Author: Wen Qiusheng
Original article, plagiarism must be investigated
01. Introduction
True love is like fruit wine, the taste intoxicates you.
It's sweet, but it doesn't hurt, and it doesn't make you wake up painful after a hangover.
Not being loved is like a strong drink, which hurts the body and brings a lot of discomfort to people.
Those who love you give you the best. He will create a romantic and warm feeling, and he will also pay for you in a down-to-earth manner. Not loving, indifference and neglect everywhere.
A man, if you are given the feeling of not being loved, you must learn to stop losses in time.
Men make you have this feeling of "not being loved", please let go immediately, it's not worth it.
02. Don't respect you and never ask for your opinion
Once, we had dinner with our neighbors and talked about hanging out together the next day.
The man in the neighborhood talked a lot, saying that he was going to climb the mountain.
He said that there is a glass plank road over there, and there is a particularly beautiful scenery to see, and he is also very familiar with the road over there, and he can go there without navigating.
And his wife whispered: We will only have a day off in total, it is too tiring to go climbing, and it will be even more tiring to take care of a three-year-old child.
The man immediately turned his face and said that his wife would only pour cold water and not understand the amorous feelings.
He didn't listen to his wife's opinion at all, he just scolded her for talking too much, being too lazy, taking her out to play, and she was not satisfied.
My wife and I also saw that his wife's face was getting ugly and decided to reject the proposal.
That night, after the neighbor came home, we heard the man throwing a tantrum at her. Now, the relationship between the two of them is becoming more and more tense.
Women, a man who doesn't respect you means that he doesn't care about you.
Men don't respect you and don't ask for your opinion when they make any decisions. He doesn't value you and won't change his plans and decisions because of you.
I especially like "Yiyantang", he has the final say in everything, and you have to cooperate.
Such a man doesn't love you, so you don't have to blindly cater and compromise. He only cares about his own feelings and makes himself better.
03. I don't appreciate you, blame and consume you everywhere
Sun Xiucai in "Do You Know", he and his widowed mother's food and clothing depend on his wife Shulan's dowry.
But he doesn't know how to cherish his lover. He said that Shulan was "talentless, unattractive, dull and boring".
After leaving, she also said that she could only match a "pig killing and vegetable planting". is full of contempt for her, full of ridicule and ridicule, and a condescending posture.
Shulan also no longer endured, accusing him of being forgetful, immoral and unethical, and completely tearing his face with him.
For men who don't appreciate you, blame and consume you everywhere, the moment you leave, you will be liberated as soon as you leave.
There is a sentence in "Human Disqualification": "No matter who you are too enthusiastic about, it increases the probability of not being cherished." ”
When a man thinks that you are ignorant, can't do anything well, and can't do it right, then you probably don't love it.
If a man doesn't love you, he won't understand your goodness and feel that everything you do for him should be shared. No matter how enthusiastic you are about him, you can't get your sincerity back.
In the face of a man who doesn't love you, stop giving for him without asking for anything in return.
Because, he will only gain inches, bully you unscrupulously, and do not know how to cherish it.
The rest of your life is expensive, try to love someone who knows how to appreciate you and makes you feel worthy of love.
04. If you don't help you, you never care about your business
True love is not about words, but about what he is willing to do for you.
You have to observe whether he is willing to give up the opportunity to make money and help you tide over the crisis.
Can I sacrifice my rest time to accompany you, comfort you, and pull you out of the swamp of negative emotions.
Are you willing to do something to embarrass yourself, just to make your path smoother?
He loves you and will definitely give you a lot. He will also silently guard you, not wanting you to feel that you owe him a lot of affection.
If he doesn't love you, no matter how hard it is for you, he will turn a blind eye.
You ask him for help, and he has a myriad of excuses that he can easily refuse.
You are as anxious as an ant on a hot pot for one thing, and he doesn't feel your urgency at all. He is indifferent to your business, does not stand by, and does not want to get involved.
Such a man doesn't take you to heart.
When you have the feeling of not being loved, the man becomes a transparent presence in your life, and you don't have to keep him by your side anymore.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
I don't love you, I like to hit you and make you feel inferior. Habitually striking you, making you lose confidence and follow him with all your heart, without other hopes and expectations.
He wants you to follow him in everything, and never cares about your feelings. Won't do anything for you, just want you to be his help.
Men make you feel unloved, please let go immediately, it's not worth it. Don't be stupid and pay more, love yourself more, in order to have a better future.
Stay away from the one who consumes you and doesn't love you.
When you learn to let go, you will live more easily and comfortably.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.