When an elderly person passes away in the family and after the funeral, many people choose to burn the relics as a way to eliminate the possible risk of germ transmission. However, the handling of relics is not without taboos, and there are clear taboos in the traditions of our ancestors. Today, we're going to take a look at what you should never burn. For example, the notes of the elderly during their lifetime, which may contain their life testimonies and precious memories, the bed of the elderly, which symbolizes the longevity of happiness, and the books they treasure, each page carries knowledge and wisdom. These are all treasures that we need to inherit and cherish.
We'll have to talk about the relics that can't be burned. Take notes as an example, you may not know that there are a lot of treasures hidden in the old man's notebook. Some elderly people like to record what they see and hear every day, especially those who have experienced the baptism of war, and their notes may record historical fragments that you and I can't imagine. Come to think of it, these are direct historical witnesses, and they are burned casually, what a pity!
Let's talk about the bed. In our tradition, the bed is more than just a place to sleep, it has a special meaning. For example, in ancient times, there was a family tradition of making beds, and it may take years for a bed to be made, and the hard work and energy involved in this process is difficult to understand with modern concepts. From the birth of her daughter to her husband's house when she got married, this bed is almost an important moment in her life. How can such an object full of memories and emotions be said to be burned?
And books. Many elderly people still maintain a good habit of reading when they are old, they will collect all kinds of books of interest, and leave their own comments and experiences between the pages. For them, books are a source of knowledge and a source of spiritual comfort. We often say that these books are the crystallization of the wisdom of the elderly, so do we just burn them away and no longer cherish those sparks of wisdom?
In the blink of an eye, let's take a look at the relics that can be burned. The first thing to bear the brunt of is the old man's clothes. In our concept, clothing can not only cover the body, but also a kind of spiritual symbol of people. After the old man left, these clothes were burned, symbolizing that their image and spirit also ascended to heaven, allowing the old man to leave with more dignity. Moreover, if the elderly person dies of illness, there may still be bacteria left on these clothes, and burning them is considered a hygienic and safe way to dispose of them.
Something that the old man liked when he was alive, this can also be burned. Everyone has their own interests and hobbies, and the elderly are no exception. For example, if the old man likes to read, we can choose a few books that he likes to burn to him, so that he can take this hobby to another world. If he likes fishing, then burn some dried fish or fishing tools for him. These are all expressions of remembrance and respect for the elderly.
In addition to these, modern funeral supplies are becoming more and more diverse. From papier-mâché mobile phones, bungalows, to all kinds of simulated modern daily necessities, these can be burned to the elderly, so that they can enjoy the convenience of modern life in another world. This is not only a kind of nostalgia for the deceased, but also a kind of cultural and traditional inheritance.
Each of us will face birth, old age, sickness and death, and we should also be particular about the way we treat relics. Respecting the story and meaning behind each relic is a respect for the deceased, but also for life. In dealing with these relics, we need to take into account both practical needs and cultural and emotional factors. Every relic may be a piece of history, a memory, and they deserve to be savored and passed on. In this way, we not only preserve the traces of history, but also let love and memories live on in the long river of time.