and give each other a quality lover." It's not that if you try to be nice to someone, that person will love you desperately. ”
Indeed, in the world of love, you can get back the sincerity of others by not paying hard.
If you want men to spoil you like a treasure all the time, then you must also learn to manage yourself and make yourself valuable.
The more capable and valuable you are, the more men will naturally see your goodness, and no one can snatch you away. In a life like water, he will inevitably take care of you, spoil you, and cherish you.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.