In reality, many women's definition of success is to grasp their career with one hand and their family with the other, so that they can be regarded as reaching the pinnacle of life.
There are also women who simply think that marrying the right man is a winner in life, and so on.
In fact, life is very complicated, and it is not so simple.
A woman, if she wants to avoid failure in life, must avoid these 3 bad habits. It's not just about money and marriage.
01 Lack of cognition, resulting in a low ceiling in life
In reality, a woman has a low starting point and is not afraid. What I am afraid of is the lack of cognition, which leads to the upper limit of my life, which is very low.
It's like a frog that thinks he'll never be able to jump out of the well, so he doesn't jump it.
But in fact, if you jump seriously, you may go out.
This is the problem of cognitive limitations.
For example, some women bravely left their remote hometowns and went to big cities.
They learned a skill or two, and then successfully found a job of six or seven thousand. This is not much stronger than my hometown.
If you do a good job, you can get a salary increase. After a long time, you can still buy a house and save money.
There are also women who use their spare time to study on their own, and then improve their academic qualifications.
They came out of small places, saw big cities, adapted to big cities, and became more earners and broader-minded.
This is the upper limit of life that has been raised after the cognitive improvement.
Some women have a very unsmooth life and are uncomfortable.
But because my vision is too narrow, I always don't know how to change myself.
In the end, it leads to a life ceiling, which is very low. Very aggrieved.
02 Excessive self-denial
In reality, some women always deny themselves excessively.
Forget it if others hit her, she still hit herself. So as a result, I have no confidence in what to do.
Her life has not improved at all.
For example, some women have the ability, but they always tell themselves that they can't.
After a long time, I didn't dare to try new opportunities at work, and I missed a lot of opportunities for promotion and salary increase.
I don't dare to read, I dare not do things boldly, and I dare not face the challenges of life.
In life, I always belittle myself and lack self-confidence.
It's not good.
Some women are very timid, which is caused by lack of experience and excessive self-deprecation.
Don't be afraid, encourage yourself.
Only by being brave enough to try will you have new opportunities.
03 Suppressing one's needs excessively
In reality, each of us has our own needs.
If most of our needs can be met, then we will be happy. There are even needs that motivate us to work hard to make ourselves better.
Some women are very repressed about their needs. Or rather, sacrificing oneself for the sake of one's family.
This will be very depressing, and the quality of life will be low.
For example, some women clearly need to buy a house and a car, but they give all the money to their families.
Let my parents and younger brothers and brothers run to enjoy it.
Do you say that she is very depressed in her heart?
Also, excessive frugality in daily life and suppression of one's normal needs is also very painful, resulting in a very low-quality life.
In fact, whether a woman is successful or not is not based on the secular meaning, but how she feels and how she has a quality of life.
Excessive repression, excessive timidity, and low cognition can lead to a lack of quality in life.
Every woman should try to overcome them in order to have a better life.