Foreword: "What kind of green is not married"!
Recently, there is a very popular thing, that is, a man found that his girlfriend and other men entered the hotel, and then he wanted to break up, and wanted to get back the money he lent to his girlfriend before, but the woman didn't give it. This incident not only makes everyone feel that there is a problem with the couple's trust, but also involves the problem of money when they are in love.
Video source: Vista Sees the World
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It is reported that this man accidentally saw his girlfriend and another man enter the hotel, and then did not come out for a long time. The man felt very angry and disappointed, and felt that he was being greened. Although they are not married yet, the two have a good relationship, and they usually borrow money from each other or something. The man lent the money to the woman before, and now he wants to get it back after the breakup.
But ah, the woman didn't agree. She felt that they were not married, and it was not considered cheating for her to enter the hotel with other men. She also said that she only went to the hotel to meet up with friends, and did nothing. As for borrowing money, she felt that it was a private matter between the two of them, and it shouldn't be brought out because of emotional problems.
In the end, after mediation by the mediator, Ali promised to pay back 50,000 yuan to Ah Hui first, which she owed Ah Hui before. There are still 50,000 yuan, and Ali plans to pay it back in installments, and she will be able to pay it off by the end of the year. In addition to these, Ali also decided to return the 10,000 yuan spent with Ah Hui to Ah Hui.
In this way, the two of them settled the previous accounts clearly, and also decided to go their separate ways in the future. Although the relationship ended, at least everyone was frank and did not leave any entanglements.
Netizens are hotly discussed;
This woman's thoughts are the same as my ex's family, my ex-girlfriend I was caught and I blocked the door, and then called her parents to come, thinking that they would help me talk about her, but her father directly said that you are not married, which one does she sleep with You What does it matter to my broken heart!
Everyone's moral bottom line is different, her moral boundaries are relatively wide, values, ideology, outlook on life, alas, the distortion of human morality!
It doesn't matter if it's green first, the main thing is that once a person has bad habits, he won't keep his duty after menstruation. Stop loss in a hurry. May all single men in the world meet a clean one. A girl who lives her life sincerely.
There were two things that shook me about this video
1. What kind of green is not married
2. My girlfriend went in and waited outside by myself!
From the perspective of public order and good customs, this incident has indeed triggered deep reflection on the moral bottom line and trust issues in romantic relationships. In the girl's opinion, she emphasized that the two were not married, so she did not believe that her actions constituted "cheating". However, we need to recognize that romantic relationships, while different from marital relationships, also need to be based on mutual trust, respect and loyalty. Married or not, fidelity is an essential element in a relationship.
Epilogue;
This girl, I think she should think about whether she is acting right. She has to wonder if doing this violates the basic rules of love, and whether it makes the man feel betrayed. If there is really a mistake, then you have to be brave enough to admit it and find a way to mend the relationship. The two of them had to sit down and have a good talk. Only when you really speak your heart can you know what the other party thinks and find a solution to the problem. When talking, the girl has to respect the man, listen to what he says, and think about how to solve the problem together.
If money is involved in love, you have to deal with it well. For example, if you borrow money, you have to make it clear, and you have to keep the evidence so that you don't get it clear later. If there is a real economic dispute, then you have to negotiate it, or find someone to mediate, and if you can't do it, you can still go through legal channels.
Finally, I hope that this incident will make more people think more about the issue of trust and moral bottom line when they are in love. In a relationship, respect, understanding and communication are all important to make the relationship more stable and healthy. At the same time, you must also be clear about your responsibilities and obligations in love, and don't hurt each other and destroy the harmony of the relationship because of impulsiveness.
After reading this event, what do you think? Welcome to discuss in the comment area!