In the eyes of men, women talk a little more, making them feel a little noisy and impatient. This idea is common among many men.
It is important to note that if a woman trusts the man next to her, she is likely to discuss any common difficulties and problems with the man.
If a woman really gives up on a person completely, she will no longer cry and commit suicide as before, but will become quiet and quiet.
As a man, you should remember that when a woman is no longer crying, it means that she has given up hope in you and is ready to leave. It's a sad thing, but it's also a reality. Please show thoughtfulness and love, and if you truly love her, do your best to redeem it and don't give up.
The greatest sorrow of women is the death of the soul.
Although sometimes we find that women are always used to pointing out aspects where men do not meet their expectations and go into detail without stopping.
But in fact, that's how much she loves you. Because she loves you so much, she wants to see you improve and will care about your life and provide advice and guidance.
If she is already dead set on you, she will remain silent even if you beg her to communicate with you.
Xiao Lin and her boyfriend Xiao Peng have been together since they were in college, and at first they thought that the two would smoothly move towards a bright future after graduation. However, Xiao Peng had a lot of problems one after another, which made Xiao Lin very uneasy.
In the second year after graduating from college, the two finally worked hard to pay off their car loans. originally planned to save money to buy a wedding house, but the sudden epidemic caught the two off guard. Now they need to replan their careers and lives, but they believe that by persevering in their efforts and supporting each other, they will be able to overcome difficulties and meet a bright future.
As a civilian position, Xiao Lin can still barely maintain her job. However, Xiao Peng, a salesperson, had to quarantine at home, which had a great impact on his career.
During that time, they faced financial pressures and struggled to make ends meet. In addition, the parents of the two are still urging them to get married, which makes the man's Xiao Peng feel a lot of pressure.
When people feel like they have no way out, they often opt for methods that appear close to success on the surface, such as stocks and funds. This is a common phenomenon and many people look to achieve financial success by investing.
Xiao Peng is anxious for quick success, and it is difficult to escape this law. So, he secretly speculated in stocks at home without telling Xiao Lin.
Because he was too young, he was deceived by others in less than half a year, suffered heavy losses, and owed nearly 100,000 online loans.
He is aware of the trouble he has caused, but he does not dare to confess to Xiao Lin, fearing that he will lose her trust.
Women's instincts are usually very sharp, and they are often aware of certain things and feel that Xiao Peng has something to hide from her during that time.
Xiao Peng finally confessed the truth under Xiao Lin's strong questioning. At this moment, Yu Xiaolin felt an unprecedented shock, like a thunderbolt from the sky.
Two children who grew up in the countryside have a hard time making money. Even more unfortunate, Xiao Peng's father died suddenly a few years ago, which brought greater difficulties to the already not wealthy family. After all, life is so hard.
After careful consideration, Xiao Lin believes that there will always be ups and downs in our relationship, and we must give it another chance. She believes that it is human nature to make mistakes, and we should be tolerant of them and let them follow their own path.
It took them two full years, working multiple jobs at the same time, and finally succeeded in paying off that huge debt.
In these difficult two years, Xiao Lin has been reminding Xiao Peng that she can no longer endure such ordeals. At that time, Xiao Peng firmly replied that he would never make the same mistake again.
Although the country is changeable, the nature is difficult to change. Perhaps when Xiao Peng first dealt with things, he was a little overconfident because of confidence. But soon after, he invested in something else because of his stubbornness, resulting in a huge amount of debt. This may be a manifestation of his overly persistent nature.
Although Xiao Peng repeatedly decided to hide it, he was eventually discovered by Xiao Lin. This time, his first choice once prevailed over the courage that he decided to tell her, but in the end, he could not escape the fate of being exposed.
In a relationship, the most important thing for a woman is not the man's wealth, but whether he trusts her completely.
Obviously, Xiao Peng didn't appreciate this, so he kept crossing Xiao Lin's bottom line.
When she found out that Xiao Peng had made a mistake again and had no intention of communicating with her, her emotions were no longer as excited and crying as they were at the beginning, but became dead.
After a day of deliberation, Xiao Lin calmly expressed her thoughts to Xiao Peng, hoping that the two of them would choose to separate.
Xiao Lin understood very well at the time that it was not that she didn't love him enough, but that love had stagnated. She gave him a chance again and again, but he treated her mercilessly every time, which made her sad.
Xiao Lin does not pursue a luxurious and wealthy life in her heart. She only hopes to work together on the basis of mutual support.
For now, it seems like she's just wishful thinking on her own and can't be true.
Perhaps, Xiao Peng also has the desire to spend the rest of his life with her. However, he didn't realize that what Xiao Lin really longed for was a dull and mutually accompanying life.
Under Xiao Lin's pleading, the two finally decided to let each other go and ended this unwilling relationship.
Now, although both of them are still single, in comparison, Xiao Lin has long been relieved in her heart, while Xiao Peng is still persistent.
Indeed, no one is willing to give up their cherished love unless they are forced to do so. But once a woman's heart dies, she will become calm in the face of everything. This is the norm.
It's not easy to meet the right person, but it's easy to kill a person's heart. In mutual relationships, trust is the most important bond. Once trust is broken, women will not hesitate to stay away. Therefore, we need to value trust as a solid foundation for building healthy relationships.
If you want to keep your love long, don't lie to women. Because, for women, it is not those catastrophes that cause harm, but your deception and mistrust. To gain their trust, follow honesty and commitment. Make your relationship stronger and make your love more genuine.