Text: Jing Ma
When women give birth, they are in an extremely vulnerable stage, both physically and psychologically.
Physically, due to the various sequelae of pregnancy and childbirth, it is necessary to recover quickly. Psychologically, postpartum depression is prone to due to hormonal changes, so it is especially important to take care of the mother at this time.
Psychologist Li Meijin once said that it is better to take care of her mother-in-law when her wife is ready to give birth. #春日生活打卡季#
Because during the confinement, the mother-in-law knows what the daughter-in-law likes to eat, knows what the daughter-in-law's temper is, and when the daughter-in-law is extremely weak physiologically and psychologically empty, she has a familiar mother to take care of, and the physical recovery will be better.
When Wang Bing's wife was about to give birth, his father broke his leg, and his mother had to take care of his father, but his father-in-law's current wife was a stepmother, not his wife's own mother, so after being entangled, he went to the confinement center to find a confinement sister-in-law.
The confinement center recommended a 58-year-old Aunt Liu, who met the requirements, and decided on the spot, and it was 5,000 yuan last month.
During the confinement period of her wife, Aunt Liu took care of her very carefully and meticulously, not only cooking delicious confinement meals for her wife, but also doing gymnastics for her wife to recover after childbirth, wiping her body, bathing her daughter, and washing her clothes.
When it was time to get out of confinement, Wang Bing was also very grateful to Aunt Liu, so he paid 8,000 yuan, of which 5,000 yuan was the salary and 3,000 yuan was the thank you fee, thanking Aunt Liu for taking care of her daughter-in-law and daughter so hard, Aunt Liu accepted it with tears in her eyes, and when she left, she hugged her daughter-in-law and kissed her daughter, and walked away step by step, feeling very reluctant to her wife and daughter.
And after the confinement sister-in-law left, when Wang Bing cleaned the bedroom, he found 10 bundles of 100 yuan tickets under his wife's pillow, and counted the entire 100,000 yuan, which was wrapped in a black money, which made Wang Bing feel very surprised.
You must know that his daughter-in-law will never put money indiscriminately, and there is not so much cash in the house, Wang Bing hurriedly called Aunt Liu, but Aunt Liu said: This money is left for your family, and there is a letter in it I will tell you the reason, this money is not much, I hope you will live a smooth life in the future.
And later found out the reason in this letter, it turned out that Aunt Liu was actually the mother of Wang Bing's daughter-in-law, she secretly ran away when Wang Bing's daughter-in-law was two years old.
Aunt Liu ran away and married a rich man, and gave birth to a son, and then the rich man died, she guarded her son together, I have been able to grow up with my son over the years, but I feel very guilty about my daughter, so I have been paying attention to my daughter.
Later, he knew that his daughter was about to give birth, so he volunteered to approach his daughter in the direction of his sister-in-law, and left 100,000 yuan for his daughter.
Aunt Liu felt very guilty about her daughter, her daughter was able to take care of her daughter after giving birth, and she also felt less guilty, 100,000 yuan hoped that her daughter could take care of her granddaughter well, and she could be more relaxed financially, and told Wang Bing that if there were any difficulties in the future, she could also contact herself.
Wang Bing felt like a dream, but remembered that he saw a news before, a woman attended the wedding of her adopted son and found that the bride was actually her lost biological daughter, that is, the world is so big.
After giving birth, confinement must achieve "three good" in order to make the mother recover better after childbirth
First: eat a nutritious diet
Good nutrition does not mean that you eat well, but to have a balanced nutrition, not only to eat rice, but also to eat some coarse grains, to avoid the mother to consume more calories after giving birth, the B vitamins in coarse grains also help the digestion and absorption of proteins, fats, and carbohydrates.
Second: Be in a good mood
After giving birth, the mother is prone to postpartum depression due to the drastic changes in hormones, so it is necessary to follow the mother's mood, the mother is in a good mood, the milk will be rich, in order to sleep soundly, in order to recover well.
Third: It is necessary to recover well after childbirth
During the period of confinement after giving birth, it can be said that the mother is the best time to recover after giving birth, and she can do some exercises suitable for postpartum recovery, such as pelvic floor muscle exercises, or small activities, which need the help of experienced confinement sisters.
Therefore, if the mother achieves the "three good" after giving birth, she can recover better after giving birth and the milk can be more nutritious.
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