Recently, there was a news rush to the hot search: the woman responded to the death of her boyfriend who had been in love for 10 years for her graduate school.
Seeing this news, netizens sighed: People who don't love practice their sincerity, and people who love each other have many difficulties.
The man in the hot search is named Zhiaohong, and his girlfriend is named Liu Yue. When Liu Yue was 18 years old, the two fell in love.
After the college entrance examination, Liu Yue went to Zhengzhou to study, and Zhiaohong went to Shanghai to work, and the two started a long-distance relationship.
After graduating from university, Liu Yue chose to continue her studies - graduate school. After Zhiaohong found out, she didn't say a word, and immediately took out the tens of thousands of yuan she earned from her part-time job to enroll in a tutoring class to help her girlfriend take the postgraduate examination.
Liu Yue worked very hard, and her hard work finally got her entrance examination ashore, and their 10-year love run also ushered in a happy ending: they got engaged.
However, just as Liu Yue was looking forward to the long-awaited wedding, Zhiao Hong disappeared on the eve of the wedding.
Liu Yue searched hard for 3 months, only to find that this once high-spirited man had been tortured by illness and weakened.
It turned out that he had leukemia and didn't want to drag her down.
But Liu Yue resolutely gave up her studies and took Zhiao Hong to concentrate on treatment.
During this period, Liu Yue repeatedly asked to get the certificate, but Zhi Aohong refused every time because he wanted to "leave a way out" for her.
They were full of hope that their love would overcome all difficulties, but the Grim Reaper was jealous of their two-way rush and still ruthlessly took him away.
In this life, he helped her soar into the sky;
She said, "In the next life, I will come to find you!"
This love story has become uneasy in the hearts of countless people. People are searching for their past, as if this is the only way to tell the story to have a different ending.
If you have a high altitude, I will let you fly
In June 2013, Zhiao Hong met Liu Yue by chance through chat software. Across the screen, the two young people got to know each other more and more.
At that time, Liu Yue was in her second year of high school, and Zhiaohong had dropped out of vocational high school and partnered with relatives to open a car wash, which was near Liu Yue's school.
Chatting with Zhiao Hong made Liu Yue feel a little more relaxed in addition to her boring studies. After a long time, Liu Yue had a different kind of affection for Zhiao Hong.
When they met for the first time, Zhiao Hong brought a bunch of snacks and walnuts for Liu Yue. Liu Yue was a little surprised, what does it mean to take so many walnuts?
Zhi Aohong saw Liu Yue's confusion, scratched his head and explained: "Studying costs your brain, you have to eat more walnuts to make up for it." ”
The simple words and simple smile made Liu Yue's heart surge with a warm current. She didn't expect him to be so caring.
Later, whenever she thought of this scene, the corners of Liu Yue's mouth would unconsciously rise.
Although Zhiao's red eyes are small and not handsome, as long as she sees him, Liu Yue's heart is full of joy.
In 2014, a text message from Zhiao Hong broke the delicate atmosphere between the two: "I think you are very cute, can we date?" Liu Yue readily agreed.
This year, Liu Yue was 18 years old and Zhiao Hong was 21 years old.
Later, Liu Yue was admitted to an undergraduate college in Zhengzhou as she wished. At this time, the business of the car wash shop was getting worse and worse, and in order for the two to have a better future, Zhiao Hong went to Shanghai to work.
The two started a long-distance relationship, and it was 7 years in a flash.
The 7-year long-distance relationship and the difference in academic qualifications have never been an obstacle between them.
During Liu Yue's study, Zhiaohong ran through takeaways, entered construction sites, and worked in sales...... He entered the society early, and often shared social experience with Liu Yue to help her understand life and plan her life in advance.
After Liu Yue went to college, he took care of her in every possible way, allowing her to spend the best college time in her life.
In their spare time, they share the moments of each other's lives.
Once, Liu Yue inadvertently said that she had never flown a kite since she was a child.
The speaker has no intention, but the listener has the intention. When she returned, she bought the largest kite at the market and took her to fly it.
At that time, Liu Yue jokingly asked: "Are you afraid that the string will break, and one day I will fly away like a kite." ”
Unexpectedly, Zhiaohong gave her a special answer: "If you have a high altitude, I will let you fly, the line in my hand is not an obstacle, it is a sharp weapon to help you fly higher." ”
Zhiaohong understands that loving someone is not about breaking her wings with your own hands, but about giving her trust and support. If she flies high, he will do his best to lift it.
After graduating from college, Liu Yue decided to go to graduate school, and Zhiaohong did not hesitate to support her, because he knew that it was her dream.
I'd rather eat simple and dress poorly, and he has to spend tens of thousands of yuan to enroll his girlfriend in a tutoring class. In addition, he also gives his girlfriend a few hundred yuan of pocket money every month.
After that, in order to have a more stable income and make more money, Zhiao Hong changed careers to deliver couriers.
All year round, no matter how hot or cold it is, he is reluctant to take a day off.
Colleagues advised him: "Can't you take a day off if you're so tired?"
He smiled: "Oh, how can you rest, take a day off, and make hundreds of dollars less!"
He just wanted to give her the best he could, and never thought that one day, if she flew away, she would never come back.
In the end, with his support, Liu Yue was successfully admitted to Henan University as a graduate student.
I want to give her a way out
In the spring of 2021, they got engaged and agreed to get married in 2023.
But who knew that on the eve of the wedding, Zhiao Hong was clamoring to break up, and even played missing.
In fact, as early as the end of 2022, Liu Yue found that Zhiao Hong was a little abnormal.
He complained that his ear hurt and that he needed surgery, but the operation could not be carried out because of low platelets.
Liu Yue thought he was just suffering from otitis media. However, since then, Zhiao Hong has frequently clamored to break up, and said that the two are not suitable.
Looking at her boyfriend's abnormal behavior, Liu Yue realized that he had something to hide from him, but she never doubted whether he had another woman.
Subsequently, she searched online for related cases based on some of the symptoms her boyfriend had stated.
In the comment area of a health science video, Liu Yue actually saw her boyfriend's message: "I am acute M2, the fourth day of the first course of chemotherapy. ”
It turned out that Zhiao Hong had leukemia and ruthlessly mentioned breaking up, just because he didn't want to drag Liu Yue down and wanted to force her to leave.
After knowing the truth, Liu Yue cried and red-eyed. After wiping away her tears, she spent the night searching for information on the Internet, looking around for experts, hospitals, and patient groups...... Racking his brains to cure his fiancé's illness.
But she was scurrying around like a headless fly, and she was busy for a while, but she still found nothing. She began to have insomnia all night long, and when night came, she hid in her pillow and cried bitterly.
It didn't take long for Zhiao Hong to disappear.
But Liu Yue always believed that there was no problem with the relationship between them, and Zhiaohong would not give up on her easily.
Liu Yue decided to "force" him to show up, betting that he couldn't bear to be with him.
Liu Yue sent messages to Zhiao Hong every day, telling her how much she missed him, recalling their past, and repeatedly saying "I will wait for you to come back!"
Finally, 3 months later, Liu Yue met her lover who she thought about day and night.
The four eyes met, and the rain of tears burst the embankment.
Zhiao Hong had been tortured by the disease to the point that her hair was thinning, her face was as pale as paper, her lips were bloodless, and her eyes had lost their former brilliance and were weak.
Even so, Zhiaohong still endured her physical discomfort and insisted on being discharged from the hospital, just to see her again.
But when they met again, looking at her crying red eyes, the moment he hugged her, he could no longer continue to hide his illness.
"I'm sick, you know?"
"I know. ”
"What's the disease, you know?"
"Yes. ”
A thousand words to the end, only choked up.
Looking at the dense needles on his body, thinking about the loneliness when he was alone and bearing bad luck, Liu Yue's eyes were full of distress: it must be very painful and uncomfortable.
Liu Yue made up her mind to give up her studies temporarily and accompany her lover to receive treatment wholeheartedly. She firmly believes that as long as she doesn't give up, there will be miracles.
After the Spring Festival in 2023, Liu Yue accompanied her boyfriend to undergo chemotherapy in Zhengzhou for 5 months, but it still did not improve.
In July, she took out all her graduate scholarships and took her lover north to seek medical treatment.
In September, Zhiaohong and others came to the first bone marrow transplant.
Liu Yue pushed the wheelchair and sent him to the door of the operating room, with mixed feelings, but more hope.
After the surgery, Zhiaohong's symptoms have improved significantly, and her body is slowly recovering.
Just when they were glad that they were about to survive this catastrophe, one day in December, the doctor told Liu Yue that the operation failed, and Zhiaohong might only have a month left.
Liu Yue's legs were weak and she almost fell. She didn't know what she could do or what she should do in the course of a month.
But she knew in her heart that now was not the time to fall, and she had to stand up strong for him.
This was followed by another round of chemotherapy. Chiaro Hong's body has been eroded beyond recognition by chemotherapy drugs, and every time chemotherapy is performed, nausea, vomiting, and headaches follow......
I don't know how many times, he said to his lover: "Let's go home, it's gone, I don't want to drag everyone down anymore." ”
Whenever this happened, Liu Yue tried her best to hold back the tears in her eyes, softly persuaded him to persist again, and turned her head to quickly wipe away the tears with her sleeve.
With the help of countless heart-warming media and netizens, in February 2024, Zhiaohong received a bone marrow transplant again.
Although the hope of treatment this time was higher than the first time, the condition was complicated, and the doctor still told her to be mentally prepared.
After the operation, Giowell has been recuperating in the bone marrow transplant warehouse. Liu Yue has three hours of visiting time every day, and although it is only through the window, she is very content.
The nurse always praised Liu Yue for taking good care of Zhiao Hong, and his nails never grew. Every time she heard the nurse say this, Zhiao Hong smiled innocently.
As a girlfriend, Liu Yue doesn't even have the right to sign. She asked Zhiaohong many times to get the certificate, but he refused.
Someone once asked Zhiaohong the reason, but he didn't have the strength to speak, and he only replied with 7 words: "I want her to have a way out." ”
In 7 simple words, he expressed his love for Liu Yue, even when his life was dying, he was still planning for her future.
But in Liu Yue's heart, they have long been husband and wife.
Sorry, I "went home" first
Liu Yue Guan Zhiaohong is called Honghong, and her social media account is called "Honghong's Little Moon".
In her mobile phone, she also carefully saved a photo of herself trying on a wedding dress. She never showed it to him, because she wanted to see it on the day her lover came to pick her up and be amazed by herself.
She choked up and said, "All the details of our wedding have been prepared, just waiting for Honghong to come back and continue our unfinished wedding." ”
On March 26, Zhiaohong successfully left the warehouse and was transferred to the general ward, and various indicators also tended to normal.
After seeing hope again, Zhiaohong also filmed a video with Liu Yue to thank everyone for their support to him.
In the video, he was plugged in oxygen, his eyes were firm, and he gave netizens a thumbs up. This is a relief to countless people who care about them.
However, on April 1, Zhiaohong's condition suddenly deteriorated.
The doctor told Liu Yue that after the patient's bone marrow transplant, the lungs were infected with fungi, resulting in an intracranial infection, and this time he might not survive.
On the evening of April 6, Liu Yue wanted to take him back to his hometown county hospital to make a final effort. It's a pity that before he could get up, in the early morning of April 7, 2024, Zhiao Hong left.
Liu Yue was grief-stricken, she said: "Honghong is too bitter in this life, he has done too much for me, in the next life, I will take care of him and shelter him from the wind and rain." ”
For the future, Liu Yue plans to find his company to recover his unpaid wages and take care of his parents for him.
In order to give an explanation to those caring people who supported them, Liu Yue posted the news of her lover's death on social platforms.
Today, we can still see the bits and pieces of their past records from the social accounts of the two, although not very much, but they carry their memories and witness the road they have walked.
There is no chance to join hands for the rest of their lives, but at least they have truly loved each other and had each other, which can be regarded as a different kind of fulfillment.
But what Zhi Aohong didn't know was that the girl he loved before his death was questioned by netizens after he left.
"Doesn't the girl have a home?"
"You can take out a loan for graduate school. ”
"Are you so tired for others, don't you think about your own parents?"
……
If he was still here, he would definitely feel distressed to see his beloved girl being wronged.
But now that he's gone, there's no one to shelter her from the wind and rain.
She can only face all this on her own, she said: "I hope that the people who are gone can rest in peace, and I don't want to attract attention or earn traffic because of this." Now that Honghong is gone, what I want to do is to return to a peaceful life and try to pay off the arrears for his treatment. ”
Some people also questioned Liu Yue's commitment to take care of Zhiaohong's parents.
"Can you take care of his parents for the rest of his life?"
"If you can't do it, you will pay back your parents for 10 years. ”
In this regard, a netizen warmly commented:
Indeed, they are worthy of love, and he and her have never been wishful thinking, but go both ways.
Rabindranath Tagore once said, "If you love her, let your love surround her like sunshine and set her free." ”
Zhiao Hong, who dropped out of vocational high school, never worried that his girlfriend would leave him with a high degree of education, but supported her without hesitation and helped her pursue her dreams.
After learning that her boyfriend was sick, Liu Yue never left the bedside until the last moment of her life.
There is no one between them who goes ashore to kill the person they want, only they never abandon each other in the predicament.
Even if they can't renew their relationship in the human world in the end, their love will always remain in each other's hearts.
Zhang Ailing said: "Love is not to ask whether it is worth it or not." ”
Liu Yue and Zhiaohong are realistic portrayals of this sentence.
Although some people "fly separately when disaster comes", there are also people who think about gains and losses in intimate relationships.
But true love is giving, it is often giving but still feeling indebted, it is the righteousness of treating each other with all sincerity, the tacit understanding of never abandoning, and the unforgettable kindness.
Life and death are bounded, but true love is priceless, always, and love is indestructible.
Resources:
[1] Global Times: "Ten Years of Love for Girlfriend to Go to Graduate School Man Dies, Girlfriend Responds to Questions"
[2] Guangming.com: "10 Years of Love, Part-time Job for Girlfriend to Go to Graduate School Man Died of Leukemia"
[3] Douyin: Red Little Moon, Zhiao Red
Authors: Ju Ying, Yu An. Source: Marriage and Family Magazine (ID: hunyinyujiating99). A leader in China's family happy life, focusing on women's growth and marital happiness, and exploring how to better love themselves and their families. The picture in this article comes from the Internet, if there is any infringement, please contact to delete.