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"Just keep the small ones, and the big ones are whatever you want. When Wang Wei was about to give birth, the 320-pound woman said to her husband Jin Delong that she only hoped to leave a healthy offspring for the Jin family.
But Jindelong, who loves his wife deeply, shook like a rattle, saying that he was a serious person, so he would not listen to his wife, and also comforted her that she must have confidence in herself and give her children a complete home.
But although Jin Delong said so, for his heavyweight wife, giving birth to a child is not just about dangling around the ghost gate, it is estimated that it must be flashing back and forth at the gate of the Hades Palace, so Jin Delong's worries are no less than his wife's.
Wang Wei named the child "Happiness", she hopes that the child can grow up happily after birth, and this is also the hard-won happiness of the husband and wife.
So did the "little happiness" come into life safely, and what is their life like now?
01
The loving young couple almost divorced
Because of the leg injury, Wang Wei could only stay in bed for a long time, and her weight soon soared to about 380 pounds, and because of obesity, Wang Wei suffered from polycystic ovaries and could not ovulate normally.
The mother-in-law who is anxious to hold her grandson still adheres to the idea of the older generation, and is very dissatisfied with this, she feels that since she can't have children, what is the use of my daughter-in-law asking for you, so she has been asking her son to divorce Wang Wei and find another woman.
But Jin Delong just disagreed, he said that once he married Wang Wei, he would be responsible for Wang Wei for a lifetime, and his mother-in-law, who had no choice, could only pin her hopes on Wang Wei, hoping that Wang Wei would take the initiative to leave her son.
So later, Wang Wei received a call from Jin Delong's brother, saying that if she was for the good of this family, she would quickly divorce Jin Delong.
But Wang Wei also loves her husband deeply, she can't bear to be separated from her husband, but her in-laws' constant urging and the fact that she is indeed unable to have children, Wang Wei decided to cut her love and file for divorce by herself.
In a conversation, Wang Wei filed for divorce, but Jin Delong resolutely disagreed, and said that his mother and brother had the right to interfere in their marriage, and their own marriage nephew was in charge, and Wang Wei liked it no matter how fat he was.
There was no way, Wang Wei, who had made up his mind, had no choice but to ruthlessly lock her husband out of the door and not let him in, but she was sad in the house, Jin Delong said that she didn't want to divorce anything, which also made her more aware of what a good man Jin Delong was, he was so good, but he had no way to give him children, he was really not worthy of him.
Jin Tron sat outside all night, and when Wang Wei opened the door the next day, Jin Delong sat at the door with tears on his face, and he was unwilling to leave, so Wang Wei's last psychological defense line collapsed, and he hugged her husband tightly and said that she would not divorce.
But Wang Wei thought about it, but he still couldn't deprive Jin Delong of his right to be a father, so Wang Wei began to make up his mind to lose weight, hoping that his weight could be within a safe range.
In this way, after about a year, Wang Wei lost 140 pounds, although his weight did not drop to the ideal value, but for him who was 380 pounds before, the burden on his body has been greatly reduced, and the whole person is much more energetic.
Wang Wei decided to continue to work hard, but it didn't take long for Wang Wei to find out that she was pregnant, and this sudden little life flattered their family, but Wang Wei's weight is still very fat for normal pregnant women, how should this child be born?
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Fate comes as it comes
Wang Wei and her husband are both authentic Shenyang people, the beginning of the story of the two of them are just ordinary colleagues, although Jin Delong is thin but works very hard, and Wang Wei is a little fat, but cheerful, and she is very comfortable to get along with.
Jin Delong is a taciturn man, while Wang Wei is chattering endlessly and people don't feel annoyed, the two people just complement each other, so they just attract each other, and the two people who seem to be mismatched form the unique beauty of "you are making trouble, he is laughing".
It is said that Northeast men are afraid of their wives, but in fact, they are not afraid, but they really respect from the bottom of their hearts, Wang Wei's weight was not so fat at that time, but it was not light, it reached 240 pounds, but no one disliked her because of her pleasing personality. As for Jin Delong, he will also give his girlfriend the respect he deserves, be considerate to her, not to mention how greasy the little couple is.
In fact, don't look at Wang Wei's grinning on the surface, in fact, she is also a little girl with delicate emotions, Wang Wei comes from a single-parent family, almost never felt father's love since she was a child, she was very inferior when she was very young, it was not easy for her mother to bring her up alone, in order to reassure her mother, so she often used optimism to cover herself.
Until she met Jin Delong, Jin Delong's thoughtful care can allow her to take off her guard and be herself without scruples, in front of Jin Delong, she is also a little girl who needs to be cared for by others and needs to be distressed by others.
In this way, two years later, they naturally entered the palace of marriage, when someone asked Jin Delong how he married such a fat daughter-in-law, he always smiled faintly and said that no matter what his wife was like, he liked it, and it was not the turn of others to judge.
After the two got married, their lives were the same as when they were in love, not to mention how tired they were, but they didn't conceive a child for a long time, which made both parents very anxious.
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Unexpected children
When Wang Wei was pregnant, the first thing she did was to tell Jin Delong the good news, Jin Delong was also very happy after hearing it, he was finally going to be a father, so he took care of Wang Wei in every way, and Jin Delong's parents and brother would never stop them after hearing the news.
At this time, Wang Wei was about thirty-six years old, belonging to the advanced maternal age, and her body is at risk of aggravation during pregnancy, and the heart load is too large, so it is not recommended that the husband and wife have this child.
This matter still has to be decided by the husband and wife, and the doctor just reminded them tactfully. This frightened Jin Delong, and he immediately retreated, worried about his wife's health.
But Wang Wei said that he was unwilling to give up, since the child came to this world, he should have the opportunity to open his eyes and see the world, instead of being ruthlessly abandoned by his parents before he was formed.
So the two had a heated discussion, and at Wang Wei's insistence, the husband and wife finally decided to have this child, and named the child "Happiness." ”
After being pregnant, Jin Delong was even more meticulous to his wife, and the long-term nutritional supplementation was coupled with gestational diabetes, Wang Wei, who had lost 240 pounds, immediately soared to more than 320 pounds, and the fat and fetus caused a serious squeeze on her internal organs, and there were problems with various indicators of the body.
Compared with ordinary pregnant women, the swollen limbs and difficulty breathing in the pregnancy of ordinary pregnant women are doubly painful in Wang Wei's body, but she is unwilling to let her husband tired, so she can only endure silently at night when she can't sleep every day.
In addition to these, prenatal examination is also a troublesome matter, after all, for the health of the fetus, expectant mothers go to prenatal examination at a specific time, and Wang Wei is no exception. But when she arrives at the hospital with such a size, the obstetrics and gynecology department is like "facing a great enemy", as if Wang Wei is some kind of demon and monster.
Due to the excessive fat accumulation in Wang Wei's abdomen, even in the top obstetrics and gynecology hospital in Shenyang, with the help of the most cutting-edge B-ultrasound equipment, he can only capture a vague outline of the fetus. As for the health and development details of the fetus, it is all shrouded in a blur.
But although it is said to be "like a great enemy", the doctors in the maternity hospital are also always paying attention to Wang Wei's condition, after all, there are still very few overage and overweight mothers like her, and her health problems are also the object of their attention.
In this way, after experiencing a chaotic pregnancy period, Wang Wei is finally going to give birth to this little baby.
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Difficult caesarean section
Before entering the operating room, Wang Wei specially recorded a video, she knew that once she entered the operating room, she might never be able to come out again, so she specially recorded the "last words" to give her mother and husband some comfort.
After Wang Wei entered the operating room, Jin Delong and Wang Wei's mother watched the video recorded by Wang Wei, and couldn't help but cry, and at the same time silently prayed in their hearts that Wang Wei could come out safely, even if it was at the expense of the child.
On May 12, 17, Nurses' Day, Wang Wei was pushed into the delivery room, and all doctors and nurses were on standby, after all, this caesarean section would be quite difficult.
Sure enough, the first step of the operation encountered difficulties, because Wang Wei's fat layer was very thick, which caused the anesthetic needle to be injected into the spine accurately, so in order to achieve the anesthetic effect, the anesthetic must be injected into the designated position without any difference, otherwise the operation could not proceed normally.
The first anesthesia was unsuccessful, so the doctor performed a second time, during which Wang Wei always gritted his teeth and kept silent, but fortunately the second time finally succeeded.
Then they encountered a second trouble, because Wang Wei had too much fat in his abdomen, and lying flat for surgery would make the fat compress the internal organs, which would cause damage to the pregnant woman's body and even threaten her life for a long time, so there was not much time left for the doctor.
But when Wang Wei's abdomen was cut open, what came into view was layers of white fat, making it difficult for doctors to find the location of the uterus, and even if they found the uterus, it was difficult to take the child out.
So the experienced doctors came up with a solution, they asked a male doctor to constantly move Wang Wei's belly to facilitate the chief surgeon to find a position, and in this way, the doctor finally delivered the fetus from Wang Wei's bulky abdomen.
After the fetus came out, the doctor encountered another tricky thing, the cut fat could not be supported due to the effect of anesthesia, squeezing Wang Wei's internal organs heavily, and even the heart was affected, if Wang Wei was not sutured in time, Wang Wei was likely to die.
The doctors worked hard for two and a half hours, and the operation was completed, and the mother and child were healthy.
When she saw Xiao Xingfu for the first time, Wang Wei cried all of a sudden, she and her husband have experienced too much along the way, and now they are finally bitter, and her feelings are as happy as the child's name.
Later, in order to let Xiao Xingfu drink milk, Wang Wei once again embarked on the road of weight loss, and Xiao Xingfu also grew up healthily under the care of the husband and wife.
After Xiao Xingfu was weaned, Wang Wei went to the weight loss center, and now he is much slimmer, and Jin Delong also specially learned massage and obtained a certificate, and now he works as a masseur in the weight loss center where Wang Wei stayed.
After healthy training, Wang Wei finally obtained a more ideal weight in the authoritative examination of the weight loss center, and his body was much healthier than before.
Now Xiao Xingfu is 7 years old, very well-behaved and cute, Wang Wei and Jin Delong have also got the happiness they want.
Resources
[1] Beijing Satellite TV "Life Edge" May 29, 2017 [320 pounds of mother sacrificed her life to give birth, leaving life and death trust before surgery]