Author: Wen Qiusheng
Original article, plagiarism must be investigated
01. Introduction
No one can tell whether there is right or wrong in a relationship. But everyone needs to pay for their own choices.
Betrayal is the greatest harm to both men and women.
If you have feelings for someone outside of marriage, if you can stop the precipice, turn back in time, and repair the relationship between husband and wife, you may be able to keep your happiness.
If you insist on going your own way, indulging in the warmth and care brought to you by people outside of marriage, the pressure and obstacles you will face are also unpredictable.
Some people, who betray their marriage, will never return to their families.
Women, who have the following behaviors outside of marriage, will not return to the family, and men should be careful.
02. A man outside of marriage treats her better and loves her more than her husband
Before, a reader named Zhong Ling confided in me:
She said she and her husband met on a blind date. After getting married, her husband was only busy with his own work and didn't care about her at all.
Once, she accidentally broke her foot at work, her husband never answered her phone, and it was her colleague who took her to the hospital.
In the hospital, colleagues accompanied her to see a doctor, waiting for her to do an examination and take a film.
Knowing that she was afraid of pain, he also bought chocolate to relieve her mood.
In this way, she developed feelings for her colleagues. The care and thoughtfulness that she could not feel in her husband was found outside of marriage.
The love for her husband in her heart has long been consumed. Coupled with the comfort brought to her by extramarital feelings, she involuntarily changed her mind.
At all times, a woman's heart is longing for warmth and pampering, and wants to be treated by a man.
If she has been ignored by her husband in her marriage and does not care about her feelings, a woman can easily be captured by thoughtfulness and tenderness outside of marriage.
A man outside of marriage treats her better and loves her more than her husband, and she will be willing to give her all for this relationship without fear of any test.
It is easy for a woman to fall into the gentle care of a man, especially when a woman has been treated indifferently in marriage.
Outside of marriage, when she meets someone who really loves her, a woman will want to firmly grasp the warmth she craves, and she will not look back at all.
03, gave birth to a child with a man outside of marriage
When a woman is merciful outside of marriage, it is easy to move her true feelings, especially after having a child with a man outside of marriage.
In "Children of the Qiao Family", Sun Xiaomo suffers from epilepsy.
She was very afraid that others would know that she was sick, so when Director Chen took the initiative to take care of her when she was sick, she became pathologically dependent on him.
Although later, she dated Qiao Erqiang and wanted to end the entanglement with Director Chen, but her heart has been wavering.
After marrying Qiao Erqiang, she still secretly had a tryst with Director Chen.
knew that he was not sincere enough to himself, but he still couldn't restrain himself.
In this torment and wandering, Sun Xiaomo found out that she was pregnant, and she filed for divorce from Qiao Erqiang to end this tangled state.
She doesn't care where she and Director Chen will go, but the child is her own, and she wants to keep the warmth that appears in her life.
If a woman gives birth to a child with a man outside of marriage, she will never return to the family.
Because, after conceiving a child, in a woman's heart, a man outside of marriage has become her dependence, and the child has become her family member.
She will treat the family she has placed outside of marriage as her new family and look forward to starting a new life.
Her heart is all bound by men and children outside of marriage, and she will not return to the family.
04. In order to be with a man outside of marriage, resolutely divorce
If a woman has an affair outside of marriage, if she can wake up in time, she may give up the wrong feelings and return to the family.
However, if she resolutely filed for divorce from her husband in order to be with a man outside of marriage, to fight against unknown pressures and obstacles, it means that her heart is all on extramarital feelings.
Zhang Ailing said: "Some people say that once a man changes his mind, the nine cows will not be able to pull it back, and it is difficult for a woman to change her mind, and the nine cows will be pulled back? ”
The relationship outside of marriage carries all her hopes and aspirations.
The beauty she experienced outside of marriage made her regain confidence and motivation in love and marriage.
With a man outside of marriage, she feels surrounded by sweetness and dreams, as if a happy life beckons to her, making her infinitely yearning.
She will be very resolute to shake off the original marriage and get rid of the life that makes her feel extremely depressed and boring.
Even if the road ahead is an adventure, she is fearless.
In order to pursue her new life, a woman resolutely divorces and gives up her past affection, which means that she will not look back.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
In married life, both spouses need to reflect on themselves in a timely manner.
Find out the problems and conflicts in getting along with each other in a timely manner, and actively solve them.
Try to take responsibility for your own marriage and meet your partner's heart's desires, so that she can see your growth and responsibility.
Manage each other's feelings with heart, maintain love, and maintain effective communication. Cherish the days you spend with each other and keep your happiness firmly in your own hands.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.