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Is the "grandfather and grandson love" that crosses the age gap true love supreme, or does it have other plans? This extremely gossipy news has aroused a heated discussion on the Internet.
It is said that for love, age is not a problem, but when the 85-year-old well-known calligrapher and painter Fan Zeng announced that he was tying the knot with a beauty with an age difference of nearly 60 years, it still caused waves in all walks of life.
This love story spanning the years has undoubtedly become the focus of public discussion, and has even been labeled as "grandson love", and the discussion has soared.
On the one hand, it is art, and on the other hand, it is life. As a well-known figure at home and abroad, Fan Zeng is an artist who has enjoyed outstanding achievements in the field of painting and calligraphy.
But his legendary love life is even more talked about.
Looking at Fan Zeng's emotional journey, I have to sigh that the merry and talented man is always amorous, and it is no exaggeration to use the word colorful to describe his ups and downs in his emotional history.
Before Fan Zeng announced his marriage with his wife in his old age, he had already experienced three marriages.
1. Fan Zeng's wonderful emotional history
Fan Zeng's first wife, Lin Xiu, the two were once known as the golden boy and girl in the literary and artistic world, which is a match made in heaven.
Fan was once well-known in the world of calligraphy and painting, and Lin Xiu was also an excellent calligrapher and poet.
The two met in their youth, knew each other, and had the same yearning and pursuit for art, complementing each other all the way, and forming a very high tacit understanding on the road of artistic creation.
Faced with two like-minded people, many had expected their union to be a good story and create a legend in the art world together.
But unfortunately, they were too young and vigorous at the time to withstand the trials of life and eventually parted ways.
For the young Fan Zeng, this failed marriage was undoubtedly a heavy blow and made him depressed for a while, however, life suddenly brought him a new light.
Fan Zeng's second wife Bian Baohua came into his life at this time and accompanied him out of the trough.
They have known each other since their early years, studying at the Central Academy of Fine Arts, and Bian Baohua has always had a crush on Fan Zeng.
When she learned that Fan Zeng was divorced, she had been silently accompanying Fan Zeng.
There was a lot of discussion about Bian Baohua taking the initiative to walk into Fan Zeng, and many people interpreted her move as taking advantage of the situation and being ashamed of the gentleman.
But it cannot be denied that her perseverance won Fan Zeng, and the two entered the palace of marriage.
But the emotional matter could not be forced, and the marriage between the two was finally shattered.
Fan Zeng's third wife, Zhang Guiyun, the union of the two is full of "legendary".
Zhang Guiyun's stage name is Nan Li, who was originally the wife of Master Fan Zeng's benefactor, and the two came together due to the involvement of fate.
Paper never caught the fire, and their underground secret love was finally discovered, which caused strong dissatisfaction among Fan Zengen, and the two also suffered a lot of spurned eyes.
It is this complex emotional entanglement that not only allows Fan Zeng to break with his benefactor, but also witnesses the drama of fate and life.
But this high-profile and hotly discussed relationship did not last long, and ended with Nanli's death.
Fan Zeng's fourth wife, that is, his little wife Xu Meng, who announced his marriage at the age of 85.
This marriage, which seems to outsiders to have a huge generation gap, has been talked about constantly.
2. Where is the sacredness of a wife?
As we all know, in traditional Chinese culture, marriage has always been regarded as an important celebration in life, and it is quite important, especially the marriage of celebrities, which is more eye-catching.
What kind of story is behind Fan Zeng's happy wife, which has always been curious to the public, after all, Nan Li, who Fan Zeng did not hesitate to marry at the expense of breaking with his benefactor, has only died for less than three years.
When Mr. Fan Zeng posted a surprising news on the Internet: three years after the death of his beloved wife Nan Li, he decided to embrace marriage again.
As soon as this news was released, it immediately caused an uproar.
After all, Fan Zeng is already 85 years old, and he has made extraordinary achievements and has a lot of money, and people are also curious about who his wife is.
Fan Zeng's new wife is named Xu Meng, who is about 60 years younger than him, and this age difference shocks people, and they jokingly call this relationship "grandson love".
It can be seen from the group photos circulating on the Internet that Fan Zeng's newlywed wife has a good face and a beautiful figure, and there is an obvious gap between her and Master Fan.
In the face of different opinions on the Internet, Fan Zeng appeared to say: his ex-wife Zhang Guiyun died of illness two and a half years ago, and since then, Xu Meng has been by his side.
The public has no way of knowing Xu Mengdi's specific identity, but the Internet can always reveal clues.
This enigmatic woman is said to have the aura of a high degree from Wuhan University.
Wisdom and beauty coexist, she not only graduated from higher education, but also worked in the modeling industry.
participated in the selection of the Miss International Chinese Contest and won the third runner-up, and even left a mark in the entertainment industry.
What puzzles the general public is why this person who can eat by virtue of his appearance or high education chose Fan Zeng, who is nearly 60 years older than him, to get married?
Fan Zeng said that in the three years since the death of his wife Nan Li, he unfortunately suffered from a slight cerebral infarction, which had a certain impact on his life and also led to the hindrance of artistic creation.
Just when Fan Zeng was in a difficult situation, Xu Meng was like a ray of sunshine shining into his life.
Xu Meng entered Fan Zeng's side under the introduction of the housekeeper and gave Master Fan meticulous care.
Xu Meng has a gentle personality and is meticulous and considerate, not only guiding Fan Zeng to come out of his deep grief in the past, but also often helping Fan Zeng deal with some trivial matters in life.
When Xu Meng learned that Fan Zeng's artistic creation was in a bottleneck, she encouraged Fan Zeng to create art and boldly inspire inspiration, and Xu Meng's warmth gradually touched Fan Zeng.
Moisturizing things silently, Xu Meng's support and encouragement helped Fan Zeng get out of the predicament, and his feelings became more and more firm and deep, and finally chose to spend the rest of his life together.
3. The unknowable is love or fame
The combination of Fan Zeng and Xu Meng is regarded by the world as a "love across generations", like a dazzling light, which instantly lit up the public's eyes.
The age difference between an 85-year-old man and a young woman in her twenties is very different, and people's evaluations are mixed.
Some people ridicule that as long as it is true love, age is not a problem, height is not distance, and some people speculate that there is an unknown story behind this "grandson love" with a difference of nearly 60 years.
There are people who have been running on the road to Rome all their lives, and there are people who were born in Rome.
Fan Zeng was born in Rome and had a proud net worth.
As a big man in the calligraphy and painting industry, Fan Zeng's skills are superb, his achievements are outstanding, and his assets are also eye-catching, and it is said that he has exceeded the one billion mark.
As the saying goes: wealth is moving, and in the face of such a rich property, the outside world has speculated that this marriage with a huge age difference is driven by money transactions.
After all, Xu Meng is just right and vibrant, in stark contrast to Fan Zeng, who is already old, it is difficult for people to believe that the two are truly in love.
Many people believe that behind Xu Meng's choice is the attraction of huge wealth. Fan Zeng's works are worth a thousand gold and can create a steady stream of wealth.
As a well-known artist in the field of calligraphy and painting, Fan Zeng is quite respected by the world and has a high social status, which can also provide Xu Meng with many resources.
Netizens expressed their opinions and labeled Xu Meng as a "gold worshipper", thinking that she was only seeking fame and fortune, and did not really treat Master Fan, who had a huge age difference with her.
It is difficult to reconcile the heavy mouth, and some people think that if a person drinks water, he knows whether he is warm or cold, maybe the two people have a good heart, and there are sincere feelings between each other.
Life is not a one-way mirror, and many of the stories behind it are unknown to others. What is the marriage between Fan Zeng and Xu Meng, only the two of them know.
Fourth, the difference between the giant age has aroused public opinion
From a traditional point of view, the choice of marriage between men and women is more about the union between peers, or perhaps the age difference between the two is smaller.
Although there is no shortage of men and women with a large age difference, the cross-generational Tilian still touches the sensitive nerves of the public.
As a spectator, I have no right to interfere and judge too much about the huge difference between Fan Zeng and Xu Meng.
But the heated discussion in society caused by this marriage between young and old, which is far apart, has made people see more debates and thoughts about "how love should be".
Fan Zeng was ruthless when he was young, and he had many pink beauties, and his emotional deeds were often mentioned.
Now, Mr. Fan, who is already in his old age, once again revealed that he and the young Xu Meng had a good relationship with Qin and Jin, which once again stimulated the public's discussion.
In today's rapid development of the times, the public's tolerance and acceptance are also getting higher and higher.
For Fan Zeng and Xu Meng's "grandson love", the public only lamented the huge age gap on a case-by-case basis.
Keep pace with the times, respect the emotional communication and interaction of different ages, and understand the emotional needs of the elderly.
epilogue
In this busy world, there is pressure from work, from the suppression of life, everyone wants to pursue a pure land and release the boredom in their hearts.
I often need some warmth to motivate myself to move forward bravely.
And love is the best stimulant, for a pair of lovers like Fan Zeng and Xu Meng who have been united over the years, the disturbances of the outside world can no longer interrupt their love and concern for each other.
Regardless of age, knowing the cold and the hot, staying together, and being able to experience the storm together is the real care and love.
Although life does not guarantee that there will only be one relationship, when the two truly achieve a soul fit, the joy at this time should be single-minded, and the marriage between the two will be more indestructible.
There is no real empathy in life, and it is probably impossible to judge the marriage choices of others, whether they are happy or not, as a bystander.