In the world of love, women tend to be attracted to men who exude bad charms, and men are equally fond of women who seem to be uninhibited. This emotional interaction of mutual attraction constitutes the eternal theme of love.
Fan Chunyan's story tells us that women should not be too proactive. In her pursuit of a "younger brother", she finds that her passion is not reciprocated by men, but is perceived as insincere. So, she decided to cool down, but it turned out that the man took the initiative to come to the door, hoping to reconnect with her. This story teaches us that the right amount of indifference can spark a man's interest.
Zhang Jiajia's experience tells us that men often don't know how to cherish the happiness in front of them, and they will regret it only after they lose it. She cited an example from the TV series "The First Half of My Life", where her ex-husband only began to regret it after the divorce, only to find that everything was irreparable. This story tells us that women should learn to retain an independence and autonomy, and not to easily pin their happiness on others, because men are often in the midst of blessings and do not know blessings.
Yang Yanlin's story tells us that women should not be too proactive, and let men have a chance to perform, and they only need to silently control the progress of their relationship. In her experience, she found that being too proactive would only annoy men, but would not produce good results. Her story teaches us that women need to learn to back down at the right time and not make men feel that they are too easy to get.
Through the stories of these three women, we can see the changes and complexities in the world of love. Women often need to learn to retain an independence and autonomy in their relationships, and not to lose themselves for the sake of a man. Men, on the other hand, need to learn to cherish the happiness in front of them and not regret it until they lose it. Love is a two-way street, and only when both parties can give and receive equally, can they go further. On the road of love, we must learn to appreciate each other's strengths, tolerate each other's shortcomings, and create our own happiness together.