#读者光影# On weekdays, most parents are reluctant to chat with their children, they only focus on their children's health, food and clothing and good grades.
But in fact, it is far more useful for parents to talk nonsense with their children on weekdays than to be cold and rigid.
In a reality show "Talent Discovery Group", there is a little boy named Bian Yitan.
Although Yitan is only three and a half years old, he has performed very well.
Not only did he know the names of various dinosaurs, but he could also explain many esoteric scientific phenomena.
At the same time, he has a rich vocabulary and can even read picture books independently.
The program team also conducted a professional test on Yitan, and the results showed that his language comprehension ability was far higher than the average of children of the same age, reaching 99.9 points.
And the excellence of Yitan is actually the result of the careful companionship of parents.
At home, my father would spend an hour or more every day communicating with him and reading with him.
In this kind of high-quality interaction, Yitan has become a small chatter, always chattering non-stop.
In these whimsical chats, Yitan has not only accumulated a large number of words, but also developed curiosity, imagination and expression.
In The Language of Parents, Dr. Suskind writes, "A child's mathematical ability, spatial reasoning ability, perseverance, self-discipline, moral sense, and empathy are all related to the vocabulary that the child hears at an early age." ”
Parents are their children's first teachers, and their initial abilities are learned from daily parent-child interactions.
These parent-child conversations, which sound worthless, are the "nutrients" that can make children grow better. [Give you a little heart]
Author: Ren Yi
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