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The quality of the parent-child relationship is actually very crucial, especially the direct impact on the growth and development of children.
There is a big difference between a child who has a good relationship with his parents and a child who is estranged, especially after the age of one.
Some families are forced to leave their children at home for their grandparents, and naturally the parent-child relationship will be relatively poor, so what will such children be like in the future?
Ms. Liu: My child is now ten years old, and he has been staying at home since he was one year old, accompanying his grandparents.
When the relationship is estranged, the child's behavior towards the parents is also obvious, and it will seem out of place and feel like the biological parents, which also makes the parents feel very embarrassed.
In addition, if the parent-child relationship is not good, there will be the following status quo after one year of age
1. Not close
This is also what many mothers say, the child does not kiss with himself, and it is also a manifestation of the estrangement of the parent-child relationship. For such a child, the mother is not the first in the child's mind, so this should still be noted.
2. Frustration in mental health
The estranged parent-child relationship will also make children lack parental care, and it is easy to develop anxiety and depression.
Seeing children of the same age have the care of their parents, have the company of their parents, and do not have it themselves, it will also make children lose self-confidence, and at the same time make children feel autistic, which will affect children's mental health.
3. Educational differences
There is definitely a difference between the educational perspective of the next generation and the modern lifestyle, and it is difficult for children to integrate into the current life sequence, children will be more spoiled by their grandmother's side, and they will also lack the ability to stand on their own.
If the parent-child relationship is good, the child will be better after one year old
Growing up with mom and dad will give you a higher sense of security, and at the same time, your child's self-confidence will be stronger and they will be more self-reliant. In the same way, after the baby receives modern education, it can also better integrate the child into the current life queue, whether it is social, or language organization, etc., can be integrated into the child's life.