If you bought the lower berth of a sleeper on a train, would you agree when an elderly person wants to swap seats with you?
When an old man wants to sit and rest on the lower bunk you bought, will you agree?
Event recap
Recently, some netizens posted a video complaining that on the sleeper of the train, young people hung curtains, resulting in the elderly having no place to sit.
It can be seen from the video posted on the Internet that in a sleeper car of the train, the young man who bought the lower bunk hung a curtain on the lower bunk.
And the old man took a video and complained: "Look at the young people, there are still curtains on the train, and the elderly in their 70s are not even allowed to sit." ”
So the old man posted the video on the Internet and asked everyone to comment, but what she didn't expect was that netizens did not stand on her side, but almost one-sided support for young people.
Netizens said that there is nothing wrong with young people, it is wrong for the elderly, and if the old man wants to sit in the lower bunk and rest, he can buy the lower bunk.
And netizens said that the lower bunk was bought by young people to rest, and if the old man sat on it, how could people rest, and they couldn't be morally kidnapped just because they were old.
If the elderly want to rest, they can sit in the aisle seats or go to their own upper bunk to rest.
A lawyer also spoke out publicly on this matter, saying that the right to use the lower berth is limited to the passengers who purchased the ticket, and if you want the lower berth passengers to transfer their rights, it should be based on the understanding and negotiation of both parties, rather than unilaterally imposing demands, because this is not an obligation that must be fulfilled, and what is more needed is mutual understanding and tolerance.
The lawyer's words are generally said that if the elderly want to sit in the lower berth to rest, they must consult with the passengers in the lower berth, and they must obtain the consent of the passengers in the lower berth.
Judging by the lawyer's words, it is completely unreasonable for the old man to post a video accusing the young man of not letting them sit in the bunk to rest.
The young man in question spoke out: The old man scolded directly without communication
The matter was boiling on the Internet, and just as public opinion was intensifying, the young man who hung the curtain on April 17 also spoke out publicly, and he told everyone the whole process of the incident.
The young man said that when he and his girlfriend arrived at the sleeper car, the old man was already sitting in their berth in the lower berth, and there were still many empty seats in the aisle of the sleeper car at that time.
Since they have a lot of things, I discussed with the old man and asked them to let them go, otherwise it would be inconvenient for them to pack their things.
As a result, the old man sat down directly on the young man's bunk, but the young man did not say anything until they began to hang the curtain, and the old man did not leave.
But what people didn't expect was that as soon as she stood up, the old man began to record a video, and called the two old men who were with her, and they scolded the young man loudly in the corridor together.
In the face of the old man's insults, the young man did not fight back, nor did he reason with them, but he was afraid that they would touch the porcelain, until the conductor came to take the old man away, and the old man kept scolding them in the carriage.
Moreover, the young man said that the old man refused to communicate at the beginning, and scolded him if he disagreed, and when they were abusive, the young man only had to respond with one sentence, and an old man would repeat loudly and directly: "Young man, don't say it again, don't you be so selfish, you won't be old in the future?"
As long as young people speak, they say these words, and they don't give young people a chance to speak at all.
At the same time, the young man said that he and the subject hung their own curtains, and did not occupy the entire space of the lower bunk.
The young man said that apart from the three old men, the others they met were fine.
Judging from the process of the young man's narration, the three old men were quite unreasonable and scolded directly if they didn't communicate, and the young people maintained their respect for the old man from beginning to end.
Experts encourage young and old people in the lower bunks to switch places
Experts suggest that the railway authorities consider the actual requirements of consumers of different ages and design a more user-friendly and comfortable riding environment.
At the same time, experts said that young people's pursuit of privacy should be respected and understood, but considering the actual situation of the elderly, if there are young people who can buy the lower berth, they should be encouraged to switch places with the elderly, and provide some convenience and help for the elderly.
At the same time, the expert also said that if the passengers who buy the middle and upper berths want to rest in the lower berth for a while, they should fully communicate with the lower berth passengers, and they can go to the lower berth for a short rest after getting the consent of the lower berth passengers.
Netizens also have a lot of discussions about the young and old people who are recommended by experts to buy the lower bunk.
Some netizens said that it is okay to change positions, but they have to make up the difference, otherwise young people will have to suffer.
Some netizens also said that experts should encourage the elderly to buy lower bunks.
Some netizens bluntly said that the current experts do not have so much prestige.
Some netizens even suggested that experts and ordinary people should change their pensions to provide some help and needs for the people
Some netizens suggested that it should be the reform of the railway company, and some of the lower berths can be left not to be sold, and it can be kept for the elderly.
Some netizens also said that experts should suggest that through big data analysis, the elderly or those with young children will be automatically matched with the lower bunk.
Write at the end
In the matter of hanging curtains, young people are completely right, the lower bunk is bought by them with money, and the right to use it should be theirs.
However, in the past, everyone may have defaulted to the fact that the lower bunk was a place for everyone to rest during the day, but now young people are increasingly pursuing personalization and privacy, and it is obvious that the elderly are not keeping up with the rhythm, so everyone should understand.
What do you think about this?