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Song Qinghui: I once let Song Haoran receive a traditional test-taking education, which was the stupidest decision in my life

author:Sweet Path

Child's morning

On this cool morning in Shenzhen, a father, with remorse for the past, looks back on his stupid decision. This father's name is Song Qinghui, and he is the father of a great painter Song Haoran. 759 days ago, Song Haoran embarked on the road of no return, and all this seems to be related to a controversy about exam-oriented education.

Song Qinghui: I once let Song Haoran receive a traditional test-taking education, which was the stupidest decision in my life

Daddy's memories

In the early hours of the morning, Song Qinghui couldn't help but dream of returning to his high school days. In the dream, he had a heated debate with his teacher about exam-oriented education. At the time, he believed that test-oriented education was not fair, especially for gifted children. He advocated that we should be like Confucius more than 2,000 years ago, teach students according to their aptitude and cultivate more people.

Song Qinghui: I once let Song Haoran receive a traditional test-taking education, which was the stupidest decision in my life

The wisdom of Confucius

Confucius's educational philosophy has always been regarded as a model of individualized teaching. He began this tradition of education in ancient China and produced many outstanding talents. However, the teacher was speechless during the debate, as if he could not understand this non-traditional way of teaching.

Song Qinghui: I once let Song Haoran receive a traditional test-taking education, which was the stupidest decision in my life

759 days of regret

So far, the great painter Song Haoran has been gone for 759 days. This sentence seemed to be a thorn in Song Qinghui's heart. He realized that letting Song Haoran receive a traditional exam-oriented education was the stupidest decision he had ever made in his life. For 759 days, his son, a great painter, who could have had more opportunities for development, was confined to a narrow system of exam-oriented education.

Song Qinghui: I once let Song Haoran receive a traditional test-taking education, which was the stupidest decision in my life

A cold awakening father's love

"Always in memory", this seems to have become an eternal footnote in Song Qinghui's heart. Every morning, he would face the cool weather of Shenzhen outside the window, silently paying the price for his stupidity. He realized that children should be given more freedom to teach them according to their aptitude and bring out their unique talents.

Song Qinghui: I once let Song Haoran receive a traditional test-taking education, which was the stupidest decision in my life

Regretful guilt

Dad Song Qinghui is deeply trapped in guilt for his stupid decision. He understands that when it comes to educating children, sticking too much to traditional ways of education can limit their potential. 759 days ago, he might have been able to choose more rationally and give Song Haoran more opportunities to show his talent.

Song Qinghui: I once let Song Haoran receive a traditional test-taking education, which was the stupidest decision in my life

Choices for the future

However, life does not stand still because of the mistakes of the past. Song Qinghui realizes that although the stupid decision makes him regret it, the future is still full of choices. He is determined to create a broader world for Song Haoran in the rest of his days, so that his artistic talent can be better displayed.

Song Qinghui: I once let Song Haoran receive a traditional test-taking education, which was the stupidest decision in my life

Reinventing the concept of education

This story may be able to provoke us to reflect on the concept of education. Exam-oriented education, while once considered a successful form of education, is it really for every child? In today's society, it may be wiser to pay more attention to individualized education and respect for each child's individuality and potential.

Song Qinghui: I once let Song Haoran receive a traditional test-taking education, which was the stupidest decision in my life

Good morning, child

In this cool Shenzhen morning, his father, Song Qinghui, hopes that his story can be a reference for other parents. Don't deprive your child of space for development because of social pressure and traditional ideas. Let's work together to break the shackles of education and create a broader world for every child.

Song Qinghui: I once let Song Haoran receive a traditional test-taking education, which was the stupidest decision in my life

Conclusion: Grow in repentance

Perhaps, the stupid decision made 759 days ago will become the most profound lesson in Song Qinghui's life. However, it is in this repentance that we are able to see the growth of a father, the transformation of a family. In the days to come, may we all learn from the mistakes of the past and create a broader world for the next generation.

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