We are all insignificant beings in this world, bound by rules every day, silently obeyed.
From youth to middle age, a woman leaves love in the most important place in her life, and even unconsciously, marriage has become a shackle that binds her.
Do you think she's going to play by the rules all the time? Wrong.
When a woman keeps pursuing love but never gets it, she will gradually wake up and know what can really bring her happiness in this world. She will begin to seek self-worth and live independently, and discover more important things in the process.
She gradually saw love and marriage as nice-to-haves, and no longer saw them as all the things she had to have.
I was talking to a friend recently, and instead of confiding in me about her worries about getting a divorce as she had done before, she showed a kind of indifference.
I'm not sure if I should be happy or sad for her, but at the very least, she's found herself again, and she doesn't love others like the woman she used to be. It makes me feel identified because she has grown and stepped out of the shadows of her former past.
As a man, never think that a woman won't leave you. Did you know that women lose interest in men in terms of age? Listen to the experiences of those who came before you. It is important to always recognize that maintaining a good relationship requires management and hard work.
Sister Qin married her husband at the age of 25. She thinks she's married to true love because they've known each other since their high school days, they know each other's bottom lines, and there's no reason to separate.
After Sister Qin got married, she lost her personal time. Every day she is busy cooking for her in-laws and taking care of the family. This is the challenge that many women face to play the role of good wife and mother while maintaining as much of a personal life as possible.
Even her husband no longer takes care of her as he used to, but treats her as a nanny, constantly reminding her of her duties, as if everything she does is taken for granted.
In the face of her mother-in-law's cynicism and her husband's inaction, Sister Qin gradually lost confidence and enthusiasm, but she was unwilling to give up her marriage easily.
She silently challenged herself in her heart, determined to persevere through the seven-year itch.
Seven years have passed, and although Sister Qin's married life is stable, she has lost interest in her husband. No matter how her husband pleased, Sister Qin was indifferent. This reminds people that the shelf life of a relationship is limited, and we need to pay attention to interaction at all times in love and marriage, and constantly create surprises and romance in order to make the relationship last for a long time.
Once a woman gets married, if her life is not satisfactory, even if she does not divorce immediately, she will gradually lose trust and love for her husband.
Most women will secretly compete with their husbands, thinking that they will have to delay some time. However, when the "seven-year itch" passes, they will breathe a sigh of relief and lose interest in their husbands altogether.
When she was younger, Ms. Liu saw men as her pillars.
Because she was influenced by feudal concepts since she was a child, Ms. Liu has been working as a full-time wife to take care of the family since she got married.
She has to take care of her husband's emotions every day, and even has to beg him to get the family's monthly expenses. The situation is not easy or formal.
Eventually, with the help of a friend, Ms. Liu began to try her hand at running a small business. No longer seeing her husband as her all, she silently accumulates wealth for herself and her children. In this way, Ms. Liu's life has become easier and more formal.
Now in her 40s, Ms. Liu says she has no interest in being a man because she has enough savings to meet her needs. In addition, her expression is more relaxed and formal.
Although she is not currently divorced, she no longer sees her husband as the whole of her life.
When a woman is dependent on a man, she tends to acquiesce to the man's behavior and endure it silently for fear of abandonment, even if she is treated unfairly. This is a common phenomenon, especially in male-dominated societies. Women should be encouraged to be independent and work for their rights and interests.
When women enter middle age, they usually have enough social experience and wealth, and then they will choose to pursue a lifestyle of self-worth.
For her, love is no longer the whole of life. Men are also just icing on the cake, not necessities of life.
Ms. Hui is 48 years old this year, and she and her husband have been married for more than 20 years. Although there will inevitably be run-in and friction between the two, her husband has always accommodating and accommodating her. Whenever there is a quarrel, the husband always takes the initiative to bow his head and admit his mistakes in order to maintain the harmony between the husband and wife. There is no doubt that this enviable love story is emotional.
At the same time, since she got married, Ms. Xu has been at home, taking care of the housework and raising the children. At the end of each month, she always takes the initiative to hand over all her husband's income to him.
When the family faces a major event, the husband will actively take responsibility and make the wife feel pampered and cared for. She fell deeply in love with her husband and decided to be with him forever. This tacit understanding and support made her feel warm and happy, so she felt that as long as she was with her husband, she could overcome any difficulties. Their feelings are like a clear spring, becoming more and more fresh and precious in the washing of time.
Women like to savor slowly in their relationships. If a man is good enough for her to be unable to leave him, then she will become more and more dependent on this man and her feelings will grow stronger. This is because women need stability and security, and the presence of this man gives her such satisfaction. In everyday interactions, she will be more committed and dependent on this man, thus deepening their emotional bond.
In this consistently sweet love, it is difficult for a woman to lose interest in men, and even she will constantly immerse herself in it and never want to leave.
Conclusion:
In the monotonous daily life, we need romantic love to reconcile the plain life, and when a woman feels the sweetness of love, she will be immersed in it and involuntarily fall in love.
If love only brings her pain and suffering, then the woman will gradually put away her tenderness and no longer open her heart to any man.
I believe you already have a certain understanding of the age at which a woman will lose interest in a man.
When a woman becomes mature enough to have independent economic conditions, but can only taste bitterness in love, her heart will become cold and she will no longer feel good about men. This feeling made her wonder if she should continue to look for love, or give up her trust in men. At this time, she needs to self-reflect and reorient her emotional needs.