During this time, I saw a lot of news about school bullying on the Internet. Recently, Changsha, Hunan Province has been on the hot search again because of a bullying incident.
The bullied person was a 14-year-old junior high school girl Liu, and in the video posted by the parents, we can see that Liu was beaten, repeatedly slapped, and kicked in the head by multiple boys and girls wearing school uniforms.
After Liu was beaten by Yan Mouhan and others at school, in order to escape the beating, she had no choice but to pick up the glass shards on the ground and scratch her throat, thinking that this suicidal behavior would cause panic among Yan Mouhan and others, so as to escape being further bullied. Unexpectedly, Liu's throat-cutting action for help did not save him from being beaten, and Yan Mouhan and others beat him even more fiercely after seeing Liu cut his throat.
Liu's parents said that it was not the first time that their children were bullied and beaten at school. According to the hospital medical certificate, after Liu was beaten, he had multiple open wounds on his wrists and neck, facial contusions, and scalp hematoma.
When netizens saw this scene, they all felt distressed. You must know that this 14-year-old girl used to cut her throat to save herself in a desperate situation, but even if she had done so, this way of self-help did not work at all.
Some netizens said that this is not the first time that a similar incident has happened, and the key is that there are no effective measures to curb it after it happens. Because there is nothing I can do, I can only ask for more blessings, hoping that I will not meet this kind of person on the road of children's growth.
Some people believe that the main cause of school bullying is the inaction of schools and teachers, which breeds a bad atmosphere. You must know that due to the young age of the school bully, even if the teacher knows about it, at most the person concerned will be verbally criticized and educated, and this kind of painless education is not a problem at all for those bullies, which leads to the fact that it is impossible to manage it at the level of the school and the teacher.
However, fortunately, due to the development of the Internet, with the frequent occurrence of similar incidents, some places have also taken corresponding measures. For example, some netizens in Hainan said that in their local area, after a bullying incident, the campus will cooperate with the police, issue a blacklist, and follow up and educate every month.
Although some places have put in place some responses, most students are still helpless when it comes to bullying.
In addition to the 14-year-old girl's suicide to save herself, there have been two other bullying incidents that have caused everyone to feel distressed recently. One is the murder of a boy in Handan, which everyone has heard of, and the other is the incident of a 13-year-old girl in Fujian Province jumping off a building after being bullied for a long time. After a series of similar incidents, CCTV recently broadcast a real incident that happened in 2019 on "Today's Statement".
A boy in the second year of junior high school, Jiang, was ostracized and bullied by his classmates as soon as he transferred to a new school. One day, because a girl in the class said a few words to classmate Jiang, it caused the dissatisfaction of classmate Hu in the next class, and classmate Hu threatened to give classmate Jiang a little bit of power. After hearing the news, classmate Jiang, who had been bullied to the point of fear, immediately bought cigarettes to "pay tribute", hoping that classmate Hu would raise his noble hand. However, that classmate Hu didn't look down on the cigarettes that Jiang bought at all, and took five or six classmates to keep calling Jiang's classmates to go to the toilet.
Jiang knew that he was unlucky, so he brought a folding knife with him. When he was coerced to the toilet by Hu, there were already more than a dozen boys waiting here.
The group of boys swarmed up, and pressing Jiang in the middle was a punch and kick. In desperation, Jiang took out a folding knife and stabbed the three people who besieged him in succession. The others saw that Xiao Jiang had brought tools and looked angry, and immediately fled with their heads in their hands.
After the incident, Xiao Jiang was taken away by the police for injuring someone. However, after a trial, Xiao Jiang's actions were judged to be justified in self-defense.
After reading this case, many people expressed their relief, some people said that in the face of school bullying, the principle for children to protect themselves is "rather see the judge than the forensic doctor".
We all know that the child's world actually follows the law of the jungle, and "finding a soft persimmon to pinch" has always been a disdainful practice of the bully, but how to keep the child from being targeted by the bully, that is, not to be a soft persimmon, when others show signs of bullying the child, there must be a brave and resourceful resistance.